I mean, I have to give hats off to her.
I graduated college but still talked with a 20 year old HB8. She's great looking at a large state school; y'all know how that goes.
After our first date (kiss close), she said she's not interested in hanging again unless she "knows it's going somewhere." I gave the usual runaround that I'm just having fun and she can tag along if she wants to. I'm used to the faux maturity from 20 year olds so thought I had a handle on things.
After that we fucked 3-4 times last month. After the last time in bed, she brings up the what are we talk and I gave what I usually say. But I think I messed up by providing a bit too much validation (told her I liked hanging with her and wanted to keep seeing her). I though softening up a bit would prolong things but it backfired.
We got busy on alternating weekends for the past month so couldn't see each other. I wasn't pressed, had other girls and things in life genuinely going on. Tried to set plans for this weekend and she said she's "not looking for anything serious, she's way too busy and barely has time to breathe."
I told her I'm not into anything serious but haven't gotten a reply yet. I took the hint there.
Best plan of attack? Soft next and if she comes back she comes back? Don't think there's anything left to do. Most likely gonna focus on adding others to my fledgling rotation.