Girl played me pretty impressively

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November 1, 2019
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I mean, I have to give hats off to her.

I graduated college but still talked with a 20 year old HB8. She's great looking at a large state school; y'all know how that goes.

After our first date (kiss close), she said she's not interested in hanging again unless she "knows it's going somewhere." I gave the usual runaround that I'm just having fun and she can tag along if she wants to. I'm used to the faux maturity from 20 year olds so thought I had a handle on things.

After that we fucked 3-4 times last month. After the last time in bed, she brings up the what are we talk and I gave what I usually say. But I think I messed up by providing a bit too much validation (told her I liked hanging with her and wanted to keep seeing her). I though softening up a bit would prolong things but it backfired.

We got busy on alternating weekends for the past month so couldn't see each other. I wasn't pressed, had other girls and things in life genuinely going on. Tried to set plans for this weekend and she said she's "not looking for anything serious, she's way too busy and barely has time to breathe."

I told her I'm not into anything serious but haven't gotten a reply yet. I took the hint there.

Best plan of attack? Soft next and if she comes back she comes back? Don't think there's anything left to do. Most likely gonna focus on adding others to my fledgling rotation.


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Title Girl played me pretty impressively
Author WinterRice
Upvotes 84
Comments 67
Date 01 November 2019 01:51 PM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit askTRP
Link https://theredarchive.com/post/293582
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/dq4i6n/girl_played_me_pretty_impressively/
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[–]TSM_Bjergson 99 points100 points  (7 children) | Copy

I don't think the whole "you like hanging with her and wanted to keep seeing her" was a bad response to be honest.

It does sound like it's done though. She likely just has someone that is giving her more of what she's looking for at this time. Soft nexting is probably your best bet.

[–]WinterRice[S] 27 points28 points  (3 children) | Copy

Being disconnected from the college community made me forget that she's got literally thousands of options. Soft next is the plan for sure.

The reason I think saying that was a bad response, is because it was at its best when it was unspoken that I was just there to fuck her. She was cool with that but once I gave up even a little frame and practically said I liked her it went sideways.

[–]DerpJungler 11 points12 points  (0 children) | Copy

Have to learn our lesson:

Don't talk much after you cum

[–]KaiSmashSmashSawmash 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Scarcity

[–]Ill_mumble_that[🍰] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Funny how women have no idea how to say what they want.

She claims to desire commitment. But as soon as you show any signs of giving her that she bails.

My guess is she had a boyfriend and you were just for fun on the side. His comittment was less risky and she didnt want to mess that up with your competing volatile comittment

She's def a branch swinger but you've already shown too much disinterest.

Shell find someone else to cuck him with that keeps it pure sex.

A bullet dodged if you were catching feels

[–]006rbc 6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

She likely just has someone that is giving her more of what she's looking for at this time.

You can bet when shes close to graduating and sees OP set up with a job and house she'll be contacting him soon enough, but for now she still has a few more trips around the cc while in college.

[–]TheEvilTwin729 4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

Hardstuck NA

[–]KillaJewels 94 points95 points  (15 children) | Copy

Classic case of distrust. Your actions didn't align with your words. Giving all that validation was the mistake. She baited you and made you think it was a comfort test.

Her interest wasn't all that high to begin with, prob bc she saw right through your FB colors. Soft next is the move.

[–]RedSkeller 34 points35 points  (0 children) | Copy

This is the right answer, you need to soft next. Her interest level is low and she baited you for the juke. Any time a woman is "busy" it's "I'm too busy for you". Plain and simple. See ya. College chicks are probably peaking their SMV, so it's understandable, even though it sucks right now for you.

[–]WinterRice[S] 26 points27 points  (10 children) | Copy

That's a level of game that I hadn't experienced. I should've realized it was not actually a comfort test to keep me around, but that she was actually seeing through me the whole time.

Appreciate that insight.

[–]Sora26 22 points23 points  (8 children) | Copy

There’s more to the story that you’re not adding.

If all you said was that you “liked seeing her” and would like to “keep seeing her”.

I doubt that by itself would scare her away. I feel like you said more shit but just didn’t add it.

If that’s really all you said, then your mistake was not attempting to see her for a month afterward.

You say that you both were “busy” for a month.

Bullshit bro, nobody is “busy” for a whole month. You thought you were hot shit, because she expressed interest in being your GF, and were waiting for her to text you first, because you overplayed your hand.

(a part of you also probably took the sex with her for granted/thought you can get it anytime)

Now that you see that she had and still has no intention in texting/seeing you, you realize you don’t want to stop fucking her, and want to go back to how it was before this past month of you fumbling the ball.

We’re men. If we want to text a bitch, we do.

If you’re really here posting this, that means you wanted to text her sometime that month but your beta instincts took over and said “I don’t want her to think I’m thinking about her”. Only betas care about what a female thinks man.

This whole thing could have been solved with a simple “found this great seafood place close by. Pick you up at 7?”

Instead you waited a month, for the “I don’t text first” high school games.

If she’s a HB8 and you’re not a HB8+, you can’t ignore a girl for a month and expect her to keep interest.

People lose interest, and it looks like she genuinely wanted a relationship, and probably still does, just not with YOU anymore.

Your plate broke because you chose to leave it in the sink for a month without soaking.

Even when you KNEW she wanted a relationship, you didn’t accept the power she gave you, and instead threw the power right back at her, by refusing to give her the bare minimum.

Unless we look like Brad Pitt, or are seeing a women we know is below our league, We have to give the bare minimum.

Easiest way to get a girl OFF your hook is to stop giving her attention.

That’s your fault.

If you would have done the bare minimum, and when I say bare minimum, I mean the absolute bare minimum, she’d still be on your hook right now.

Soft next isn’t a bad move, but I doubt she comes back. Sounds like she’s already nexting YOU.

If you can somehow get her out to dinner “as friends”, you can probably reignite interest just because in person contact always does the trick.

But this might be better dealt with just by forgetting about her altogether and learning from this mistake.

If you really had abundance mentality, you wouldn’t have even cared in the slightest to make this post. You don’t have abundance mentality, and that was the mistake.

You played a hand you weren’t dealt, and now have to deal with the consequences.

Live and learn.

[–]smirk_addict 9 points10 points  (1 child) | Copy

You make some good points but why the dig about him posting? It’s fucking ASKtrp. If everyone was perfect alphas and had perfect game, no one would post here.

[–]Sora26 5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

Good point.

No dig on him posting! Just a reality check.

We all fail to keep our frame when it comes to abundance mentality. We’re working against our own biology here.

Just letting him know that in the instant that he posted this, he was failing.

This wasn’t general advice, this was specific advice about a specific woman.

That by definition is lacking abundance mentality.

Which in and of itself, is only a symptom. But not having it is an indication that there was more to the story than he might have shared.

We all do it, but it’s good to let a fellow brother know when he’s fucking up.

That’s just the way I see it, at least.

[–]Project_Zero_Betas 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

then your mistake was not attempting to see her for a month afterward.

This is where OP went wrong. His girl saw through him with this

[–]GoldenHusky 0 points1 point  (4 children) | Copy

Shouldn't we employ dread and not text first?

[–]Sora26 4 points5 points  (3 children) | Copy

Well yes, but for a month? With a girl you know wants to be your GF?

You have all the power there, why would you give it up?

As long as you’re literally just “around”, she’ll be stuck on that hook.

everything is situational.

If she’s not texting you first after a week or two, you just man up and tell her you’re taking her out.

Don’t ask either, you’re telling her what the plan is. The bus stop is leaving. She can hop on or miss it.

Females live behind ambiguity, you want to force them give you a yes or no answer.

Instead of “hey are you free anytime this week?”

You want to aim for “hey can you be ready by 8 tonight? we’re going to this bomb restaurant I want to try near by”

You’ll continue to peek her interest and smash for as long as you put in the bare minimum.

But if you just play the “I’m not texting first” game. You’ll end up like this guy who waits a month because he didn’t assess the situation correctly, and has to deal with the fact that a good plate broke.

Women are weak, if she hasn’t found an excuse to text you within a week and a half, the plate is breaking.

If you don’t mind it breaking that’s one thing, but clearly OP is shocked that it did, and obviously wishes it didn’t.

He won’t be shocked the next time, cause he won’t let it go that far

[–]WinterRice[S] 1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

Just wanna say I appreciate your replies above, you gave it to me straight.

I didn’t leave anything out, I think you’re right and the main thing was not hitting her back for a month.

Not anything I’ll lose sleep over but I shouldn’t have been surprised it went this way. Will tweak this moving forward

[–]Sora26 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

You’re winning already, because I can tell you gave up your ego, and have accepted what we all should; which is that we can’t know everything, and actually usually know nothing.

“You know nothing, Jon Snow” lol

I let my ego go a long time ago, and the amount I’ve grown since has been crazy.

[–]WinterRice[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yessir. Things were way too easy when I was still on campus so I’m adapting to post grad life. Being apart of the real world made me drop my pride in almost every facet of life which I’m thankful for.

Thanks again my man

[–]Domebeers 10 points11 points  (0 children) | Copy

they always test for congruency. Always. That's why, whatever your frame is, you have to maintain it. If you are "I'm so tough" but your actions don't align, their brains are developed to pick up on that. They vet too.

[–]PythonInterp 2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

She might also be basically monogamous. Some girls are.

[–]Project_Zero_Betas 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

You would never guess that reading here sometimes

[–]rockyp32 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

What do you mean by distrust? Why would she bait

[–][deleted] 26 points27 points  (8 children) | Copy

Wtf. This is way too much mental game bullshit, this bitch sounds mad annoying to deal with. Next her. Shit shouldn't be as complicated as you and her are making it to be. Not worth the time or energy

[–]cat_magnet 4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yep..... "hey guys I don't have oneitis but there is this one girl"

[–]empatheticapathetic 4 points5 points  (6 children) | Copy

I know. Who could give such a shit? Unless you were truly indifferent in the first place, then he wouldn’t be in this mess.

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (5 children) | Copy

I was completely lost halfway through this post, lol. The mental Gymnastics are insane

[–]BeLeafer_1967 1 point2 points  (4 children) | Copy

Why does dating gotta be like this man. Fuck this shit

[–]dimmy666 3 points4 points  (3 children) | Copy

It doesn't have to. You can literally ignore all mind games and still get results.

Maybe not 100% optimal results, but think of how many headaches you save...

[–]BeLeafer_1967 2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

True man. I don’t care about dating right now or casual shit I’m just fine doing me. I’ll never settle for mind games and bullshit power dynamics. You either like each other or you don’t. Doesn’t have to be so complicated

[–]the1pope 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

That's the Red Pill brother. Sexual strategy is amoral

[–]smirk_addict 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

This is my life. The girls I have are good to me but I don’t have any smoke shows at the moment. Of course that’s what I want but when you have girls in your life that don’t try to bullshit you and genuinely appreciate your time, it’s hard to tolerate any less.

[–]askmrcia 13 points14 points  (23 children) | Copy

Sounds like you gave her only hookup vibes.

She either only wanted to hookup too and used the whole "busy" and "not looking for something serious" excuse to end things with you.
Or she found another guy that she was attracted too.

What did you want out of this? You got bang a couple of times so what else did you want?

[–]Greek-God-Brody 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

I've had this happen recently. On the contrary, he did not give hookup vibes.

But I think I messed up by providing a bit too much validation (told her I liked hanging with her and wanted to keep seeing her). I though softening up a bit would prolong things but it backfired.

This is where he screwed it big time.

[–]WinterRice[S] 0 points1 point  (21 children) | Copy

That's a valid question. To be honest I thought I could keep getting lays out of it. But yeah, it ran its course.

[–]askmrcia 12 points13 points  (19 children) | Copy

Something to keep in mind, very few women are only going to want keep hooking up with a guy and get nothing out of it.

This is why plates, flings, FWBs don't last long. Eventually it will fall off like what happened with you because they will want more from you (your attention)

[–]WinterRice[S] 4 points5 points  (2 children) | Copy

Probably a dumb question then, but what if hypothetically I was trying to make her a main plate in this situation. She wasn't of that quality, but just a question. Main plate being a girl I was fucking but also taking out and spending slightly more quality time with then another girl.

You would set that tone early right? Is that equally unsustainable? Just not recommended?

[–]askmrcia 6 points7 points  (1 child) | Copy

Not a dumb question. This is college and chances are she has other guys on her radar too.If you were trying to make her a main plate, it could have worked. I say "could have" because none of us know for sure.

If you had been taking her out and spending more time with her then yea it could have lasted a little longer. That way she wouldn't feel like a straight up ho because the guy she is banging sees her more then just a fuck toy. This will last as long as you were her number one option. If you were her number one option then she'll start pushing for a relationship.... eventually.I truly feel like in your case this was going to end eventually. You could have made it last a little longer after a few more bang sessions at most had you played potential LTR game, but that's it. Since it's college she would have found someone else.

[–]WinterRice[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

It's definitely a little column A and column B.

On the one hand, after our first fuck sesh we got breakfast. The next few times she tried to hang again the next day but I bounced early/had things going on.

Like you said, this would have stretched things out but it would've came to and end all the same.

Thanks for the replies and advice.

[–]ToraChan23 3 points4 points  (15 children) | Copy

very few women are only going to want keep hooking up with a guy and get nothing out of it.

What do you mean "get nothing out of it"? The women are getting sex worth having. Stop believing women need to "get" something other than the sex they are getting.

[–]askmrcia 4 points5 points  (7 children) | Copy

Let me know when you find multiple women that will keep coming to your place at the drop of the hat for sex and sex only. Let me know if you have friends with benefits that lasts years.

They use sex to get something. Very few women are just going to have sex with a guy leave then come for sex and leave and repeat that process while not getting anything out of it.

[–]ToraChan23 2 points3 points  (6 children) | Copy

There are very few, but their numbers are increasing with time after this sexual revolution we had. Not saying these arrangements last long, but women don't "need" anything other than sex to have sex with you.

Plenty of women even brag about fucking the shit out of dudes and that's it. It's a new world we are living in.

[–]askmrcia 3 points4 points  (5 children) | Copy

Not saying these arrangements last long, but women don't "need" anything other than sex to have sex with you.

That's at first. And a lot of times they do because they get validation having sex with a high value guy. It's why you have so many hb5s thinking they are hot shit because some B level pro athlete fucked them one time.

They have sex one time with the guy in a ons and it's over. Maybe a two more afterwards.

If they keep having sex with the guy and nothing else comes out of it (dating, attention, validation) then they will push for something more.

Yea I get your point with the sex revolution but as we are seeing a lot of these ladies can't maintain that lifestyle. They aren't wired too.

The women that sleep around a lot are getting pumped and dumped because they are stupidly using sex to try and lock down a guy. The girl's that are bragging about it are doing it to save face. Meaning they are bagging because they can't admit that they are a ho.

ONS is one thing because yes in that instance they (the girl) just want fun.....

But even that is rare because you the guy still have to put in work to get that ons. More work then her. Not only that we still see many instances when a girl has a ons she feels bad about it (aka she didn't get her validation, attention afterwards) and wants to cry that she's been assaulted.

[–]ToraChan23 2 points3 points  (4 children) | Copy

They have sex one time with the guy in a ons and it's over. Maybe a two more afterwards.

Okay, what's the problem?

If they keep having sex with the guy and nothing else comes out of it (dating, attention, validation) then they will push for something more.

Then don't give it to them, and let them walk. If you're only out for sex, why would you give MORE just to get the same thing you were already getting? A thing you can also get from other women?

Yea I get your point with the sex revolution but as we are seeing a lot of these ladies can't maintain that lifestyle. They aren't wired too.

I never said they were. I only disagreed with the idea that women "get nothing" out of sex. They do; THE SEX. For a limited time, however, so when they get tired of it, let them walk.

The girl's that are bragging about it are doing it to save face. Meaning they are bagging because they can't admit that they are a ho.

Being a hoe today isn't what it meant 10 years ago. many women champion being hoes, which is great for men who only want sex.

Deal with THOSE women if you're only out for sex.

[–]askmrcia 0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy

Okay, what's the problem?

Nothing

Then don't give it to them, and let them walk. If you're only out for sex, why would you give MORE just to get the same thing you were already getting? A thing you can also get from other women?

That's literally the point I made in my original comment. It's why I said they don't last

I never said they were. I only disagreed with the idea that women "get nothing" out of sex. They do; THE SEX. For a limited time, however, so when they get tired of it, let them walk.

The second sentence you didn't say that at first. So we agree

[–]ToraChan23 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

The second sentence you didn't say that at first. So we agree

This was the first comment I made in this thread:

What do you mean "get nothing out of it"? The women are getting sex worth having. Stop believing women need to "get" something other than the sex they are getting.

[–]no_its_a_subaru 0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy

Yea but do you honestly think you’re the only man that can give it good.....? The extras is that keep them coming back to you

[–]ToraChan23 -2 points-1 points  (2 children) | Copy

Good dick is enough to keep them coming back. You should know this.

They will keep coming back until they find someone better who NEEDS to give them extra or is just better than you overall. At that point you've already had your fun, so who cares?

[–]no_its_a_subaru 3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy

Wrong. The illusion of something better will make plates fall off. That’s why sprinkling in comfort and attention keeps women hooked. They will leave for some guy who will provide an abundance of attention and once they gorge themselves with attention they will get bored and go back to riding your dick.

Women need to be managed like safari lions. Safari lions are on starve day / feed day cycles or more accurately mimic their natural feeding conditions. You starve women of your affection and from time to time you provide comfort and care. You can’t just starve the lion and expect it it to die; in turn you can’t just fuck women and be shocked when they leave. It’s easy to keep plates spinning for a long time I’m you know what you’re actually doing. Go read the fucking sidebar.

[–]ToraChan23 -3 points-2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Wrong. The illusion of something better will make plates fall off. That’s why sprinkling in comfort and attention keeps women hooked. They will leave for some guy who will provide an abundance of attention and once they gorge themselves with attention they will get bored and go back to riding your dick.

Why is that a problem? If all you want is sex, why would you provide comfort and attention? You're already getting what you're looking for. And if they get bored and "go back to riding your dick", then what's the problem?

If you wanted to buy something that costs $20, why would you give them $40? If a woman is giving you sex, and that is all you want, you have no reason to give her anything else.

in turn you can’t just fuck women and be shocked when they leave. It’s easy to keep plates spinning for a long time I’m you know what you’re actually doing. Go read the fucking sidebar.

That is the goddamn point. Who gives a fuck when they leave?

When did I say that I gave a fuck when they left? If you knew how to fucking read, I asked the OP why did he care whether or not she came back if he had other girls who didn't leave and that he was still fucking?

If you only want sex, and you're getting it, and able to get it from other women, who cares when one leaves? Actually read and comprehend what I'm saying instead of assuming what I'm saying so you don't continue sounding like an idiot.

[–]inittowinit777 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

Read Briffault's Law dude, you're completely wrong.

[–]ToraChan23 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

I don't base my reality solely on laws and rules, dude.

While I get and understand BL, that isn't to say women don't simply enjoy fucking just to fuck. Eventually they will need more (ala Briffault's Law), but you are not forced to give it to them.

If a woman wants to fuck you out of pure desire or a combination of other things, she will fuck you. You don't have to take her out, compliment her, meet her friends, give her shit, etc. She will fuck you.

Will she get tired of it? Yes. Will she ask for more? Yes. But then you just let her walk if you don't want to give it.

[–]inittowinit777 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

If a woman wants to fuck you out of pure desire or a combination of other things, she will fuck you. You don't have to take her out, compliment her, meet her friends, give her shit, etc. She will fuck you.

This is absolutely true, and I agree with you on this. It's like what Chris from GLL said: "If she was down to fuck you on the 3rd date, then she was down to fuck you on the 2nd date. If she was down to fuck you on the 2nd date, then she was down to fuck you on the 1st date. If she was down to fuck you on the 1st date, then she was down to fuck you within 20 minutes of meeting you."

[–]Lambdal7 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

This.

She clearly told you she only wants something serious. You clearly showed her that you don’t. Now, she lets you fade out because that’s not what she wants.

Most college girls dont want to fuck 20 men until they graduate.

[–]ToraChan23 6 points7 points  (1 child) | Copy

After that we fucked 3-4 times last month.

Story should've ended here.

Best plan of attack? Soft next and if she comes back she comes back? Don't think there's anything left to do. Most likely gonna focus on adding others to my fledgling rotation.

Best plan to attack what, exactly? Why do you care if she comes back? Remember, this is YOU:

"I wasn't pressed, had other girls and things in life genuinely going on."

Sounds like you have more feelings for this girl than you're letting on, and you're butthurt that she is blowing you off.

[–]WinterRice[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Poor wording. I suppose I was asking how I could leave the door open down the line. But even then you’re right, if I’m truly just focused on myself it doesn’t matter.

[–]MR_SKINNYPENIS69 6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

I was expecting a good story from the title and got this boring non thing.

She didn't play you. You got what you wanted. Soft next.

[–]-ThePathIsTheGoal- 5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yeah she’s secured someone else. Soft next, when her and him breakup, and they will, she’ll back back.

[–]Senior Endorseddr_warlock 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

The girl dropping out doesn't mean you failed. You can use textbook game and it will still happen. Women have fluctuating desires with countless options (especially the hot ones) that each fulfill a different emotion/taste ie comfort, excitement, money, confirm low self-image guy, foreign guy, etc.

Most hot women are volatile like this because of too many options. It's the nature of the beast. Keep maintaining the pipeline you claim to have and you will be fine. The fact you made this post suggests she was one of if not the hottest in your stable. She then jumped the fence and ran to another guy's ranch to eat his hay.

[–]SpinPlates 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

After that we fucked 3-4 times last month.

What are you talking about? You won this one dude. You smashed. It's over. You won.

She's another notch on your headboard and you're another scar on her bodycount. You will most likely run into her in 3 or 4 years and start hooking up again.

Soft next now and expect eaaaaaasy pussy in 3 years. Or go no contact and expect her to message you in a month or two.

[–]PhaedrusHunt 3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Some plates drop. Some plates break when they drop. Some you can super glue back together. Some you fling off into the distance like a frisbee.

7.5% of the people in the world are women age 25-29. Why you trippin bout one?

Source https://data.worldbank.org/indicator/SP.POP.2529.FE.5Y

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yup, soft next, wait for her to come back. You gave her way too much info with very little effort on her part. You're going to find it difficult to keep girls around and enjoy your relationships with them unless you start getting better at learning what they're trying to say. Don't overthink it, it isn't a major problem but a point of learning, be more like water, fluid, untrappable in your responses, unfazed by the state around you, shaping it, still strong and focused on where you're going

[–]Zanford 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

It's super common for girls to pull a 'no u' as an ego protection mechanism (online you can find lots of text screencap where the guy dumps the girl, and then she acts like she's dumping him). In this case she's just throwing back 'not looking for anything serious' at you.

I really doubt you broke her heart or anything, it doesn't sound like she was ever super into you (but nice work on the F closes) and the newness of hooking up with you wore off, and/or she met someone who's a more promising lead (higher SMV, and or same SMV but gives her 'more', like lets her say She Has A Boyfriend). Very unlikely that it would help to say 'okay okay we can be a relationship'; that would probably hurt.

You should ghost, enjoy the memories of the few fucks you had, and in the event she does hit you up again, cool. (But be realistic, there's a good chance she'll fucked or blown some other guy in the meantime.)

[–]anicebigrodforyou 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

sounds like you had a good run, brother.

[–]masterpiece00 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

I never told her I was looking for something serious.

I told her I'm not into anything serious

[–]WinterRice[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Yeah, as in she texted me saying she doesn’t want anything serious even though I’ve never indicated or said that I did. So I followed up by saying I’m not into anything serious.

My bad for a convoluted telling of events, wasn’t expecting a lot of replies originally. I removed that part for clarity



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