We have a lot of newcomers here who probably have not been exposed to the late comedian and god of game Patrice O'Neal.

Part of swallowing the pill is releasing yourself from egalitarian ideals. Being equals in a relationship is a road straight to inevitable failure. I'm sure a lot of you new guys come from such relationships where you praised how you and your girlfriend were equals, only to have her gravitate towards some other guy... who was better than her.

In any case, here is a clip from Patrice O'Neal's "The Black Phillip Show" in which he explains this idea of inequality. All the while, he holds impeccable frame. Very aggressive, assertive, and doesn't back down from the point he's making. This clip is chock full of greatness. Listen to how he interacts with the women shit-testing and trying their best to defeat his idea. Comical.