Stats: 7/10 Body Fat is 15%, 6'2, weight 170 and lifts about every other say, max is 155, hope to increase by 175 in a month.

Reading: 8.5/10 Improving on reading Bible everyday and I have NMMNG, but I have not been consistently reading NMMNG Finances: No job, currently senior at college but graduating with a bachelor and minor; I do have promising prospects in my field, most likely will be earning 60,000 1st year with what I have set up

Spiritual: 8/10. I read bible daily but not enough quiet time, want to be more spiritual and grow closer to God. Its rare for me to go a day without prayer. I never go a day without thinking of God.

Was it wrong for me to feel and think she liked the dude? To make a long story short, suspected gf has feeling for a guy we met on a group trip, we were dating and she spent a lot of one on one time with Him in the midst of our group (by that I meant they were outside together but not in a secluded room), they would swim together, play ping pong and basketball for long periods of time without me in their proximity. I got jealous and came to both of them about it, primarily my girl as she wasn’t stopping his advances and didn’t tell him that we were seeing each other until afterwards she told him that “they should respect each other because me and her are getting serious and because He has a gf” she even asked me during the trip if she could hang out with him... The dude confided in her about his past pain and life story, she was helping him through it personally (even though he has a gf) I was telling my gf its not her place to be his emotional support, its bad for our relationship and his.

She eventually got His number through the groupchat back when we were on the group trip, which again only lasted a week and she continues to text Him and feed the close relationship she claims to have with him. we got into a lot of arguments over it and she eventually slowed down her texts to Him.

Recently his grandfather died and she start breaking down and crying in tears, (I was surprised as she isn’t one to cry usually unless she is overwhelmed, her family relatives has died before in the past and she hasn’t shown this much sorrow) She was crying for him and how much pain He’s going through so much so she told me that we should hang out tomorrow because it was too much for her, she eventually changed her mind as she saw the look on my face as I was getting ready to leave.

I am leaving out a lot of details but there are so many subtle cues and hints based in their relationship with the guy that she is attached to Him, I asked her how close she is to the guy and she gave me a fit about how she has adamantly told me she doesn’t like Him but I feel and sense the closeness to a dude she only met for a week in person, its strange so we ended up breaking up. She wanted to take a break, she deleted his contact and info and said we’re done. I told her not to but to just hear me out, I was trying to explain what I was seeing but my words weren’t reachign her, she didn’t even respond to all the claims I was making because I was asking her to explain what I saw

Am I wrong for following my gut and thinking this is strange?