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Fucked up big time

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December 31, 2019
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I got my girl pregnant and she wants to keep the baby. She even said that she would go back to Africa and raise the kid there. Now I am confused since I am only 19 and I don't know what to do.

I live in Europe btw.


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Title Fucked up big time
Author hoopingblob
Upvotes 99
Comments 168
Date 31 December 2019 05:09 PM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit askTRP
Link https://theredarchive.com/post/303759
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/ei5mf3/fucked_up_big_time/
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[–]RunawayGrain313 points314 points  (55 children) | Copy

Get a DNA test.

[–][deleted]  (52 children) | Copy

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[–]Sora26-5 points-4 points  (51 children) | Copy

“I’ll go back to Africa and raise the kid there”

Ok, perfect.

Don’t let it be known that this idea gives you relief, otherwise she’ll probably change her mind.

Regardless, think about it. You did your job from a biological standpoint. You spread your seed. IF there are no repercussions from that decision (she goes back to Africa), then take the W and walk away.

At the end of the day, it’s her idea, and it just so happens to work in your favor as well. Considering you’re not ready to be a father.

[–]realdealdawg108 points109 points  (31 children) | Copy

This isn't red pill advice. This is called how to be a shit father and not care to raise your child

[–][deleted] 10 points11 points  (9 children) | Copy

I thought Red Pill was amoral?

[–]realdealdawg21 points22 points  (8 children) | Copy

It is but it's also about being the best MAN you can be. and in this case to me that means owning your shit and handling the results of your actions. Just my opinion as a 22 year old dude

[–]KarmicPrism4 points5 points  (5 children) | Copy

Can't argue with that. Your frame for being 22 y/o, is juicy.

I think as men, we should handle our responsibilities. Unfortunately (or fortunately) we don't live in tribes in the middle of the woods like that guy may think, and our actions have very real consequences, and being a good man means addressing them-- just saying " I did my job spread the seed, oops." ain't gonna cut it, cause.....watch child support take his caveman thinking ass for a nice, no-lube ride.

Now if she wants to go to Africa, and you don't mind not seeing your child anymore/it being raised in Africa, plus assuming both parents are on board with the plan.... I don't see how that's completely negative, except it's not ideal for the child growing up without a stable father figure possibly fated to be as blue pill as they come.

[–][deleted] -2 points-1 points  (4 children) | Copy

Well, why is no stable father your problem?

[–]SomaNoob7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy

The amount of guys that have to come here because they had no stable father figure is astounding. That's why it's a problem.

[–]KarmicPrism4 points5 points  (2 children) | Copy

Because there will be no constant masculine guidance in his life.

[–][deleted] -1 points0 points  (1 child) | Copy

But you've consciously chosen to have nothing to do with the kid so that's immaterial, and you're assuming till be a boy too.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

How is raising and paying for a kid you don't want being the best man you can be? By your logic, "owning your shit" is admitting to a crime you otherwise would get away with. It looks like he has a way out.

[–]quijote30006 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

Agreed

[–][deleted]  (14 children) | Copy

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[–]Sora2622 points23 points  (13 children) | Copy

Exactly my point.

Clearly the man isn’t ready to be a father.

When a man isn’t ready to be a father, he’s a dumbfuck bum, who should have never had sex to begin with.

When a girl isn’t ready to be a mother, and sucks her baby out. She’s a hero, “sex isn’t about children”, and society applauds like no tomorrow.

Fuck man, we could never win. Even when the girl offers to take the kid back to Africa, somehow the man is still getting blamed for a solution SHE proposed.

Holy shit..

[–]Chi-Tony6 points7 points  (5 children) | Copy

Some of the commenters sounds a little crazy. But I do agree with you somewhat... If a girl has the right to decide if she wants to keep the baby or not than a man should have those same rights.

[–]Sora265 points6 points  (4 children) | Copy

At the very least, some sort of financial release of taking care of a baby if you decide you don’t want it in a timely manner (don’t sign the birth certificate).

I brought this up to my professor one time and she threw a hissy fit.

All I said was “women get to plan their parenthood, and how their future family looks. Men don’t.”

[–]Chi-Tony0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy

Ya I have to agree. If a woman can flat out terminate the baby then a man should at least be able to opt out of being financially responsible.

[–]Sora2610 points11 points  (0 children) | Copy

It makes more and more sense the more you think about it.

If a woman wants to keep a child, but the other party does not want to keep it, why should one party pay for the others decision?

At the end of the day, it is a decision, right? Hence, the choice in “pro-choice”.

If a girl I slept with wanted to buy a Porsche, and I didn’t, should we split payments on a Porsche?

“A Porsche and a baby are not the same thing”.

Actually, when I opted out, the baby wasn’t a baby yet, according to y’all, It was a “cluster of cells.”

Using societies logic, the choice to KEEP IT made it a baby. If the father had no say in that choice, or wanted the opposite, then the burden of that choice falls on the one who MADE it (the woman).

Just sounds retarded. If we never wanted to be parents, why are we forced too? And if we’re forced too, why aren’t women held to that standard, as well? (Banning abortion).

[–]Nastynatee1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

My man 🍃

[–][deleted]  (6 children) | Copy

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[–]Massap240 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy

You understand this is illegal af right? OP doesn’t have a kid then gets a life sentence

[–]Sora260 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

Yeah IK, it’s just a joke to point out the hypocrisy of the world we live in right now.

It’s 2020, and men still can’t plan their parenthood. This was solved in 1973 for women..

[–]Massap241 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

I agree men should have more options when it comes to child birth and a reasonable way of being uninvolved without fucking over the child. But be real it’s not that hard to not bust a nut in a bitch. And honestly should we really be defending OP so much when he barely even tried not to have the kid? You act this retarded you get, what you get.

[–]Sora260 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Yeah that’s facts. No harm no foul. Just a cluster of cells, right? No different than taking a shower.

[–]_Icarus_Reborn_0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Sneaking any kind of abortifacient and getting caught is a slam dunk prison sentence for a murder charge in most European countries (I assume).

Would definitely not recommend that. If OP isn't going to be in the kids life and be active (he should), her going back to Africa is he's best shot, and learn a lesson here.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Also +1 on the how to be a shitty father posts. You're not red pill, you're just a dumb kid.

[–]rockyp32-1 points0 points  (3 children) | Copy

How is that a shit father man? Most dudes aren’t ready to have kids and yet we have a higher sexual drive then woman but yet at the same time carry the most risk from having sex. So it’s either be fkin celibate or try to be safe and hope the girls don’t keep it.

[–]illogicaldecision5 points6 points  (1 child) | Copy

If you aren't ready to have a kid then wrap that shit, wtf. Don't blame the girl for your mistakes, that's not what a man does.

[–]rockyp320 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

We’re talking about wrapping and she still keeps it

[–]power_cleaner1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

That’s a really shit father you pay for consequences every time you have sex.

[–][deleted]  (18 children) | Copy

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[–]Sora266 points7 points  (12 children) | Copy

Oh cmon bro

None of that pls. That’s not what TRP is.

[–][deleted] -4 points-3 points  (11 children) | Copy

Dude it's the fuckin truth and you know it...

[–]Sora264 points5 points  (10 children) | Copy

I mean, not really.

I think if there is a difference in average IQ, which admittedly, studies have obviously shown there is slight variations by race, but the variations are honestly too small to make a noticeable impact.

Plus, according to these studies, White people would be ranked behind Middle easterners and Asians...

So imagine if an Arab guy called you (assuming you’re white) “low IQ genetics”.

Doesn’t feel so good, I bet.

[–][deleted] -1 points0 points  (9 children) | Copy

I'll stick to the truth.

[–]Sora264 points5 points  (8 children) | Copy

The truth that your belief system is based off specific studies that show Black people, on average, have lower IQs than White people (by negligible amounts)..

.. But don’t want to accept the SAME conclusions from those EXACT studies that show Middle Easterns and Asians are rated highest in IQ?

So you want to accept half the research, but not the other half?

That’s not truth. You’re just being racist.

[–]realdealdawg0 points1 point  (5 children) | Copy

You downvoted my response to you but in reading your comments you seem like a logical guy. I just think accountability and planning are major issues that manifest themselves in situations like this.

[–]Flux_7-5 points-4 points  (1 child) | Copy

It’s not by negligible amounts at all. A lot of Black ethnicities have noticeably lower IQs on average.

Then you get into the higher predisposition to violence, aggression, etc.

Mixing white genes with black genes is going to lower the overall gene pool quality. Race mixing is gross.

Stop lying, you sensitive faggot.

[–]Massap240 points1 point  (4 children) | Copy

Who said she was poor? Lol

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy

Well, what's the average salary of an african and we can make educated guesses right?

[–]Massap243 points4 points  (2 children) | Copy

The average salary of an entire continent over 1 billion people. Hmm that will really help us determine if one person that we don’t know a damn thing about is poor!!!

[–]Flux_70 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Yeah, Africa is fucking poor and reliant on whites and Chinese for their economic and technological growth.

[–]Massap242 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Facts or statistics to back this up? So every person that lives in Africa is poor? You guys need to get out more lol. Closeted ignorant dumb asses, there are plenty of middle class Africans.

Edit: just looked at your post history, never mind troll lol

[–]theyearsstartcomin12 points13 points  (0 children) | Copy

And stds

[–]Yashugan002 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

chances are there is no baby. she's going back and wants to slap you with a "pay for abortion" shtick

[–]ApdoSenpai113 points114 points  (14 children) | Copy

Happy New Years bud congrats.

Really though: Make sure it’s yours and then go for there.

[–]hoopingblob[S] 22 points23 points  (13 children) | Copy

That's really not how I planned my NYE

[–]draino_soup1132 points133 points  (10 children) | Copy

Should’ve wore a condom then bud

[–]Onein1024th36 points37 points  (1 child) | Copy

That's really not how I planned my NYE

no self awareness. he didn't plan which is how he got into this

[–]Tousen712 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

This.

[–]Endorsed Contributorvandaalen1 point2 points  (6 children) | Copy

... or just pulled out. I'll never understand how somebody can be retarded enough to nut inside a woman. It's not as if you nut by surprise and that there is no build up before.

[–]Chi-Tony19 points20 points  (0 children) | Copy

You don’t have to nut in her for her to get pregnant lol. You better be safe when you loose your virginity.

[–]kap1pa10 points11 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yea no. Condoms, always

[–]alphakari1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

It's a fetish for some dudes and girls to leave the nut in there. So yeah, typical thinking with the dick type shit.

[–]Dimenzije901 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yeah, i fuck my main plate raw for over a year now. I dont get it how can people get pregnant so easily, like if you feel your nut coming in. PULL THA FUCK OUT. Idk if this guys think pulling out means during a nut or after like wtf. I only use condom if i suspect a girl has stds. Or if shes a new plate after that its all about controlling yourself. If you cant pull out you're control over yourself is low.

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[–]Endorsed Contributorvandaalen2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

There is no sperm in pre cum unless it is not the first round. In that case make sure you piss in between rounds.

[–]Snowaey11 points12 points  (0 children) | Copy

well, YOU fucked up so

[–]GrinninGremlin208 points209 points  (14 children) | Copy

Tell her to send a post card when she gets back to Africa.

[–]IntrepidLawyer12 points13 points  (0 children) | Copy

If the mailman runs fast enough to catch you.

[–]bumbuff44 points45 points  (6 children) | Copy

I'd keep a journal, both personal and financial. The personal one is NOT for emotional venting. The personal one is for you to record your daily interactions. Do not lie on it, 6 years down the road you'll thank yourself. It will actually help keep yourself in check and maintain frame if you haven't mastered it.

I'd review those notes bi-weekly at the very least. Weekly is preferred.

Keep receipts that involve the baby or her. Write little notes on them regarding the hows and whys.

Even if your relationship with her is pleasant it's better to always have documentation. Imagine her demanding you spend more money on the baby when in reality you're the only one really spending money on it? Now you whip out your documents and go through them.

Oh look at this medical bill that I covered.

And the next one.

and the next one.

Isn't this baby half yours?

If she does pay for half, be honest, write that on any receipt.

This is not a way for you to fudge numbers and act like a good guy when you're a deadbeat. This is for you to maintain yourself and your consequences of your actions.

Your life isn't over with a child. But it will be different. RP still applies.

[–]hoopingblob[S] 6 points7 points  (1 child) | Copy

Thank you. This is helpful.

[–]bumbuff8 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy

Also a few more things:

Learn to schedule. It's the most underrated skill and HABIT. If you also start reading more about successful people you'll realize that positive habits, like scheduling, were crucial parts of their success - not necessarily being the best at any given skill. But those positive habits, like scheduling practice, can make you the best.

Don't lie. Learn to communicate effectively. Learn what information you share and retain. But never lie. You will have to develop a strong frame and a strong sense of self-respect to be wildly successful at this type of communication. Too many people shamelessly get by on a white lie, at work and at home. There are a few exceptions where a white lie can be OK. But you have to learn when and where. Telling your friends you'll help them only to flake or lie to get out of it leads me to this:

Everyone is only as good as their word. At the very foundation of our interactions with each other, word is law. Do everything you say you'll do.

This doesn't mean you can't spin some charm into your stories when flirting. "I'm a young, inexperienced man starting out on my journey in life. Maybe you'd like take part in this chapter? Maybe stay for a few?" is as interesting as "I'm middle-aged and have mastered several skills, have a successful career, and enjoy looking for a new challenge." (if not more interesting). It all depends on your enthusiasm and how genuine you are.

Don't be afraid to ask questions. Own your ignorance and correct it. Don't let people judge you for trying to be a better man.

Also to add: never be afraid of failure. Especially with all the youtube tutorials out there;)

[–]nowboarding2 points3 points  (3 children) | Copy

Could you talk a bit more about the personal journal? Or an example of an entry? Sounds interesting.

[–]bumbuff9 points10 points  (2 children) | Copy

A personal journal is not a new thing. Great men have had them entire life.

Typically my journal entries are 3+ lines long in point form, along with my planner makes for easy references. I also have a gym logger (digital app) to record my gym gains, it doesn't need to be in my journal.

Here's an example:


9 hours of sleep

Nothing eventful at work

-coffee with Susan and Rick; Rick's knee is injured from a snowboard accident.

-Saw Jennifer at Lowes; her feminist views appear to be a bit stronger than our previous meeting but she's not forcing it on me. Could be incidental.

-Lowes does not carry a wide selection of screws. Reminder: check out home depot next time.

-Dog's jacket won't stay on; Reminder: pick up snap-on buttons at hobby shop.

-Allison called regarding school fees for child; reminded her that I paid it and that I am still waiting on reimbursement for half. She had no excuse this time, will pay in 2 days. Reminder: **Email her a summary of phone call.

__

My financial journal has taken some leaps and bounds, it's a physical book, but it's less a strict budget journal and more about keeping myself in check and frame. So I have two, the physical journal that I use to judge my purchases and a spread sheet I print out with my receipts and put in a folder. Here's the journal:

__

Dec 1, 2019, $12.15, Lowes - Screw - Replacement on missing screw on luggage - NEED

Dec 3, 2019, $35.19, Boston Pizza - dinner and drinks after hockey game - WANT (acceptable)

Dec 6, 2019, $125.00, Snow Sports and More - Snowboard Jacket for sister - GIFT (acceptable)

Dec 6, 2019, $65.19, Shell - Gas - NEED

Dec 10, 2019, $145.45, Liquor Store - Scotch & wine - Personal use - WANT (Scotch was too expensive; Wine for guests)

Dec 12, 2019, $16.99, Drug Mart - Advil - Hurt shoulder bench pressing yesterday - NEED

etc.


I also then have a spreadsheet where I don't judge I just do the math and make sure my budget is balanced and I'm saving as much as I want to. All receipts go into a folder. Anything I have that's on a pre-authorized payment I don't put in my journal, just the spreadsheet.

At the end of the day, do as much or little as you're comfortable with. My entries take no more than 10 minutes each day and are great for reminding me about little things I otherwise used to let roll off me. Like Rick getting hurt! He's not real in this example though.

Re-read your notes once a week. Maybe go back a week or two unless you know you have to go back further.

[–]2INNASKILLZ2K182 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

Jesus. No disrespect. I was reading this, though, and was like how anal is this guy?

[–]bumbuff1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Fair. lol

[–]lolomotif1240 points41 points  (2 children) | Copy

All you can do is accept it and next time wear a condom. All the best.

[–]skizoids9 points10 points  (0 children) | Copy

Lmao

[–]hoopingblob[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yeah...thanks

[–]muricanwerewolf132 points33 points  (0 children) | Copy

Read the sidebar. The sidebar cares about you. The sidebar is there for you.

[–]AGameofTrolls55 points56 points  (1 child) | Copy

It is what it is buddy. If she wants to keep the kid it's her choice, if she wants to go back to Africa it's her choice too. You need to think on what you want too. Good luck with everything and try using a condom in 2020 ok.

[–]hoopingblob[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

Will do

[–]Massap249 points10 points  (1 child) | Copy

You’re fucked!!! but still take care of your kid. Lots of dirt bags on here, don’t be one.

[–]Velsoxof_25-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

your kid

Maximum kek

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[–]hoopingblob[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children) | Copy

Damn that's what I call top quality ghosting

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[–]fernandoR2006 points7 points  (1 child) | Copy

Most east asian countries Japan, China, South Korea, Indonesia

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[–]PhaedrusHunt9 points10 points  (0 children) | Copy

Don't worry bro in 18 years you'll be 37 which is when your smv will peak lol

[–]theredsperg16 points17 points  (1 child) | Copy

lol.

You're confused?

I'm sure this girl is too, you just shot your load inside her, normally babies happen this way.

this is a warning, girls can choose to do what they want when you have came inside them

[–]hoopingblob[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I don't even know why I was shocked... I should have known

[–]Endorsed ContributorFereallyRed6 points7 points  (1 child) | Copy

[–]Elprez916 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

Balaclava job haha

[–]primusinterpares113 points14 points  (4 children) | Copy

Be there for the kid,be a decent father,the fact that shit didn't work out between you and her shouldn't affect your rights to and responsibility for your child.

[–]hoopingblob[S] 13 points14 points  (2 children) | Copy

Yes I want to be a good father. My father wasn't there for me so I want to be there for my kid

[–]Tousen716 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

Good man.

[–]NoMoreUncontrollable2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Be there for the kid. If you don't like the mother don't give her much attention. The child is your seed. Help it become strong

[–]Monty70011 points12 points  (2 children) | Copy

  1. DNA test 2. It’s actually better if she goes to Africa. Idk the laws in Europe but if the baby is yours then that way she can’t screw u over w child support in court.

[–]hoopingblob[S] 4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy

The state pays for the kid and everything it needs. I don't earn alot they will stop paying once I get more money

[–]Monty70011 points12 points  (0 children) | Copy

Tell her go to Africa then

[–]KrissVectorEOC6 points7 points  (2 children) | Copy

And? She can go raise that shit in Africa by herself. Sounds like she's insane and giving you a way out. No child support or anything.

[–]hoopingblob[S] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

I never had sane women in my life.

[–]KrissVectorEOC3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

You're young. You'll learn to vet

[–]aDrunkenWhaler2 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy

Make no mistakes, she will NOT go back to shit-hole country.

These are her hormones talking, or she wants you to believe that probably so you can stop nagging her about having an abortion. Once the baby is out, puff, out goes all her back-to-the-motherland plans, and in comes alimony requests. 'Holding him in my arms made me rehink everythink' and all the shit.

Think about it, why would she want to raise a kid in a 3rd world country? For botswana walfare? Ethiopian daycare? Safety? Better opportunities? For her and her kid? I'm guessing it wasn't easy for her to get to Europe, so why would she want to go back?

Does she have citizenship in your country? If not, this might be her lottery ticket, if the child is born there. Bonus permanent stay, walfare from the state plus alimony from you.

Also, if you don't get a dna test, you're an idiot. Good luck.

[–]hoopingblob[S] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

For botswana walfare?

Probably

But it's some stupid tradition that she has to give birth to it there and then she planned on coming back.

Also, if you don't get a dna test, you're an idiot

I'm not stupid. I know these hoes. I will get a DNA test but don't I have to wait till it's born?

[–]aDrunkenWhaler0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

But it's some stupid tradition that she has to give birth to it there and then she planned on coming back.

Tradition will be a fart in the wind when she will realise the benefits of giving birth in your country.

[–]Forsaken43212 points3 points  (5 children) | Copy

Having a kid is no damage. Be sure its yours. Done. Getting HIV from rawdogging is damage. Spreading your seed is not. Do DNA Test have fun with your child.

[–]robbiedigital0010 points1 point  (4 children) | Copy

Depends if he planned on staying with the girl, it could end up with her having custody and him paying massive child support

[–]hoopingblob[S] 4 points5 points  (3 children) | Copy

Well I do plan to stay with her. I am not really concerned about the future with her tho. If she goes she will go. I don't think I have to pay custody because I am not earning enough money to pay custody. It's different in Germany

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

Viel Spaß Alimente zu zahlen. Sobald du genug verdienst, musst du Unterhalt für das Balg zahlen.

Aber ehrlich, Mann, wieso verwendest du kein Kondom? Vor allem bei Schwarzen, da muss man unheimlich vorsichtig sein.

Viel Erfolg kommendes Jahr!

[–]hoopingblob[S] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Naivität war mein größter Fehler in dieser Situation. Es war nicht das erste Mal und sie ist auch nicht schwanger geworden davor.

Zu viel mit meinem Schwanz gedacht. Ich habe sie jedoch dazu überreden können es abzutreiben, jedoch warte ich noch bis der Frauenarzt vom Urlaub kommt und wir einen Termin gemacht haben bevor ich hier das Update poste

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Gut, ich bin zwar kein großer Fan von Abtreibungen, aber immerhin konntest du die Situation damit entschärfen.

Wir machen alle Fehler haha, nochmal mim blauen Auge davongekommen.

[–]theUnBannableHulk4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

Buy her a ticket to Africa as an NYE present OPeee 😂

[–]cofflebooty1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Nobody mentioned Tom Leykis Hail Mary technique yet. It works and will cover your ass.

[–]bluepillcarl1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

I bless the rains down in Africa

[–]hoopingblob[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Gonna take some time to do the things we never had

[–]Velebit1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Its 2020 and you are in Europe ffs, never has it been easier and safer to raise a kid. Don't be bitch and advocate for killing your kid. Send her a dorra fiddy in Wakanda the kid will be rich af.

Once you go black, you can't go back at Africa my niggy. Also check for STDs. She got a nice 20IQ points raise in her offspring. Tell her to give you a high fucking five. She owes you one.

[–]ASAP_IKER0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Hard next the baby

[–]thesaoexpress0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

What’s wrong with you💀

[–]beginner_0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

For sure don't sign anything it's your. Basically make the law force a DNA test upon you. maybe you get lucky and it isn't yours. if it is well then you have to pay up. nothing you really can do about that.

[–]hoopingblob[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I was about to do it anyway. I'm stupid enough to fuck without a condom but no that stupid that I wouldn't do a dna test

[–]Forsaken43210 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Im from austria, germany is not very different from here so there shouldnt be a problem

[–]legitniga0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Best option is to just let her go back to Africa. Ghost her now so she knows you won’t be supportive.

[–]Monitorul0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Let her go back to Africa. Problem solved. Also deny paternity.

[–]drsherbert0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Let her take the kid back to Africa. Change your number. Delete all social media accounts. Move to a new state. Change your name. Just kidding. Pay your bills and take care of your child 👶🏿

[–]skizoids0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Let her go back to Africa and never talk to her again. Be a dick so she wants nothing to do with you. Move on with life.

[–]kev1no0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Don’t be silly cover your willy!

[–]hoopingblob[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Sounds familiar

[–]mrfritzeltits0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Push her down the stairs

[–]hoopingblob[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Ah yes, the old fashioned way to abort the kid. How did I forget?

[–]EuroNiard0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

She is from Africa. You fucked up double time

[–]mraussiepie0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

oh fuck man. didnt you made sure she was on the pill?

[–]Velsoxof_250 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

"I will go back to Africa and raise the baby"

Bull fucking shit, do not believe that op. You're gonna regret it on the long run.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Kick her down the stairs the good old fashioned way

[–]black-serpent-dragon0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Baseball bat

[–]qiis0 points1 point  (11 children) | Copy

Marry her

[–]hoopingblob[S] 12 points13 points  (10 children) | Copy

😂😂😂 I'd rather die

[–]qiis1 point2 points  (8 children) | Copy

What’s your ethnicity and hers? Just curious

[–]hoopingblob[S] -1 points0 points  (7 children) | Copy

Italian and she is black

[–]qiis1 point2 points  (3 children) | Copy

I mean originality, as in which country you’re originally from.

[–]hoopingblob[S] 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

Yeah I edited it.

[–]qiis1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

Ah right, well most mixed race men and lots of black men are literally raised by single mothers, so I dunno what she fucking expected out of it by dating a white guy (not being racist cos these are statistically proven facts). But yeah it would be nice of you to be in the kids life here and there.

[–]hoopingblob[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Well, white dick stays around... Right? 😅

Okay that joke has a sour taste

[–]PUA_Fan0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Go for it!

[–][deleted]  (6 children) | Copy

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[–]theredsperg1 point2 points  (4 children) | Copy

this is why trp is full of fucking retards

[–]vreshbaby4 points5 points  (3 children) | Copy

Should i write "/s" for lower iq individuals like you?

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[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

surprised more ppl didn't say this actually^

[–]deathhandmachiavelli-1 points0 points  (6 children) | Copy

Just relax, nothing wrong with spreading your seed.

[–]hoopingblob[S] 2 points3 points  (5 children) | Copy

But I am only 20... Should I be there for the kid? Should I just let her go and forget about it?

[–]PUA_Fan-2 points-1 points  (0 children) | Copy

Show her nudes then we gonna talk to ya and the black gurl better be hot 😂

[–]Tousen71-2 points-1 points  (3 children) | Copy

If it’s yours move to Africa or tell her to stay in Europe. Either way, be there for your kid dude. You’re going to feel like dog shit if you know you have a kid out there that’s basically a little version of you that you’re ignoring.

[–]hoopingblob[S] 2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

We made a compromise. She will give birth to it in Africa and stay there for 3 months because of some tradition. After that she will stay in Europe

[–]JurJur1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Gluck..

[–]MrBreitling-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

KIDS WITH DYNAMITE.

Let me guess, you didn't read the fucking sidebar.

You didn't learn one of the 101 rules of TRP - CONTROL THE PREGNANCY.

I mean how many times do people like Donovan Sharpe, RedManGroup, Rollo, Rich Cooper and all those guys tell you to CONTROL YOUR SEED.

asktrp/comments/dxnj2r/update_kicked_ltr_out_of_the_house/

IS THIS THE SAME LTR YOU KICKED OUT OF THE HOUSE A MONTH AGO?

She fucking played you good. Hysterical pair bonding and boom, you're fucking stuck for life.

KIDS

WITH

DYNAMITE

The most irony comes from the fact that you post with authority and get 500 upvotes - TheRedPill/comments/e3e8my/anger_isnt_the_manliest_emotion_how_you_deal_with/ . There will be other retards following you. That's the sad part.

Guess you now have to decide if you're going to start actually internalizing the TRP material, and either abandon your kid or stay in its life - and hopefully raise to not make the mistakes you do



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