Do you ever burn out on this shit?

IceBear---69 · 2020-01-07T01:50:12+00:00

I feel like I surpassed it back in April. That is when I dove into Semen Retention. Now I view TRP as a great tool in your kit, but it's certainly not your main focus or even close. It helps you to see truth in the world. Take what applies to you and leave the rest.

Redpill is just a stepping stone.

2020-01-07T05:07:34+00:00

A lot of guys get tired of slutting around and get the urge to settle down into an LTR/marriage. In fact, this is true of most men. Nothing wrong with that. Just don't forget the basic truths TRP has taught you and apply it to an LTR/marriage.

The most essential one I think for an LTR/marriage is this: don't become complacent. So many people work hard to get high SMV, settle down, then let that high SMV version of themself fade away. Then they're surprised when their wife cheats on them/leaves them. They think that providing money and a home is enough and once they've done that they can just relax, let themselves go gradually over a decade or two, and not worry about anything else. It's not enough. If you're a man then the treadmill never ends until you die, never forget that.

2030isCloserThan2003 · 2020-01-07T03:10:39+00:00

There’s nothing wrong with going through cycles of spinning plates & cycles of focusing solely on yourself or wanting a relationship.

This only becomes a problem if you fall back to your old Blue Pilled self after a break, then it can take some time before getting back into the gaming groove.

In the end, do what makes u happy, u don’t have to spin 20 plates at once like some random on the Internet told you to do. It might make them happier but it might not work for u

monky-loves-you · 2020-01-07T02:40:45+00:00

TRP isn't about being a player with a 1000 body count and a new girl every day. It's just a set of lessons that let you have a more fulfilling and more realistic relationship with women.

I think once you go through the player phase, unless you're a sex addict you start to realize there's more to life than just chasing tail. You no longer need the validation anymore, and you come to realize that plenty of the time the juice isn't worth the squeeze. So you naturally become more selective about who you spend your time on.

Find your passion, your purpose, find the thing that truly makes you happy. When you have this, girls are just a fun distraction on that journey, or at best a sidekick keeping you company along the way.

2020-01-07T01:48:35+00:00

Blasphemy!!

Kidding, ya man, it’s not for everyone. However, there is power in knowing you can. It’s about making smart choices and guys make stupid choices when they are infatuated.

ApdoSenpai · 2020-01-07T01:53:22+00:00

Sometimes. I burn out and focus on me then jump back in, rinse and repeat.

Spinning plates has its benefits, LTRs do as well. Try out both and see how it goes, just always remember to look out for yourself first.

-ThePathIsTheGoal- · 2020-01-07T06:04:51+00:00

The TRP lifestyle is not just spinning plates. It’s a philosophy that is supposed to be your foundation and pervade everything you do, whether that’s an LTR or spinning plates.

I definitely experienced the burnout you’re speaking of. Some are just better wired for a meaningful relationship than others.

I am currently in an LTR of over a year, and it is problem free, because I’ve adopted the TRP principles to the point where they are second nature now. I am willing to walk away at any time if need be, and this healthy level of detachment paradoxically is what makes the relationship work so well.

If and when that ride comes to an end (and we all know it will), I will pull the plug and be grateful for the ride.

Nastynatee · 2020-01-07T01:56:39+00:00

It's not a lifestyle, TRP is a quantification of female mating behavior. And I've yet to see TRP condone just fucking different constantly. I do feel u tho. Its...hmm... robotic most times when implemented.

Hungboy6969420 · 2020-01-07T02:42:23+00:00

Yea I'm currently tired of pumping hoes . I'm on a hiatus likely for the winter while I save money. Come spring/summer, maybe I'll be back on the grind

muricanwerewolf1 · 2020-01-07T04:00:10+00:00

Lots of room for different philosophies or interpretation of reality. And I think TRP is more concerned on giving men the tools (and permission) to conquer in life. While sexual strategy is a big part and there’s a focus on the getting laid and spinning plates there’s nothing that says you can’t move past it. The lessons you learned and the confidence you gained should serve you well if you decide to find an LTR, or just chill for a while and try to jump back in.

KrissVectorEOC · 2020-01-07T05:14:23+00:00

No one says you HAVE to do anything. It's just a start like someone else said. Do what YOU want now that you've learned how. If you want to spend time alone, do it. If you want to go see girls and hang out, do it. It's on you now and that's the beauty of it. The world to explore all at your disposal.

smgtn · 2020-01-07T10:03:14+00:00

Do you ever burn out on this shit?

I did back in my 20s when my number reached triple digits. It felt like having a second job and the amount of time and resources wasted was monumental, so at some point I just said fuck this and switched to monk mode.

No matter how you look at it, this shit is just depressing. You can't get married and have kids because AWALT and in this day and age ever more so. You can't keep fucking hot young chicks forever either, hell, most of the guys don't even get there. So what is the purpose, what is the end game? The older I get the more I think about it. I think I'll just buy a piece of land and dig in for the inevitable global warming Mad Max scenario 😆

bert_cj · 2020-01-07T04:11:21+00:00

Yeah. Idk. Being in an ltr is pretty sweet. I enjoy having my person who I do everything with. You just have to take what’s valuable from here and what’s applicable to your life. For me the importance of self improvement really resonated with me. As well as women not being able to love you the way you want them to. And maintaining frame, not with women but in life. TRP has made me just understanding of women and allows me to take relationships less serious. But the self improvement man. I stopped working on myself in my previous relationship. When it ended I was kind of lost. I wasn’t in great shape, and my style was boring. I discovered the red pill and I think it’s changed my life for the better. I don’t hate women but I have a better understanding of them and men-women relationship dynamics. Spinning plates is just one part of the red pill there’s a lot of other valuable stuff. I found in here that learning a martial arts would be awesome and benefit your life for the better, now I really want to do boxing and I’m gonna pursue that. Something I wouldn’t have thought of in the past but I now want to pursue that because of TRP.

Edit: also wanted to add. I showed weakness a lot in my previous relationship and it definitely led to my gf losing attraction to me. Not wanting sex, not desiring me. So yeah. You don’t have to spin plates to be red pill. I learned about maintaining frame through red pill. When I’m in a masculine frame my girl was definitely wayyyyyy more feminine.

HeartbreakHotline · 2020-01-07T04:34:16+00:00

Some people leave and become ex red pillers cause the lifestyle isn’t very full filling, it truly isn’t, a different mindset and ideology is needed for true bond relationships.

But well, it’s up to you to decide, trp will mostly deny this and tell you dis is only way.

It’s up to you to decide what you aim for.

Title	Do you ever burn out on this shit?
Author	MasterShake777
Upvotes	18
Comments	26
Date	January 7, 2020 1:42 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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