I have a six pack, am jacked, wear clothes that show off my figure, play poker semi professionally, am graduating from a top tier University in a few months and will be making six figures after, groom my facial hair, shower 2x a day, brush and floss 2x a day. Why can't I get laid?

McVaghunter · 2020-01-14T15:58:20+00:00

cuz ur a bitch

holddadoorhodor · 2020-01-14T16:03:14+00:00

Floss 2x a day 🤣

ThickPaint5 · 2020-01-14T16:08:14+00:00

I'm a college dropout, I don't make that much money, I don't work out more than I have to and yet I get laid frequently, because I'm comfortable with who I am and I'm generally happy. It's about how you approach women bud. If you are happy with yourself somehow they can sense that shit and it attracts them. Focus on what you have, do stuff for fun, chill; it should come fairly easily. You're graduating soon, your top priority should be to land a job, once you've got one you'll have more time to spend on your social life. Don't sweat it, you seem all set, everything will work out!

jonsmif9797 · 2020-01-14T17:04:54+00:00

From your post history, I think you are not as high in SMV as you claim.

First, your neediness is oozing out. When getting laid is your top priority, and when everything you does is to get laid, you put women on a fucking pedestal.

Look at yourself and your post history: "I'm a complete beginner and I approached 7 women tonight; got rejected by all 7. No, it doesn't make me feel better at all. I want to be castrated so I can finally stop thinking about women. I hate them so much." Classic symptom of Mr. Nice Guy and resentment.

Second, where is your mission? Where the fuck is your fucking mission? Going to gym, become hygienic, etc. are just the basics.

I'm the leader of an organization on campus and always talk to the hottest girls."

What do you talk about? I have a feeling you don't have social skills, especially from your post history, you do not know where to meet people. Organize festivals. Organize a trip and ask people to join you. Learn to provide entertainment value in a non-needy manner.

Renegade7158243 · 2020-01-14T16:11:00+00:00

You mention all the materialistic things you possess. I'm hard pressed to find the I tried to talk to this girl..., I got her into bed and she lmr'd..., I got 10 # but no dates..., etc. Therefore, I suppose you think the perceived value of your assets (looks, status, etc) are enough for you to avoid having to temper your ego and strengthen your game. Well, that shit ain't working out for you so get in the game and take some fucking shots. Also, stop guarding that fragile ego and break that shit into million pieces. You'll get to see what you're really made of and toughen up those weak spots much quicker.

jrterry1969 · 2020-01-14T19:32:37+00:00

Without meeting you, who knows? Whatever you are doing doesn't work for you. If I had to guess you are autistic and don't do social interaction well. But you should ask people who know you, not internet strangers.

Edit: I stand by my comment as consistent with rule Zero and respectfully request that the ban be rescinded.

Snowboard18 · 2020-01-14T21:39:11+00:00

just from your title, I can feel the vibe that you are trying too hard to get laid which is seen as neediness from women. Develop a sex-satisfied attitude and abundance, that vibe, plus approaching enough women will solve your problems.

Whitefarmer · 2020-01-14T16:00:49+00:00

But can you shut down a woman’s bullshit like the not so handsome guys that date hotties ?

HeresToTheNext20 · 2020-01-14T16:54:01+00:00

How do you talk? Are you witty? Do you stutter a lot or backpedal? Do you have a very self-deprecative humor? Can you make eye contact? Are you afraid to touch them? What’s your body language with them? I don’t see those mentioned in that vomit of information because really the stuff I mentioned are what help the most.

red_philosopher · 2020-01-14T17:21:19+00:00

Based upon everything I've read, you never attempt to seal the deal. This was my challenge before I was redpilled. I could talk to women, I could even get dates, but physical escalation was fucking anxiety inducing. I lost so many opportunities to being a pussy that it wasn't even funny. I don't give a fuck anymore, but it was so incredibly frustrating.

You do all the right things, have social proof, got the looks, etc., but you can't seal the deal. You flirt and approach endlessly, but something is missing. It may not be what you're doing, but HOW you are doing it as well.

The rule of 10/90 for talking is probably putting a foot in your mouth. You can't be interesting if you never talk. Do you want to talk too much? No. But if all you're doing is learning about her and listening you're going to come off as an over-interested creep. Conversation should be natural. Just don't run your mouth 24/7.

Physical escalation. Touching, hand holding, hugging and kissing, groping and sex. It has to be done. You have to touch them in order to make intimacy a reality. If you aren't, then you've got a problem here. If you get anxious about it, you've got a problem here and you need to work your way out of it. Period. They aren't going to initiate these things 99% of the time. Ever. Sexual rejection to women is the worst thing imaginable. So they almost never initiate.

You probably have performance anxiety too. So what? Be a shitty lay, she won't come back, but you've got all the tools in your arsenal to keep getting the practice you need.

You have some standards that are proving to be problematic for you. You just want to get laid right? So why the fuck does it matter if she's a superb conversationalist? You're not looking for a Marconi award winning radio personality. You're looking for a fucking vagina to stick your dick into for the first time. Infinite ego man, kill your fucking ego and get a grip. Leverage your SMV to help overcome your weaknesses in game. Hit on ugly/fat/tattooed chicks and get your cock wet. Who cares if it's not your "preference?" You are an admitted virgin and your "preferences" are keeping you from getting the practice you need. Build a few HB3/4 plates, get the ball rolling, and then upgrade from there.

NO_TIP_JUST_SHAFT · 2020-01-14T17:26:46+00:00

You have a broken mindset, you start by bragging to us about stuff girls don't give a fuck about if you have the mindset you have.

learning0007 · 2020-01-14T16:09:26+00:00

No game, the things you have succeeded at don't matter to women

ThickPaint5 · 2020-01-14T16:37:22+00:00

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2030isCloserThan2003 · 2020-01-14T16:49:45+00:00

You probably spend more time at the gym & at home then going out & talking to women. There’s your problem

Domebeers · 2020-01-14T18:26:12+00:00

My brother is like that, jacked, great job, can't get laid. Too nice, too respectful, too disney.

It's because you don't understand women, or you don't want to accept it. Take the fucking red pill for real.

I want you to go out and sit at the bar with a white t two sizes to small. The first woman to come up to you and say something, I want you to go "what?" in an annoyed tone. I don't want you to smile or be nice at all. Be annoyed. I bet you get farther with that routine than what you are doing.

beholdthemaverick · 2020-01-14T19:01:03+00:00

Read Book of Pook my friend. You need the attitude to match your looks. A little less disney prince, a little more devil may care attitude. Read the 12 lessons in book of pook over and over till it seeps in

vullnet123 · 2020-01-14T21:50:59+00:00

OP it seems like you're compensating confidence for your accomplishments. Are you self confident?

Throwaway-242424 · 2020-01-15T03:44:32+00:00

The fact you felt the need to discuss your flossing routine in the headline makes me think that the stumbling block may be that you are legitimately autistic.

leave1onread · 2020-01-14T16:47:26+00:00

Interesting riddle my dear Watson

MisterRoid · 2020-01-14T16:55:21+00:00

You are obviously putting effort into it based on your replies. So how are your facial aesthetics? Do you wear glasses? How many women have you had sex with before? Seems like you are either ugly or socially awkward, or a combination of the two.

boy_named_su · 2020-01-14T17:06:05+00:00

You're using incel terminology so I'll assume troll but whatever

I believe more in the black pill to get em in the door, and red pill to keep em around

On the black pill end, how tall are you? Face rating out of ten?

On the red pill end, how big is your social circle? What is your rank in the social circle? How good a bullshitter are you? How good at improv/agree and amplify are you?

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svenfromaccounting · 2020-01-14T19:44:02+00:00

because none of what you mentioned really maters except taking care of yourself physically.

You aren't done school. "semi professional poker" is akin to myself being a "semi professional stock trader" when I was in university. I made enough to eat food and live and get a pilots license... who the fuck cares.

Just keep doing what you're doing. Keep chatting with women. Stop trying so fucking hard and do shit you actually enjoy. Girls are dumb, try less for them and they'll like you more.

omega05 · 2020-01-14T20:07:58+00:00

Try online dating if you look as good as you claim

Haytch1234 · 2020-01-14T20:10:54+00:00

What do you say to females when you approach them?

Red_Pill_Brotherhood · 2020-01-14T20:50:10+00:00

Edit: read some other comments and found out you're a virgin. You're too wound up. That's what it is. Get a decent quality escort and get it over with. I chilled way the fuck out after I lost my virginity. Read the sidebar and work on your inner game(prize mentality, OI, abundance, confidence).

Casd12 · 2020-01-15T03:39:23+00:00

What's your stats? Height and weight.

Ohboohoolittlegirl · 2020-01-15T08:30:06+00:00

Too bad all these achievements and looks don't make up for personality.

georeddit2018 · 2020-01-15T18:30:08+00:00

Change shit up Bro. Whatever you doing isnt working.

AlmostWardCunningham · 2020-01-14T17:02:49+00:00

Cause you sound like a loser. Since when is “playing poker” a desirable trait? That’s a game for unathletic degens.

Edit: lmao

xxthrow2 · 2020-01-14T16:08:58+00:00

blackpill

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