After a year and a half I finally ended things with a LVM. We’d been friends for years and he was always respectful and kind. He did a 180 when we started dating. Wasn’t over his ex at all, gaslighting, lying, drinking, silent treatment for days. He hasn’t worked since Covid hit, and was only part time before that, living in a shitty apartment with a roommate. I support myself, have my own place and have my shit together. I gave him so many chances because of the friendship, and thinking he was going through a tough time. It’s only been a week and I’m still feeling rough, he’s mad I ended things, even though I was mentally and emotionally beaten down by the abuse he would throw my way. I know things will get better, but I could use some support today. You ladies are amazing!