I’m sure there are some hispanic guys in here that can help me out when it comes to this. This is my first time dating a latina (dominican to be exact) and I feel like we have a genuine connection but I’m not naive and I know that white guys can easily seem like a prize to them just for being white and being able to pay for shit.

I’m not rich at all so I won’t be buying her gucci and prada anytime soon but I did sort of test her on our date, which I do a lot. When the bill came I asked if shes gonna pay for half and she IMMEDIATELY started reaching for her purse and saying yea. I told her I was fucking with her and I think she kind of liked that I tested her like that. I ended up paying for it because personally I believe the guy should pay for the first date but as you date for longer periods of time I always have my girls buying me shit. I have been on dates where the girl looked at me and made a shocked face as if are you kidding me you’re not paying? But her quickly reaching without making it a big deal made me like her more to be honest.

Is there any other ways to tell if she genuinely likes me for me? As blue pill as that sounds, her liking me for me, there is a huge difference between someone being a good actress and making a connection seem super natural, and two people actually having a genuine connection even though the white with some money factor may play a role also, but isn’t the only role.

Looking forward to hearing some thoughts on this.