Woke up today to a message from my friends wife about becoming a nurse practitioner, part of OYS is trying to learn for a career. My wife wakes up and sees it and says seriously this is what I wake up to? I finish reading the text I still text back despite my wife reacting. I say nothing. I wait a few minutes and tell her im going to the living room. She says I'm trying to sleep bring the baby. I tell her I've got things to work on I can't watch him. I have bills to make sure are paid ect so I wasn't lying. I've withdrawn attention in the house several times before and it doesn't make a difference. She comes in the living room sits on the other side of the room (out if character for her now she's withdrawing intentionally). I call my cousin and ask if I can walk next door and hang with him and he says sure. I go to find my computer and tell her im headed to aarons. She flips out and says wtf why? And I said whats wrong with seeing my cousin? (Trying to learn pressure flipping) she says we just woke up. I said whats wrong with seeing him when I wake up?(still trying to flip) she goes and pouts on the living room couch. I can't find my computer so she continues to try to rape my attention. She says it's sketchy that I was texting a girl (she ALWAYS gets jealous of this, no matter how platonic the relationship or how far away they live), and then want to go to my cousins. I may have deer'd here, but I said oh you mean my friends wife? Wanna see what we were talking about? And read to her dull monolog of like one line of what I said and what she said. (Very confident I shouldn't have done this, but whats your perspective) Then I find my computer and she asks me to bring the baby with me. I tell her im gonna be busy so I can't. Still true, I got bills to pay over there now. She continues to bitch. " why are you leaving" " your leaving me alone" " what the fuck?" And I just dont respond and head over to my cousins.

I know I fucked up a lot probably. I may have gotten some parts right idk. Haze away.

Edit. Alright I'm gonna stop going full retard. Plan, stop blowing this sub reddit up. Post to OYS weekly for feedback, get some of my SMV back before planning on making any moves with the wife but still not try to just let her control everything. I need to go slower and really digest this stuff, see why I am having the same mistakes and work on the rest of me first.