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[–]passepar2ttreats objects like women9 points10 points11 points 3 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
As a guy who's been in combat, it do be like that when you're starting out.
[–]Hegemon1984Pickup artist; leaning red pill[S] 3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yep, it does.
Over time, I came to appreciate women and grew interested in their life. Makes for great sets
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[–]withersgsreddit1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Jordan Peterson explains why that is. The fear of rejection and all that. The feeling of not measuring up to the "chooser sex" 's standards etc.
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[–]withersgsreddit0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Top four hits should do you but he's touched on it a lot.
https://www.google.com/search?q=jordan+peterson+on+men+being+afraid+to+approach+women&oq=jordan+peterson+on+men+being+afraid+to+approach+women&aqs=chrome..69i57j0i457j69i65l3j69i60j69i61j69i60.7789j1j7&sourceid=chrome&ie=UTF-8
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[–]decoy88Black Male in London9 points10 points11 points 3 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
I think the men who do this incorrectly, go in a little too cold. If a guy struck up a conversation about the book I was reading and, after 10 minutes of reciprocated banter, asked me to go get coffee, I'd have gone for it
This was literally how I’ve done most of my cold approaches. Much easier if she’s doing something that can be turned into a subject to talk about.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
You approach during the day bro?
I personally only approach in bars/clubs or thru social circles. Daygame feels way too awkward for me I've never tried it.
[–]decoy88Black Male in London0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Well not anymore cus I’m in a relationship.
It wasn’t often but sometimes I’d approach during the day when I felt to. There’d be a girl in a setting that seemed conducive to a conversation, I’d start talking.
“Daygame” is as awkward as you build it up in your head. Two strangers can have minor chitchat about whatever that isn’t too strange. flirting is just dropping some light-hearted compliments throughout conversation then finishing with a wish to talk again and get her details.
Very low success rate (naturally), but still fun regardless.
Bars/clubs are places that people tend to go specifically for getting approached, so success rate is higher. Also there’s alcohol.
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Also there’s alcohol.
Yeah this helps a lot, not only does it make women put their guard down but it helps me lower my inhibition too.
Gl on the relationship broski
[–]HOLYREGIME14 points15 points16 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Sure but we don’t care about your opinion. Women on here are not women irl.
[–]NMFlamez2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Hahaha This really made me laugh
[–]psypD2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
If a guy struck up a conversation about the book I was reading and, after 10 minutes of reciprocated banter,
Yeah. All those countless wasted opportunities to interrupt a receptive woman reading in public ...SMDH
[–]psypD2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I have never seen a women reading in a crowded coffee shop . This is a BS scenario like most other scenarios people talk about here. For the most part women make it a big point in appearing like they do not want to be bothered.
So you're going to cheat on your husband over good book banter. You WHORE
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
If a guy struck up a conversation about the book I was reading and
this is roosh V's "elderly opener" 101
[–]spacechicken1990big tiddy goth gf8 points9 points10 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Or just being a normal human. Not everything is dragged out of some “seduction” text book. But Spergs like you don’t get that.
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true
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Normal humans read books
[–]Saint_Coomercel1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Cope. You'd suck Chad on the spot.
[–][deleted] 9 points10 points11 points 3 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
Cope. Women won't suck you ever and you can't handle it, so you've convinced yourself it's a problem with them and not your shit body and personality.
[–]WilliamWyattD6 points7 points8 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I think the difficulties, on all sides, involved in totally cold, 'day game' approaches suggest that really, we such approaches are totally unnecessary 99% of the time.
Sure, exceptional moments with exceptional people happen, but I think people can have successful romantic lives by meeting people where social dynamics have made the approach at least not entirely 'cold'. Even a bar is better than day game since to some extent most people have signaled some willingness to consider romantic proposals simply by being there.
[–]Brainless-Wonder3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I disagree with the second part. A lot of people in bars aren’t exactly looking for romance, and attraction standards shoot up in that scenario for a variety of reasons (ie, women being told all their lives that bars are sketchy and alcohol is unsafe, so he’d best be really, really hot and an exceptionally smooth talker to overcome that risk). At least in cold approaches during the day, you can vet someone when they’re more candid rather than while they’ve slammed back 3 pints and are ready to get up on a table to butcher “A Thousand Miles” with their equally obnoxious friends.
[–]WilliamWyattD1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I'll agree that bars are complex. I don't worry about the vetting so much: that's what dates are for. Nobody says you have to hook up immediately when you meet someone drunk.
But a lot of women do go out with their friends to a bar and have little more interest in being approached there than at a museum or on the subway. A lot depends on the type and mood of the bar itself etc.
[–]Cejuan251 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
My Philosophy:
If she's not smiling (at me), she's not there.
[–][deleted] 3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (16 children) | Copy Link
I wonder if this is why my fight or flight instinct kicks in when I’m cold approached
[–]Hegemon1984Pickup artist; leaning red pill[S] 4 points5 points6 points 3 years ago (15 children) | Copy Link
If it's a good pickup artist, you probably won't know.
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (14 children) | Copy Link
Then tell me why I’ve never gone on a date w someone who approached me on the street? You can always tell and it’s always bad.
[–]Hegemon1984Pickup artist; leaning red pill[S] 7 points8 points9 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Probably because it's you.
It's not your style. I've dated and slept with women off the street. People are different. It's not a big deal.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Fair enough
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link
How do you like being approached btw? Bars/Clubs or..?
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link
Adoring emails
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
No I'm asking for real, I'm genuinely curious
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
That’s how I met my two best exes, the other ones I met on tinder and bumble
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
wtf
Forget I asked lolol, approach by email lololol I'm dead
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
You must not have seen you’ve got mail
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Lol that movie came out before I was born
Sorry miss but no I have not
[–]Sid_InsidiousMGTOW VolCel Mall Santa4 points5 points6 points 3 years ago (17 children) | Copy Link
COVER ME - I'M GOING IN!!
What's sad is that I have zero fear of approaching women, next to zero "oh noes" approaches gone wrong, and I make women feel at ease...almost immediately. I also know who I should and should not approach, and who I can talk to in what way, just by assessing body language and facial expressions.
I totally feel for my socially inept and autistic brethren.
My "approach" skills are wasted on me, as a MGTOW.
I wish I could gift my skills to some poor bastard INCEL.
He'd be in a three-way with two Stacy's before Thursday.
[–]a14deadpool23 points24 points25 points 3 years ago (13 children) | Copy Link
Dude you’re subscribed to incels without hate you aren’t fooling anybody😂
[–]spacechicken1990big tiddy goth gf5 points6 points7 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
He’s a fat divorcee larping as a lady killer, I bet he’d shit himself if a half decent woman even looked his way.
[–]Sid_InsidiousMGTOW VolCel Mall Santa0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (11 children) | Copy Link
I could pick up your mom faster than you can say "Pizza Pop".
[–]a14deadpool4 points5 points6 points 3 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link
Hahah keep telling yourself that loser. Divorced loser bro that’s even worse.
[–]Sid_InsidiousMGTOW VolCel Mall Santa1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link
She wants to know if she can pick anything up at the store on her way home here... Hows the pizza pop supply?
[–]a14deadpool7 points8 points9 points 3 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
Dude stop with the act it’s really cringy go back to your safe spaces incel.
[–]Sid_InsidiousMGTOW VolCel Mall Santa4 points5 points6 points 3 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
Hawaiian or Pep Bacon? C'mon she works tomorrow.
[–]a14deadpool1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
It’s funny how none of what you said is even true😂 what the hell is “pep bacon”. Anyway you seem to want to boost your ego in this conversation did your wife cucked you before she left you? That’s so sad😂😂
[–]Sid_InsidiousMGTOW VolCel Mall Santa1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
You can make up stories about me to make yourself feel better. If that keeps you off a bridge deck tonight, then do what you gotta do.
[–]a14deadpool2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Dude it’s literally on your bio. You ex wife came with her new husband to your home😂😂 unless you erase it like how you stopped following incels without hate😂
[–]spacechicken1990big tiddy goth gf4 points5 points6 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Right sid insidious the guy who’s wife cheated, cant eat salt, also overweight & old thinks he’s the shit. I bet you spend your days alone wishing your wife didn’t leave your dead arse.
So mgtow.. but you can’t stop screeching about women & are active on the incel subs.. yeah I bet your a hit with the ladies
Stop larping dude we all know your only pissed because you can’t get any..
[–]Sid_InsidiousMGTOW VolCel Mall Santa-1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I'm not active in any incel subs, your intel is as stupid as you are. "Can't get any" lol. Any damned fool can get laid.
[–]trotofflamesPurple Pill Man2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Anyone who has to brag this much....
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
Sometimes we get tourists that try that shit here in Sweden. That's how it's easy to recognize them.
Swedish men tend to already know the holiness of personal space and stranger danger.
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We're very kind once you get beyond strangers, but it's hard if you don't have an in
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[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Nah I know a fair share that did well. Expats as well. You just have to be diligent in finding ways to meet people– work, leisure activities, studies, etc.
[–]trotofflamesPurple Pill Man0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I can't tell if you sidestepped the blatant racism or are unaware of it...
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
I'm trying to not trigger that bomb lmao, have enough of that already from nationalist-larping americans
How do you get an "in" if you don't know anybody lmao?
Is it the same when a guy approaches a guy to be a friend?
Same for brits.
[–]goblinqueen4871 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Any man that approaches me if I'm on my own is not ever getting any further than maybe a couple minutes of friendly conversation no matter the level of attraction. My automatic assumption is that you're going to be a creep and there is no coming back from that.
[–]Hegemon1984Pickup artist; leaning red pill[S] 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Then that's your choice.
I'll tell you what though, I've met women with your exact mindset who I managed to instadate (ie. date that exact same day instead of simply fishing for a phone number). You never know! The right guy comes in when ya least expect it
[–]goblinqueen4870 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If they went out with you they definitely didn't have my mindset. Honestly I've had bad luck and ended up being stalked by people who I have just had a casual conversation with so I am definitely not going on a date with someone who cold approaches me during the day.
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[–]trotofflamesPurple Pill Man0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Considering that the bottom image looks like it was taken from one of those fruity militias that are popping up in the south these days, and how PUAs view themselves, this image is perfectly accurate.
[–]BaiseTaRevolution1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (11 children) | Copy Link
The men who feel this way are pussies. I was born in the (very) early 80’s, yet lived my teens in the 90’s.
Let me put it like this... The “ugly” guys I knew could still get laid. It was a blast. I wasn’t ugly, so it sure as fuck wasn’t hard to smash women.
[–]diladusta6 points7 points8 points 3 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link
Women standards have sky rocketed my dude. In the past you would only compete with the immediate cirkel of the girl. Nowadays due too social media and online daying you are competing with endless amount of men. Rejection rate is way higher now a days. I know some other old dudes that are bamboozled why not every guy is slaying either. They think since it is way more acceptable to be a slut nowadays and finding girls is really easy thanks to the internet men would slay left and right. Despite that "somehow" young male sexlessness is at an all time low.
[–]JimBeamAndCoke20160 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Hit the nail on the head with this comment.
[–]bionix902 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
You being able to get laid in 1995 doesn't mean shit in 2020. The game has changed.
[–]BaiseTaRevolution1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Well... It may have changed for the younger generation. I still don’t have a problem getting laid. However, to be fair, the women I’ve dated/hooked up with are all around my age. Therefore, these women have a similar mindset as me due to growing up through the same era.
Honestly, it’s hard for me to tell if sexlessness is really rising amongst young men, or if there’s just a loud vocal minority of them online... Hence, “incels”.
[–]bionix900 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
A study showed that close to a third of men aged 18-24 had not had sex in the past year. ONE THIRD.
[–]BaiseTaRevolution0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
So... Less than 1/3 of men have gone without sex in that age group. That’s not too startling of a figure though. Some men just aren’t into trying to hook up. Some are focused on school/work. That study, therefore, shows that more than 2/3 of men are getting laid.
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[–]BaiseTaRevolution2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
That’s funny... When I see young 20-something Chads, they’re always with hot women.
Maybe the problem is that some of you are really ugly, and you need to settle for ugly women??? That’s how it’s largely always been...
[–]NotGoingoutofMW0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ugly woman are entitled to attractive men nowadays. You see the mental gymnastics of the women here desperetly trying to explain or justify this with arguements full of double standards. Ah yeah fuck of body positivity.
[–]PickleLineSimp for Low N-Count women0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
People your age were open and used to meeting random people in real life because online dating didn't exist and they weren't constantly in touch with their friends or social media through a mobile phone.
[–]TheJim66Red God-Emperor of Slut Country0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Hahaha true as fuck
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I’d rather be in the bottom picture. I can understand the rules.
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These war comparisons are embarrassing and pathetic. Shame shame.
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