I see your pickme who 'helps' married men and raise you one I found in the wild. She has other posts about how much she cherishes that someone else's man chooses her.

superderpina_ · 2020-11-24T14:08:45+00:00

the mental gymnastics in this one

AlextheAnalyst · 2020-11-24T14:20:28+00:00

Let's just pretend for a minute that being married isn't a problem here. When she asks about how he got away, he snaps at her that it's none of her business. She's worried about the wife, but is he not treating them both this way? Does she think he'd have a gentler reaction if the wife asks him where he's going?

If she genuinely cares about the wife, she should care about herself too, and just leave married men alone.

LevelTurbulent · 2020-11-24T14:25:31+00:00

Yeah, she cares about his wife so much but she’s totally cool with helping him abuse her and preventing her from her right to make an informed choice about her life.

This is someone who knows they’re being a total dog shit human being and is trying to convince herself she’s still a good person.

random1329 · 2020-11-24T14:34:20+00:00

What exactly is the point of a long distance affair?? Why do these women have such little self esteem that they think they are only worth a non-relationship with someone who is by definition not emotionally available and only using them for sex?

cantstopthemachine77 · 2020-11-24T15:25:45+00:00

She acts like there is a way for her to fuck this woman’s husband and not hurt her. You can tell her self esteem is in the trash, she views herself as “some weird black chick” and I get the feeling she feels like being the fetishized sex toy of some cheating scrote is the best she deserves.

This doesn’t absolve her of responsibility mind you, she’s trying to lessen her guilt making a post like that. As someone else pointed out, she sees how he treats he when she asks about these things, so in reality she has to know he isn’t treating his wife any better (probably treating her much worse), but she desperately wants to believe he is so she can feel less guilt about all of this.

fireforestfairy · 2020-11-24T14:19:42+00:00

I highly suspects she really wants that guy to leave his wife for her, but she's guilty about it in the meantime so she creates posts about her complicated feelings.

2020-11-24T15:20:18+00:00

"I don't want him to hurt her because of me."

That's a lie; otherwise, you'd cut it off.

2020-11-24T15:44:09+00:00

I'm entirely on board with alienation of affection being criminal again.

Wives sign a legal document under the impression that the husband will prioritize his family, and not random women, or even "family friends" (who are often just female friends of the dude).

This whole "jealous wife" trope needs to die.

Most women, deep down, are not interested in sharing their husband, and don't know that they're signing up for a life of being second best (or third, fourth, or fifth best) when they pledge their entire lives to a man.

Sickening.

Shame on her.

yesmme · 2020-11-24T16:58:26+00:00

tRuSt mE iT’s rEciProCateD. Unless they’re poly, no it’s not reciprocated or else he would have started a proper, respectful relationship OUTSIDE of the current circumstances he’s in. If they are poly, he would have had no problem telling his wife “I’m going to be spending some time with the girlfriend” He cheated anyway. He’s a LVM who doesn’t give a shit about his wife or his side chick no matter which way you spin it.

Street_Narwhal_3361 · 2020-11-24T16:15:31+00:00

Oh, honey. No. Stop it.

shutup201 · 2020-11-24T18:32:59+00:00

This woman hates herself for whatever reason.

Davina33 · 2020-11-24T19:15:18+00:00

I picked up on the fact she is black and I'm betting this man and his poor wife are white. I'm mixed race and from England. I've noticed a lot of white older married men are obsessed with having an 'exotic side piece'. Fortunately I've always had too much self respect to entertain them. So gross.

bananna_nut · 2020-11-24T18:39:38+00:00

some weird black chick

Oh this poor girl, why would you ever refer to yourself this way? It makes me so sad to hear this, it's honestly pathetic and sad that she thinks of herself like that and has such low self esteem to willingly be some married guy's side chick.

Squidwrd_Tortellini · 2020-11-24T15:19:17+00:00

I'm not black but I find it hard to believe an actual black woman would refer to herself that way...

BashRunes · 2020-11-24T14:07:41+00:00

There is a lot to unpack here. Holy shit, what a pair of monsters.

Salty-Tomorrow · 2020-11-24T21:18:00+00:00

geez louise. what sub is this from?

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