hi guys, this is my first post and hopefully not my last.

First of all, sorry for my grammer-mistakes but i am from europe.

I only discovered the red pill 6 months ago and I have to say I am fascinated. I found out that the red pill is in many of my past life-scenarios and a lot of things now make more sense. Since I had bad luck and got corona twice (!) I had the chance to think a lot about my last relationship (my only love):

I just turned 27 and broke up with my ex (25w) a few months ago. We already knew each other from school and we made out when we were teens. Then we both had our first relationships and got together when we were 21 and 19 (her). I slept with a few girls from 19-21. After 5 years she started to worry more and more because she was "afraid of getting older". She missed her carefree youth and the fact that everything was getting "so serious" made her feel afraid. We had enough sex until the end and she seemed to be very much in love, but whenever she thought about the future with me she became uncomfortable. I felt under pressure and we talked and broke up. The main reasons she gave were:

1. we have a slightly different background (different natioanlities but both white european, same religion) and when she broke up she said she doubted if we will still be happy in 10 years, even every moment that she spents with me she is very happy. She had the doubts for weeks.

2. i did not want to move near her parents and friends. I don't mean the same city (we are living in the same city annywas), no she wanted to move to the immediate vicinity (10-15 minutes away) of the address where she grew up. However, she was looking for apartments outside that area and seemed happy with it.

My first thought (after the grief subsided): She wants to try again to get a better guy.

I'm in very good shape (also almost 6foot4) and doing MMA, so I didn't let myself go or anything. I was also a broke uni-student when we srarted dating and recently started making money and a few months later her doubts started, it does not make any sense. I also currently live in a flat, that my parents own, so everything was going well money wise.

After I read Rollo and other red pill literature I thought that she would try CC riding now and then settle down in a few years because she told me she is "afraid of getting older" and "missing carefree days" and we she did not have any sexual expierience.

Now I found out by chance that only 5 months after our relationship ended she was already with another guy: a guy (25 or 26) who doesn't seem to be her type at all. They have known each other for a long time and I got to know him but he is in no way "an upgrade" to me, at least not according to red pill criteria. So it is no monkey branching and also she is too young for betabucks. The guy didn't go to college, is average height, as a person he seems quite nice, like polite and funny but not attractive for most girls. He lives in the area where she wanted to move and they know each other for a long time (her parents know each other too). He also lives with 3 other people in a house, that another friend rented. It seems indeed very carefree.

This makes no sense. to me I thought she was going to try to replace me with a "better" (richer, better looking, older, "cooler" - something). She did not even took time to search for a better guy, she just took the first guy who was available (it seems so, no disrespect to the guy, he was very friendly when we met once).

How does that make sense in the red pill universe? (I don't want her back but I find it hard to understand it from a red pill point of view)?

What would you advise a 27 year old sinlge guy in my situation besides going to the gym and throwing myself into work?

thank you guys, this is a great sub!