How /r/niceguys responds to when they're on the receiving end of a list of perfectly acceptable dating preferences.

Docbear64 · 2019-09-17T20:08:58+00:00

Lots of girls end highschool with a notch count higher than 5 ... honestly all this says to me is that the pool of women that are worth marrying is exceedingly small .

loneliness-inc · 2019-09-17T20:42:49+00:00

A girl who isn't a virgin, isn't wife material. Period. She may be a good lay, a good FWB, but she isn't wife material.

To be a good lay, you need to be clean of disease, maintain good personal hygiene and be enthusiastic in bed. Pretty easy. A low or moderate N-count won't affect this too badly.

However, to be a wife is to devote your sexuality in its entirety to your husband. In exchange for his lifelong commitment to protect and provide for you and the future children, you give him your entire sexuality! Not just your best years, but the whole thing. If all you can give him is sloppy seconds, thirds or fifteenths, you aren't giving him your all in terms of sexuality. You therefore don't deserve his all in terms of protection and provision commitment.

You made mistakes or were taken advantage of? Too bad. That's not his problem. He doesn't have to pay for your past mistakes or the mistakes of others. If he has bad credit or had all his possessions stolen or if he was beaten so badly, he became crippled, you wouldn't piss in his direction. Likewise, he needs not piss in the direction of your blown out pussy even if you only had one previous partner.

This my dear, is equality. True equality.

where_muh_good_mens · 2019-09-17T20:30:10+00:00

Didn't say anything about being fat; dude is a saint and still got complaints from women about "unfair standards". Clearly, listening to women is a futile endeavor.

goodmansaysfuckyou · 2019-09-17T20:57:33+00:00

Number of sexual partners has no bearing on a woman's ability to reproduce. BTW don't bother looking up PID, that is a conspiracy of the patriarchy to keep women down. Nope, no correlation between number of sexual partners and risk of infertility. Nope nope nope.

HvyArtilleryBTR · 2019-09-17T23:14:31+00:00

TBF, they have a point when saying its hypocritical to demand a chaste woman while at the same time saying it's OK for men to sleep around because muh biology. Women follow were men lead, and you're debasing yourself and ruining you for your future wife. If we want women to stop being degenerate, men have to stop being degenerate too.

PhoenixRising-MGTOW · 2019-09-17T20:26:52+00:00

Are you healthy? (Yes) Can you have babies? (Yes) Are your parents still together? (Yes) Have you ever been married or had children? (No) Are you a leftist or a feminist? (No) Do you have debt? (No) Do you have a useless college degree? (No) Do you have a history of sleeping around? (No)

A solid list of requirements. I would add:

Are you over 25? (No) Do you have any mental health diagnosis? (No)

leredditbugman · 2019-09-17T23:25:44+00:00

So the sub is women shaming men for their dating preferences?

bushwicksick · 2019-09-18T03:06:52+00:00

You cannot turn a ho into a housewife. That is why no sane man should marry the modern female, she is a ho.

TheAbsoluteMaximum · 2019-09-18T19:24:52+00:00

Personally the cut-off would be 1 partner for me. I don’t think that guys should have to conform their standards around society. If you want a virgin wife then go for it, no reason to raise the number to 5+ or whatever

Domebeers · 2019-09-17T22:32:49+00:00

If you want to hear screaming put a list of requirements in your OLD profile

Global_MGTOW · 2019-09-18T02:41:28+00:00

I know plenty of girls who are virgins in their 20s, they're virgins for a reason. Actually know a virgin cute-ish looking blonde, she's a hermit, plays a lot of video games and doesn't go out much, very sweet. I still wouldn't give up my freedom and get married to her. What's the point honestly?

Cristoff13 · 2019-09-19T13:09:15+00:00

"Women do not instinctively sleep around like men". That's true, strictly speaking. But as we've seen over the past few decades, when the social expectations of celibacy (no sex outside marriage) are relaxed, women tend to sleep around, but in a different way from men. They sleep around trying to secure commitment from attractive men (Alphas). Meanwhile, those men have plenty of options so aren't going to give commitment - since they are following their own male sexual imperative.

Gemjab · 2019-09-17T21:32:58+00:00

Damn is that really the nice guy reddit damn they sound like a bunch of pussy worshippers.

houseoftolstoy · 2019-09-18T02:32:27+00:00

Yeah screw those guys who want to have standards before committing to a woman. How dare they not want to make sure that the woman is worth investing in before investing in her.

Hey r-niceguys, where is the faking being nice part, the supposed premise of the sub? Or does it just exist to find any reason to ridicule men? Because that is clearly what it is these days. So many posts just feature men being awkward, lacking social tact, not having mind reading skills to know that a woman does not want to be approached or talked to, or in this case having standards that goes against the Leftist feminist imperative.

valenin · 2019-09-18T04:23:01+00:00

Top comment right now:

Well, I guess my girlfriend's unmarriageable, then /s

I love it.

kevin32 · 2019-09-18T09:10:05+00:00

Thanks for posting u/playitagainzak_. We're allowing this as there is some good discussion going on in the comments, but for future reference something like this should be posted on the weekend as during the weekdays we only allow posts of women complaining about being single (rule 5). Thanks!

TheSeraphOfChaos · 2019-09-19T16:52:29+00:00

I like billy

Senekh · 2019-09-24T08:57:50+00:00

Wow the comment section is way worse than the caption, if being against such opinions is being a leftard I'm Karl fucking Marx

[deleted] · 2019-10-04T17:35:50+00:00

Oh so it's not ok for men to have unattainable standards?

Weird, seems completely fine when women do it.

RavenJolice · 2019-09-21T11:45:19+00:00

This subreddit is disgusting.

Title	How /r/niceguys responds to when they're on the receiving end of a list of perfectly acceptable dating preferences.
Author	playitagainzak_
Upvotes	192
Comments	107
Date	September 17, 2019 7:54 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
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