"it's just a fantasy! "

LittleBitterBear · 2021-01-02T08:21:39+00:00

Second this, in regards to rap3 and incest prn.

Pornruinedsociety · 2021-01-02T09:01:25+00:00

I recently posted some articles by a man, one entitled porn is a gateway to child abuse. I've seen comments from men in forums admitting their porn habits cause pedophilic tendancies. It's never jUsT a FaNtAsY, that's just what they say to gaslight us and continue with their depravity.

IAteTheDragon · 2021-01-02T12:17:32+00:00

Fantasy schmantasy. You don't fantasize about something you don't wanna or don't care to have, jesus. Do they ever fantasize about making out with a smelly hobo? I guess not. This is ridiculous.

man-in-trash · 2021-01-02T13:58:25+00:00

I do not know of a single woman who defends this shit outside of Reddit pickmes (plenty of late teen girls defend it in a variety of relationship/dating subs, but I do wonder how many ‘teen girls’ on Reddit are just fat, balding, predatory old men).

The golden precursor to this is old men who date young women. We all know the trope - he tells her (and she thinks it’s true) that she’s ‘so mature’, so much more than women his age and so many of us older women ate this shit up in our 20s. No. The reality is women his age won’t touch him because he’s an immature, manipulative asshole with bad hygiene, poor muscle tone and a mediocre job. I’m so glad you all are not falling for this lie.

I read some disgusting thing today in a male sub devoted to hating on this one, about how 20yo women and 40yo men were matched at their ‘sexual peak’ and I laughed so hard I scared the neighbor’s cat. They are utterly deluded that their sad little marshmallow dicks, limp and dysfunctional from a decade death-gripping to ‘young teen’ porn, are of any interest to a young woman at all.

I’m in my 40s and dating a man my age. When I point-blank asked him if he’d consider dating a woman even ten years younger he said no without drawing a breath. I asked why and he said he had no interest in dating someone who wasn’t his equal. He has plenty of respect for young women forging their way in life, including those in male dominated work fields. He’d just rather not feel like his partner’s dad, or mentor. Thank goodness, because that’s a deal breaker for me. Men who date or fantasize about girls or young women are sick and predatory. They’re irredeemable.

My teen daughter knows about Epstein and his ilk. It makes me sad that she has to know about it, when I was ignorant about this stuff at her age, but it gives me hope that all her friends are talking about it, about trafficking and grooming and predatory men. She and her friends will not spend a minute or a dollar on a man who displays any kind of shitty, low value trait.

Papaverinum · 2021-01-02T12:43:31+00:00

Almost all of my exes at one point or another forgot themselves and told me they like to watch rape and/ or straight up p*dophilia. I see all men now as disgusting, generated monsters :/

ireallylikeyoualot · 2021-01-02T13:22:13+00:00

Recently there was a criminal case in Finland, where a married couple was sentenced to prison for raping a teenage girl. Apparently they wanted to "spice up" their sex life, as they had seen in porn.

2021-01-02T15:24:55+00:00

You don't need to touch children to be a fucking pedo. Having a boner and ejaculating by the though of a "very young, flat chested, child acting porn star" is enough. YOU ARE A PEDOPHILE. you just don't want to go to jail by acting on it.

AyemHerself · 2021-01-02T16:14:25+00:00

Not just children. Why do they fantasize about rape, blackmail, and abuse? How and why does any of it provide sexual gratification?

gothicctemptress · 2021-01-02T14:00:09+00:00

A scrote who said this to me when we were going out is now in his 30s and dating someone in high school last I heard.

PhoridayThe13th · 2021-01-02T16:56:55+00:00

This. THIS! Yes. You cannot enjoy watching that crap, without actually actively thinking about young people in that regard. You know that given a chance, these pervs would do the real thing.

I hate anything to do with those aspects. Enfantilism or use of “Daddy”. You hear violent shit, like these Dudes have fantasies about taking virginity by force, or corporal punishment themes. How can that be construed as just a harmless “fantasy”? That’s abusive. They very much tell on themselves.

MagnfiqueMaleficent · 2021-01-02T19:27:13+00:00

If he looks like a pedo, walks like a pedo, and acts like a pedo, he’s a pedo-fucking-phile. 🤮🤢💩

seraphinelysion · 2021-01-02T21:19:51+00:00

"it's just a fantasy!"

Ok, but why would you prefer a "fantasy" over reality (aka real flesh and blood woman??) Like, you do you and keep your pixel fantasy if you want. I'm gonna go find me a REAL man.

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Title	"it's just a fantasy! "
Author	TheTower_14
Upvotes	285
Comments	24
Date	January 2, 2021 8:18 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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