If you like a girl it's almost guaranteed that a bunch of other guys do to. You can only control your actions but I want to give myself the best chance without feeling like I'm battling the other guys. Usually guys will try to convince her why she should choose them and they all just fight about it vying for her approval. To me it just proves how much they aren't worthy. I feel in this situation less is more. Still it's tempting to want to beat out the other guys but my gut tells me it's the wrong thing to do. That's why I ask for help.