GF told me her body count....

smolzino · 2020-03-27T08:58:50+00:00

I mean at 25 if she's never had long term relationships and she isn't crippled by some social anxiety that's to be expected.

I don't necessarily agree with the others claiming it's so much more. Does it even matter at this point. My opinion is that if it bothers you, you should not pursue the relationship.

To get this kind of n-count, it means that your girl was the fairly easy girl at parties, probably is super easily seduced by pretty guys, probably gets horny for sex when drunk. Doesn't associate sex with commitment or feelings, merely lust. As soon as a guy enters the picture and she's lusty again, you're fucked.

chemical-miracle · 2020-03-27T08:16:54+00:00

If that's what she's comfortable telling you, it's way more than that.

ObjectiveHunter · 2020-03-27T08:26:14+00:00

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Innovative_being · 2020-03-27T09:51:20+00:00

These posts remind me not to go down on women

bumbuff · 2020-03-27T14:44:09+00:00

You can LTR her but she's not marriage material.

50 guys at 25 is her seeking validation and it wont ever stop. Especially when she hits her wall.

ovrload · 2020-03-27T08:27:04+00:00

She should've been a FWB at best. easy sex, while not maintaining connection and investment of feelings into her

blaseee · 2020-03-27T10:10:20+00:00

Damn. Keep as fwb to fuck, definitely not LTR material. If she‘s chill with you, she‘s easy with the others.

GoldenCocaine · 2020-03-27T08:49:49+00:00

Bro, long term this isn’t going to last, I’d start planning for the exit plan.

theUnBannableHulk · 2020-03-27T08:27:09+00:00

Lol she told you 50?

It’s more like 250.

You might be dating a former prostitute/porn

Ditch this bitch, shits disgusting you’re not even 2nd you’re like the 300th man to throw a hotdog down the hallway that’s her vagina.

Get yourself tested and yeet her to plate status.

Women are completely unable to connect emotionally in a healthy way after a couple of cocks let alone THE ENTIRE SPARTAN ARMY FROM 300

😂

And you’re a massive cuck if you continue LTRing her

In the future have some ways to suss out this info earlier

Fromstatepharm · 2020-03-27T09:45:40+00:00

Christ

wawakaka · 2020-03-27T13:06:45+00:00

You can date her just never forget she's a whore

Too many guys fall in love and put on their rose colored glasses and then the girl punks them

BusterVadge · 2020-03-27T16:49:23+00:00

This is exactly what we mean by riding the cock carousel.

j0hnNM94 · 2020-03-27T17:21:11+00:00

Can’t see red flags thru those rose colored glasses

RobbyHagan · 2020-03-27T20:05:07+00:00

Bro, have the chick get tested and show you her records that she's clean. 50 guys is a Russian Roulette of STD chances. If she's clean, then it depends on how it sits with you. If you aren't comfortable with it, leave. Don't say "it's cool" and then resent her.

throwitdownman · 2020-03-27T21:15:07+00:00

Speaking from experience as someone who’s been single for a long time and only pursued plates and one-night-stands, I’ve lost count after 30. Just think objectively - it begins hard to keep track of numbers so high. I remember my early ones quite clearly, but it becomes a blur after.

Her number is a ballpark estimate. If someone asked me about my n-count, I’ll also give a ballpark estimate, but on the low side. Her saying 50 means it’s at least 50. It most probably is more.

Regardless stop hamstering. Figure out what is a dealbreaker, and stick to your boundaries. Sounds to me the number is not something you can get over, so you should find someone else.

Jabbermouth · 2020-03-28T00:19:10+00:00

The fact that’s she gave you a range of “40-50 guys” tells me that it’s likely even higher than that. There are probably several drunken hookups that she’s either forgotten or doesn’t count.

She’s taken so much dick she can’t even remember the exact number. Jesus Christ.

ValorElite · 2020-03-27T17:05:34+00:00

Correct answers in here for you, OP

But what happens when we find out this is 99% of women? What will happen to society when most of the men get shamed by other men to not marry/date these whores? A significant increase in demand for pious and traditional women will occur while these hoes are kicked to the curb.

Alas, I believe men will never wake up and will continue to marry/date these sluts far into the future, so I don't see any change in the West. However, what would happen in the US if it follows the actions of Japan and its herbivore men? No dating, no sex, no marriage. Japanese women have taken the neoliberal bait on working their asses off for a corporation until their eggs die off and they can't have kids. Then it's too late for them.

There was a reason civilizations controlled females' hypergamy. Now, we are left to pick up the pieces.

2020-03-27T15:17:39+00:00

Oof.

2020-03-27T17:53:40+00:00

I personally wouldn't go for a LTR with a girl with such a n count. The older they get the more they do and the more desperate they get. So they begin discounting and begin giving different definitions to the one and only sex. For an LTR n is very important on many levels, as you can tell from your own reaction you are not comfortable and you should follow your instincts.

john_L27 · 2020-03-27T18:05:33+00:00

Future divorce rape.

skuttt · 2020-03-27T19:54:14+00:00

I wouldn’t LTR someone that indiscriminate, she'll fuck around. LTR implies commitment, she apparently cannot.

paul_ernst · 2020-03-27T23:08:01+00:00

If she hasn't been in serious comitments, then, say if she started at 18 (pretty old for some girls), she's had 50 guys over 6 years. Which is about one guy every 1-2 months. Being single while semi-good looking in college, this is even easy as a guy. And of course in summer you fuck a lot more. I'm way over 50 easily and I don't feel it matters a thing towards my future plates.

So now we put that in perspective. Take a moment to think about how little your dick is that you're so insecure about the fact that you're dealing with a sexual girl. Fuck her well or walk away.

Girls don't want to know what it takes to become a social easy going guy but they want one anyway. Guys want a sexual adventurous girl but also a virgin.

strainer123 · 2020-03-28T01:46:59+00:00

Are you fucking kidding me, she's a STD petri dish, I wouldn't even touch a woman that had this mileage.

thrwy75479 · 2020-03-28T02:38:17+00:00

told me shes slept with 40-50 guys

You know it's bad when it's a range, and not an exact number.

HurricaneHugues · 2020-03-27T08:36:04+00:00

"know she wasnt an angel but idk I just kinda hoped that it was less excessive I guess. I've only been with 9 people."

Sounds to me like you thought she was an angel. How much dick did you think she rode? 16? LMAO get the fuck outta here dude.

throwaway90091234 · 2020-03-27T10:24:30+00:00

Bro, anything over 5 n count aint LTR material, demote her to a plate and look for other pussy. Good luck.

lolomotif12 · 2020-03-27T12:17:50+00:00

If this is something important to you, you need to find out before you invest time in someone and make her a GF.

2020-03-27T14:49:04+00:00

She has been enjoying life, not thinking LTR. Is she now thinking LTR? Are you? Talk about it. If she is ready and you are ready for LTR, body count shouldn't matter ... if not, you have been extending this for too long!

ev3rynightfireworks · 2020-03-28T03:49:20+00:00

She didn’t have the decency to lie like most women. Why the fuck would she say that unless she didn’t give a fuck

Pickuupp · 2020-03-27T11:26:52+00:00

It’s your right to be turned off. And if it’s a dealbreaker then it is what it is. Why does it bother you so much though? Every single post from guys complaining about body count seems to have an element of insecurity. “I’ve only been with 9 girls”. Do you feel threatened by the fact that she’s more experienced?

Most guys here would dream of sleeping with 40-50 girls by age 25, they just don’t manage to achieve that. Yet if a girl is a sexual as they’d like to be it is a problem.

Finally keep in mind that a lot of people who comment here are probably younger than you, less experienced, but they’re the ones with the strongest opinions.

mr_Tobbor · 2020-03-27T13:05:05+00:00

Shit test! Fuck her and be happy!

Title	GF told me her body count....
Author	GoldenCocaine
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Date	March 27, 2020 8:13 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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"know she wasnt an angel but idk I just kinda hoped that it was less excessive I guess. I've only been with 9 people."