Lately I’ve been seeing a lot of race talk pop up around here, and as usual these discussions have been
level-headed and productive with plenty of applicable advice A FUCKING SHITSHOW. Between the stormfront armchair alphas, Uncle Toms, and the chronic masturbating, Facebook-creeping FOBs it's no fucking surprise that these discussions are useless. But never fear, lads, because your favorite diaper-headed, goat-fucking, stone-throwing shitskin is here to deliver some culturally diverse wisdom from on high.
I originally posted this race guide a year ago. Since then TRP has nearly doubled in size, and with the influx of race discussion the time is ripe to revisit the topic of how minorities can successfully navigate the sexual marketplace. I've gotten plenty of lays and plenty of rejections, and I'm gonna share my knowledge with you. Let's get to it.
1. The Reality of the Situation
TRP in general does not give a shit about minorities and will largely ignore the dating handicaps specific to minorities. The Red Pill is a reactionary response to the modern liberal/social justice movement, which loves to blame the vague specters of 'racism' and 'patriarchy' as the source of all minority ills; leading to things like affirmative action and tone-policing. In response TRP tends to over-correct to the right and minimize racism entirely. For example, we love to discuss the evil of affirmative action and how the lazy, unqualified minorities are stealing jobs and scholarships from honest hard-working white men, but then ignore the demonstrable fact that resumes with 'white' names get significantly more callbacks. Humans love to simplify complex issues to black and white (heh), and The Red Pill is no exception.
The Reddit demographic is overwhelmingly young, white, and male, and TRP reflects that. Coming to TRP for race advice rarely works because you are addressing a population that largely has no understanding of or interest in your experience. White guys couldn't give less of a shit if minorities are getting laid. It's a lot fucking easier to yell out #IndianRaceTroll and enjoy all the sweet minority pussy riding the CC. Even if they did give a shit, they don't know what it's like to actually be a minority and deal with women, so all they can do is regurgitate the same vaguely condescending advice. "Hmmm, have you tried being more Alpha??"
Look at all the hero worship /u/gaylubeoil gets...then remember that his advice to Asian men was to wait for Asian women to hit the wall then eat the superior Caucasian jizz out of their used up twats. Or this superstar whose sage wisdom was to just try being a .01% professional athlete. And of course there’s the ever popular advice to just casually make a shit ton of money, then buy a woman’s affection. It’s not BB without the BUCK$, right? That's the kind of bullshit 'advice' you're gonna get on TRP.
Stop waiting for some magic strategy that will finally unlock the secrets of pussy. If you want to get laid, you're gonna have to WORK. Don't let the echo chamber suck you in. Yes, you would probably do better with women if you were white, but you are who you are. You cannot change, only improve; but that is impossible so long as you remain in that “woe is me” mindset. Your game will suffer for it, and women can smell that shit a mile away.
2. Why Are White Men Preferred
Just because you are a minority does not mean you are doomed to be incel. Just because you are white does not mean you automatically get laid. However, as members of TRP so thoughtfully remind us, the Western world and modern society was built by white men. (Thanks again guys we really appreciate it) Therefore the natural result is that society's default perspective is white. White men dominate business, government, and the media. Women don't prefer white men because they are superior physical specimens, they prefer them because white men represent STATUS. It's social conditioning. CEOs are white. Movie stars are white. Politicians are white. Who is brown? The garbagemen, the dishwashers, and the creeps on Facebook. In popular culture, white men represent the standard of attractiveness. Anything else is deviant and ultimately seen as inferior. When you hear the name 'Chad Thundercock', the man you picture is inevitably WHITE.
When we say women prefer white men we’re not saying that women choose pasty neckbeards over fit and confident minorities, we’re saying that society conditions us to both view Caucasian features as most attractive and Caucasian people as higher class. If height, facial symmetry, and physique are controlled, women will prefer the white man 9/10 times. And this mentality isn’t uniquely Western. Thanks to globalization and a history of colonialism, in many foreign countries (Latin America, Middle East, India, Asia) the most attractive members of society are those with the lightest skin and most European features, while the darker and more ethnic looking population is considered undesirable.
TRP constantly shits on women. They're children, they're immature, they're emotional. Yet somehow women are immune to the pervasive message of white superiority that permeates Western society. Women are incredibly susceptible to external influence, and right now that influence is that minorities are inferior. Indians shit in public. Asians have small dicks. Migrants are ruining America. Even our ROYALTY is fucking insane.
You're delusional if you think all of this has no effect on a woman's sexual preference, either consciously or subconsciously. And thanks to in-group/out-group bias YOU'RE FUCKED just because some piece of shit 10,000 miles away that vaguely resembles you doesn't know how to use a fucking toilet.
3. Step Your Game Up
At first this seems like the same ‘basic’ advice I criticized earlier, but sexual success as a minority depends not only on a high SMV, but UNDERSTANDING why maximizing your SMV is critical. To get laid as a minority, your sexual game must be ruthless and preemptive. Your race is already a mark against you in her eyes. You can't afford to have any shortcomings because there's a white guy out there who doesn't and your little oneitis is constantly looking to upgrade. White boys can get away with being out of shape, or dressing poorly, or being a little boring. Not us. You need to be lifting, dressing sharp, perfecting your game, grooming yourself, and oozing sex appeal. This serves two purposes:
Firstly, this will determine if your race is actually what's holding you back. Too many times I see guys on TRP mention their 30% bodyfat then wondering if they're not getting laid because of their race. It's not the color of your skin, it's your manboobs and love handles. My fellow nationals love to give me shit for maintaining my physique and say things like “Middle Eastern men aren’t supposed to work out”, then in the same breath complain that ‘our women’ always go for white and black guys. Get your fucking house in order before you play the race card.
Secondly, because women prefer white men you need to ensure that you are superior in other aspects in order to overcome that preference. If girls prefer white guys if things are equal, then make sure they’re NOT. He's 20% BF, you're 10%. His clothes are off the rack, yours are tailored to fit. His jokes are lame, while you're demolishing her shit tests.
Hypergamy rules all and it won't matter what race either of you are when you're the clearly superior choice. Coming out the gate hot and radiating sexual energy will set the tone for the whole interaction and keep you out the beta zone. By “radiating energy” I mean being open and confident with your body, not hiding your sexual appetite, and perfecting your application of kino.
The only area where you don't have to be on top of your shit is income, and that's only because it'll weed out women looking for an easy BB.
4. Kill Your Fetish
BLONDE BIMBO BLONDE BIMBO BLONDE BIMBO
It's a fucking obsession for some of you. You know who you are. You guys want to bitch and moan about how girls only want white guys, then turn around and lust after WHITE GIRLS with even more restrictive criteria. Not only is the irony is lost on you, but that desperate thirst permeates your entire lives. It’s incredibly off-putting, and that’s just from reading the PMs some of you have sent me. I can’t even begin to imagine what talking to you in person must be like.
I'm not saying stay in your lane and only fuck girls within your race, but you need to really be honest with yourself about why you want some bleach blonde Barbie doll with fake titties. Are you trying to prove something? I could understand if it was a desire for white girls in general, but for many of you it’s this specific, outdated stereotype that’s no longer relevant. You’re like a 5’2” guy lusting after WNBA players from 1996.
It’s not enough that you want a white girl, she needs to be a rich Sorority Girl™. That’s just as unrealistic as a white guy who wants an Arab girl with a thong under her hijab. Yeah they exist but they’re not fucking with you. Get rid of your fucking entitlement and be practical with your sexual interest. You lost the privilege of being choosy the second you decided to complain about your lack of options.
5. Avoid Stereotypes
High SMV women are always looking for reasons to disqualify you. This is doubly true for minority men. They have stereotypes in mind and they’re just waiting for you to confirm them. You must be vigilant. Watch your words and actions and defy their expectations. For example, I’m not even Muslim, but God forbid I ever speak in favor of “traditional” or “old-fashioned” relationships. Then I’m the backwards patriarchal misogynist who only likes circumcised women. No wonder the Middle East is a shithole. Substitute gang rape, daughter abortion, hood mentality, or Machismo as needed.
Law 38 (Think as you like but Behave like others) is especially vital. Obviously we have better things to do with our time than debating women, but when it comes to discussions about gender roles and relationships, white men have much more leeway in what opinions they can voice. Keep your head down when it comes to controversial topics unless you’re in a known, comfortable group. But also, referring to point 3, the higher your SMV the less you rock the boat. Think of the difference between ‘creepy’ and ‘funny’.
This isn’t limited to conversations, but to all potential situations where you might be judged. If you’re Indian, don’t try chatting up girls on your way back from the gym or after a fragrant meal. If you're black, make sure you're well-read and informed on current events. If you’re Asian and a ‘grower’, rethink those boxer swim shorts when you hit the beach. You know the stereotypes. Don’t give them weapons to use against you.
6. Avoid conflict
This is related to #5 but is so important it needs to be addressed on its own. When you as a minority go for a girl of a different race, people WILL give you shit. Mainly guys who feel they are above you on the ‘hierarchy’ of race (White>Black/Hispanic>Arab/Asian). Sure, you two might have shared a beer 10 minutes earlier, but now they see your girl, they like your girl, and they want your girl. In their minds they can convince her to ditch you and “upgrade”, and THEY’RE NOT WRONG. If you lose frame, that’s exactly what she’ll do. If you get jealous, mate guard, lash out, or talk back, you play right into their hand. Especially if it’s a white guy banking on you being an angry minority. Obviously you have more leeway for an LTR, but not total immunity. A cool head must always prevail. Amused mastery is your friend. "It’s 2015, I thought racism was dead." Ideally your opponent will seem backwards and insecure instead of you.
The more subtle and insidious threat will be the people who try to shame you for not going after the girls of your own race. Fuck them. They’re either jealous guys or girls of your own race who want a soft BB landing when they fly off the carousel. Black women especially are pros at this (and all the Steve Harvey "Think Like A Man" bullshit from recent years has made it worse; watch them change their tune when they actually get some White attention), but even white girls get in on the action trying to shame white guys into staying away from Asian girls. Don’t engage them or try to debate them. I always say that I’ll start dating Middle Eastern girls when they do the same, but even that I feel is too much.
7 Embrace your culture…
One tactic I’ve seen for minorities is to bury their ethnicity, whitewash themselves, and try to blend in as much as possible. That is the equivalent of ab implants. On the small chance they’re not immediately ridiculed, they don’t hold up to any kind of close inspection. A minority who tries to ignore his looks or heritage performs a similar act of insecurity. We are not white and never will be. Don’t pretend otherwise. Women love pride and confidence. And trust me, there’s nothing better than boldly saying “I am X” with that strong sense of culture and history, especially when the random white guy next to you “thinks his grandma was German, maybe” before trailing off mumbling something about 1/16th Cherokee.
Exception: The only people who can pull this off are minority guys who are half-white. Often times they have to 'pick a side'. Stay true to your roots, but play up the white aspects if you're trying to get girls. White girls will like you because you're exotic and different enough to be interesting but still white enough to not be alienating. Minority girls will like you because you allow them to satisfy their white hypergamy but you're still ethnic enough to not make them feel like they're selling out.
This is counterpoint to #5. Don’t be ‘the foreigner’, but know your history, culture, and where you came from; and don’t be shy if an appropriate opportunity comes up for you to discuss it. This leads into the next point. Embrace your heritage…
8 …But give them what they want
White girls love war bonnets, dream catchers, moccasins, and those vaguely tribal designs they find on clothing at “vintage” stores. But how many of them care to learn about Native American history or, God forbid, actually visit the rez? They love all the flashy accoutrement of foreign cultures (especially the food…) but care very little for cultural significance or respectful admiration. To them, appreciating another culture means appropriation and accessorizing. Think of how much women love ‘travel’ and compare that to what they actually do while abroad. Spoiler: it’s the same fucking shit they do at home, just with a foreign filter and a smug sense of false worldliness.
When pursuing Western women, you need to give them a similar experience. I am North African. When I’m with girls and culture comes up all they care about are khamsas, mint tea, hookah, and belly dancing. That’s what appeals to them. And even then you can see their eyes glaze over and their hands twitch for their phones if I mention the history and significance of those things. They want superficial enjoyment without any deeper understanding. Don’t try to educate them, just sweep them up in the ride. I can take them to any shitty ahwa (Arabic café) and they act like it’s something out of Arabian Nights. Figure out the equivalent for your race/ethnicity and learn how to present it, and make damn well sure you know the best place in town for [insert race here] food. With shining eyes they will look at you and profess how wonderful it is that you thought they were special enough to introduce to your culture. Try not to roll your eyes.
The question remains as to when to bust out these cultural big guns. Honestly, if you're at the point where you can take a girl to a bhangra show, tea ceremony, or cultural art exhibit, then you're pretty much already in. In fact, some of these things might be too intense for a first meetup. Rather, you want to dole out ethnic theatrics gradually. Unless culture was explicitly discussed and she expressed interest, you want the first date or two to be normal RP. Feel free to tease her about how awesome your culture is and that you might bring her around if she's cool enough. Don't dump it on her, allow her to 'explore'. Then throughout the relationship you can periodically "include" her in the ethnic activities. The point is to not make it a gimmick, but another tool in your arsenal.
Again, keep point #5 in mind. Don’t lay it on too thick or you’ll be typecast. We are more than our ethnicity, all of us. Respect yourself as an individual. We defy stereotypes and racism because we refuse to allow others to define us solely by our race. Don’t do the same to yourself.
9 Know your demographic
This point seems antithetical to the rest of the guide, but the truth is that you are going to do better with certain women and certain scenarios versus others. It’s the concept of diminishing returns. Yes, you can and should go for any women you want, wherever you want, but if you want the biggest bang for your buck (pun intended) you’ll know how to strategize.
For example, unless you are extraordinarily fit or good looking (top 5%), Tinder or online dating is not your best bet. Whereas the top 20% or so of white men can compete online, only the top 5% (Asian and Indian) and 10% (Latino and Black) can do the same. Online dating massively enables a woman’s hypergamy and there’s no point in her settling for you when a better option is a few swipes away. I had a white roommate who is shorter, chubbier, and less attractive than myself, but he matched with girls on Tinder FAR more often than I did. (Whether he actually closed is another thing entirely) However, if we walked into a party together he would be invisible. In real life, my confidence and swagger shine through in a way that isn't possible on a phone screen. While he was matching with girls every week, I was consistently picking up girls on the weekends. It’s all about context.
Similarly, for a minority a cold daygame approach is an uphill battle. Yeah we’ve all seen the videos where the Asian PUA gets phone numbers, but how often do you think those girls text back? In my experience it’s not worth the time and effort unless you can establish some connection (ie not just talking to her on some random sidewalk) Your best bets are parties and social events, through your circle of friends, and clubs and group activities; basically any situation where you’re not judged solely on your looks. If you’re lifting and taking care of your appearance, girls will find you attractive, but these are situations where you can use your game, confidence, presence, and force of personality to overcome any hesitation a girl may have for your race. You know where I see Asian guys with white girls? I see them at house parties, hiking trails, and art museums. I don't see them at nightclubs or frat parties. Learn to work the venue.
Unsurprisingly, concerts and music festivals are also great place to find receptive girls. Once you bust out some sweet moves, that girl rolling won’t give a fuck what color you are.
Not all areas are the same for picking up women. Obviously you should never uproot your life solely for women, but if you have the choice of locale or you're visiting then bear this in mind. Essentially, geography can be broken down into three areas: climate, competition, and scarcity.
Climate: Not the weather, but the vibe of the city and what the ideal is. If you're in Santa Barbara or another beach town and girls are running after blonde surfer beach boys then you're gonna have a bad time. Likewise if you're in the deep South and there's lingering racial tension. Compare those locations to a place like south Florida. Proximity to the Caribbean and multicultural demographics make it much friendlier for minorities.
Competition: Who are you running up against? In a world-class city like New York you're competing with the cream of the crop. Lawyers, brokers, Old Money, male models, etc. TRP advocates BECOMING one of those world-class men, but until you do so you're playing out of your league. Compare that to the Pacific Northwest (Seattle and Portland), crawling with politically correct SJW/BP beta guys. Frame and game will take you far.
Scarcity: Where the white women at? If you want a white girl, then find out where they are. Attractive white women are rare in San Francisco, and on top of that there are plenty of Asian and Indian guys to go around. Their value becomes hugely inflated. Compare that to the Midwest where pretty white girls are a dime a dozen.
9c: Race and Culture
The other factors to take into account are the race and culture of the girl you pursue. After a certain amount of time you will find out which girls are the most receptive to you, and act accordingly. For myself, if I put in the base amount of effort, I can close an attractive Latina or mixed girl, a decent white girl, and a below average Asian. So I tend to go for Hispanic/Black/mixed-race women, avoid Asian women entirely, and handle White women on a case-by-case basis. Therefore the overall quality of the women I date and my rate of success are significantly higher than if I approached all women equally. The farther away you are from a woman's 'racial ideal', the more she will shit test you. In her mind, you have to compensate for your race by being especially Alpha.
By 'culture' I mean the social situation and preference of the girl you pursue. This also depends on where you are meeting women. For example, white men dominate Hollywood, government, and business. The closer women are to those spheres, the more they are going to pursue and value white men. Likewise, look at black men in athletics, music, and entertainment. The same applies. Different scenes will have different standards. A ‘country’ girl might exclusively date white guys, while a girl who actually lived on a farm will be open to minorities. Distinctions are paramount. Girls who overly value ‘image’ will take significantly more work.
9d: Breaking it down by race
What has been true in my experience. If you don't know where to look start here. Obviously not including girls of your own race.
Black: White girls blasting Childish Gambino and Drake, hip Asian girls on dance teams, and any Middle Eastern girl who isn't too religious. Seriously. Kim Kardashian isn't doing anything new. Arab girls LOVE black guys, anything to piss off baba.
Indian: Asian girls are receptive and Hispanic girls are down for the brown. Same color, different flavor.
Middle Eastern: Just like Indian guys, Hispanic girls are fair game. If you tend towards the white side (Lebanese, Armenian, Persian, etc.), then white girls are a viable option as long as you keep that SMV high. If you tend towards the black side (Moroccan, Egyptian, etc.), then black and mixed girls are gonna be all over you.
Hispanic: Keeping up that cultural exchange, middle eastern girls are great, especially if you're a good dancer. And like Arab guys, if you're whiter (Argentinian, from Jalisco, etc.) you can go after white girls and if you're blacker (Puerto Rican, Dominican, etc.) go after the black and mixed girls.
Asian: Nerdy white girls that read too much manga are usually down, along with black girls, as they represent the other low-SMV race for women and will welcome the attention. Besides that, the 'easy' way is to get really good at something then plow through girls in that area. The Asian guys I know that get hot (including white) girls are creative types (singer, dancer, artist, etc.) or talented athletes that are great at what they do.
If you’ve been working on your SMV any girl is worth a shot. Don’t let this point dissuade you. Just be aware of the context within which you pursue any girl and decide if you’re making progress. Evaluating your interaction is a dynamic process. The key here is to not put the pussy on a pedestal. Sometimes for guys the idea of fucking the blonde sorority girl (#4) is more appealing than the actual act.
10. The BlackPeopleTwitter Effect
You ever check out the blackpeopletwitter subreddit? It’s filled with memes and jokes from the perspective of Black popular culture. But whenever there’s a post critical of white people or poking fun at them, you can guarantee the comments section blows up with slighted whites eager to defend themselves. Use that insecurity to your advantage. This is the biggest piece of actual strategy that wasn’t included in the original post. Turn the tables and tap into White guilt and fear of exclusion to neg girls and AMOG guys.
Be ruthless with white stereotypes. THEY’RE LAME. They’re weird. They age like shit. They can’t dance. Their food is bland. White people put cucumber slices in water to make it less spicy. Call her out on her Ugg boots and Starbucks. Give that frat star shit about his Sperrys and button down. White people are dumb rednecks, boring and basic suburbians, or out-of-touch 1 percenters. They can’t win. If they try to get racial back then you use the liberal machine to your advantage, and make THEM look like the bad guys. When these white guys get pissy just call them autistic and throw out a line about them shooting the place up. Once you’ve dominated them socially and physically just wait for the girls’ war bride mentality to kick in and scoop them up.
The trick here is to be subtle with these comments. Aggressively opening with reverse racism is just going to exclude you more. Wait for an opening to present itself, and then strike. Anyone who’s spent any amount of time with white people can tell you those opportunities arise quickly and abundantly. A hard stare down and an eye roll will move mountains.
11. NEVER DATE A RACE TRAITOR
We all know these girls. Asian and Indian girls are the worst offenders. They are a liberal and 'educated' veneer over a damaged, self-hating core. Race traitors are NOT simply girls who date outside their race. Rather, they constantly talk shit about the men of their race, and systemically ignore them romantically, as they ride the carousel HARD until the wall hits and they’re forced to come crawling back to their ‘culture’ and carve out a cushy life for themselves with a BB husband and a dead bedroom. Throw in the secret orgy sex tape that hubby finds and the Reddit relationships post writes itself.
The hypocrisy is astounding. They talk about how men of their race are creepy losers, not realizing they’re shitting on their own brothers and fathers. Next time you hear an Indian girl talk about how Indian men are pussies, ask her if her sons are gonna be half or full-blooded pussy and watch her head explode. TRP does not advocate anger against women but if anyone deserves it it's these women. This might seem like a small point compared to the rest but the massive hypergamy of race traitors further skews the SMP, necessitating this guide. They're usually smart enough to at least not be single mothers by the time the wall hits, but they will ALWAYS find their BB.
If you keep working on your SMV and dating women, eventually these girls will come around. You're the perfect package. The AF they crave so much wrapped in a socially-acceptable same race package. They get to ride the carousel with no stigma. They're happy, their parents are happy, everyone wins...except you. DO NOT FALL FOR THEIR TRAP. They will work hard to rope you in and pretend they are the perfect package. Even if you ignore the whore past, the facade will inevitably crumble. Do not date them, do not marry them. They are only good for the pump and dump.
On the plus side, if you show up with a white girl on your arm, these minority girls will be the easiest fucking lays of your life and will pull the most sexually depraved shit to prove to you (and themselves) that her pussy is just as good as Stacey's.
TL;DR If there are salty white boys in the comments then you know this post is legit.