Advice for Teenagers of TRP

24219 · 2015-12-08T15:53:04+00:00

Kids, don't be an idiot and slap random girls' asses. That's a good way to ruin your life forever. With that said, also don't be a moron and ask her if you can touch her.

Here's a thought: spend some time (months, at least) figuring out how to read a woman's body language and tone of voice before you try anything bold.

If you're an average American high school male, I have some bad news. You're socially retarded. So don't do anything that could get you into trouble until you've learned how to interact with people.

SkorchZang · 2015-12-06T23:56:23+00:00

Great advice man, you're on point. But you do deserve to get some shit over the entire idea of "confessing" to a girl.

Life is way better if you never confess. You do not need to humble yourself and tell her you "like her". Acting cocky/funny, and kinda aloof will generate vagina tingles without you having to do much. Even works when you're not around, if you make the girl wonder about you and bite her fingernails over "does he like me or what?".

A good rule to set for yourself is to never even bring up "liking her", "relationship", "where this is going", "what are we" - all that doll house girly stuff, leave it to the girl. She WILL bring it up, when she's ready. If she isn't bringing it up and hinting it to you, then she's not ready. It's a waste of time to talk about it if she doesn't want your commitment yet (in any form), and takes away your power if you do. Until then, all you do is hang out with her, have fun together, and hook up. Wait about a week, and repeat. Hang out, have fun, hook up. Simple, infallible formula for men, without any girly bullshit like "confessing".

Sarcasticus · 2015-12-07T15:03:21+00:00

I'm 35. If I was 20 years younger, here's the advice I'd give myself

1) lift, exercise and stay active. Your teens and 20s are where you build the foundation for your prime, peak and decline. Moreover, you will never have testosterone levels as high as you do now. Lift and set a foundation of great health for years to come.

2) Focus on science if you're good at school. If not, find a trade you like and get good at it. University is a waste of time if your degree isn't STEM based. Don't buy into the lie that University is 'an experience' or 'the best time of your life'. That's a scam promoted by Universities to sell degrees with high profit margins. If you go to University, it is an investment in yourself to generate higher future earnings. If you're not academically minded, then find a trade or go to trade school. Spend your 20s perfecting your trade, then work for yourself in your 30s. Some might argue that's the best path to take.

3) Develop your social skills. Join clubs, team sports and practice talking to girls in your class. If you're socially awkward now, those patterns will remain unless you do something about it. Better to change those patterns now rather than later. Additionally, high school is a great opportunity to learn and practice game.

4) As a teenager, you're being flooded with hormones. As such, you will feel and interpret things on a much grander scale. If you get dumped it will feel like your life has ended. If you find a new band it may be the greatest thing you've ever heard. Keep these ideas in mind as you navigate this emotional roller coaster of a time.

5) Figure out where your talents and interests lie by trying new things. Don't buy into the hip, teenage cynicism that 'everything sucks'. People who think like that are losers. People like that are the reason why the average number of times people try new things is less than one. Try new things.

Finally, the above advice will be tough, because you'll be thinking about girls and sex 24/7. But if you focus on yourself first, as OP has said, girls will make themselves available to you.

thefisherman1961 · 2015-12-06T20:19:33+00:00

I never heard that term until recently, confess. That is the most blue pill retarded weeaboo shit ever, like its a crime or something that you're copping to. Jesus Christ.

thefisherman1961 · 2015-12-07T01:09:47+00:00

I've been on trp for a few months and I saw no advice for teenagers. So I got a few advice for you guys.

That's because there doesn't need to be any advice specifically tailored for teenagers; the sidebar and all the advice posted here doesn't magically become true the day you turn 20.

ElementArrow · 2015-12-06T22:33:56+00:00

Bro I agree with all of this, except for the last sentence says confess, replace confess to build rapport. Found TRP a couple months ago ish, n read Bang, reading The Rational Male , and 48laws. Sophomore and this all rings true.

Overkillengine · 2015-12-07T00:39:04+00:00

Personally I think young men who aren't natural alphas absolutely need to spend time in their blue pill world.

I figured out a lot of the stuff on here early and independently by observing how "naturals" did it. Spent my teens and twenties taking risks, smashing, and living life on my own terms.

Early-mid twenties I decide "I am never going to meet a 'nice girl' like this." so I started shedding my hard won alpha characteristics to attract "good girls".

After about 5 years of looking, I had an epiphany. "Good girls" or "unicorns" as they are known here are so rare as to be for all intents and purposes non existent. These "good girls" I knew and tried to LTR? Turns out they were just hoes who were better at masking their hoedom and rolling back their hoedometers.

If I had spent some time in the blue zone as a kid, I might be in a better place than today.

Or not. Who the fuck knows.

2015-12-07T17:23:49+00:00

As a 17 year old, I'm pretty glad to be reading this sub. Really started to change my attitude.

rpscrote · 2015-12-08T15:54:30+00:00

The #1 single most important thing for every male teenager is to LIFT WEIGHTS. Eat properly and lift weights.

You can get big and strong in a way you will NEVER have the opportunity to do so ever again. So do not waste this absolutely golden time. You have testosterone and growth hormone levels that require injections to get when you're older. And you make it naturally right now.

Lift, and eat your body weight in grams of protein or more, and you will get muscular and strong.

Alanranks7 · 2015-12-07T03:00:55+00:00

High school and TRP mix quite well but many traditional methods of getting women are off the table. Also coming from high school you can get with girls without having them charge you with rape and make you a social pariah like in college. Hopefully I can use TRP to its full extent by the time I graduate.

Also OP #3 is so fucking true. It is like moths around a dim lamp.

MattyAnon · 2015-12-07T03:19:57+00:00

Also, learn the word "no".

Observe that I didn't say "no because" or "probably not" or "I don't want to" or "no but please don't hate me" or "I don't really want to".

The word is "no" and it has no need of explanation, justification or followup.

BJS_1 · 2015-12-07T14:11:22+00:00

If you can keep it in your pants, or at least wrap it up b. Last thing you need, especially if you are an athlete or have some other high earning potential, is some girl trying to leech off your future success with a surprise baby. She'll keep it if you're going somewhere in life.

marinewannabee97 · 2015-12-07T23:48:19+00:00

I'll be completely honest, right now, I simply do not have time for a women. I am an engineering student, army reservist, trainning for a powerlifting comp and trying to scrape by on part time work. In a few years I will most definatelly have time. A usefull peice of advice for teens is know when you are doing too much. No one gets to the top by being a jack of all trades. Focus on the important things for now.

RBuddDwyer · 2015-12-08T03:19:19+00:00

All teenagers wishing to unplug should read The Book of Pook. That is the foundation for the rest of your life. Go forth and Unite Dream and Day.

WakandaDrama · 2015-12-12T19:12:54+00:00

Get a job in retail. Practice small talk with cute customers and co-workers. Get minimum wage to conquer any social anxiety or inexperience. Practice flirting with teenage single moms, they love it but you should never act on a word. I worked retail in high school and the amount good looking women I saw and talked to numbed me to approaching to a certain degree.

Almost Every girl in your high school will probably be unrecognizable 5 years after graduation. Girls I was lusting after now have 3 kids and 80lbs to show for it. Some of them look 40 but haven't even touched early 30s yet.

Boovs4life · 2015-12-07T00:27:40+00:00

I wish I had found TRP my junior year of high school. I feel like I wasted the last two years of high school by being a complete bitch boy instead of bagging some sweet high school chicks. At least I found it a few months before entering college!

Iamnotheattack · 2015-12-06T19:10:18+00:00

The way to get laid if your in high school is just hit them up on fb or something and just days let's chill.

That's all you have to do tbh, everyone says just have fun and that's the truth, just when you go to parties just Dance and make out with whatever girl you want and then whenever you are horny just hit them up.

Minimalicious · 2015-12-06T23:49:36+00:00

Something about high school girls' lack of accountability makes them the absolute worst age group to interact with, along with college girls. Good post, except for "confess."

Title	Advice for Teenagers of TRP
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