Need advice.

Nybaz · 2019-10-05T07:50:55+00:00

Young woman goes out every day, doesn't answer to texts when out, and doesn't want sex from her bf.

You tell me how this looks.

2stepp · 2019-10-05T07:57:15+00:00

The past 6 months to a year have been strange.

She works in a factory and goes out with her "work buddies" every payday.

As I'm typing this she has been out for a good 5 hours without responding to my one text message I sent her.

She makes excuses as for why we don't have sex anymore.

Oh, boy... So do you guys want to tell him or should I?

Just let me know why I need MGTOW. Thanks.

Because she's already cheating on you, dude.

redshieldheroz · 2019-10-05T08:09:51+00:00

"She's not yours, its just your turn."

MrMagtow · 2019-10-05T09:12:57+00:00

OP, I don't think you need MGTOW at all.

I think you should go out and spend 3 months of your salary on a shiny rock, get down on one knee, marry her, move into a house that you cannot afford, have 3 children, 2 of which won't look anything like you, start hanging around /r/DeadBedrooms and ask why you're not having sex, start arguing, get divorced, move into a tiny apartment, keep working for the next 18 years paying off the mortgage and car loans, barely see your kids unless they want money... yeah, do that.

_ImS_ · 2019-10-05T07:49:42+00:00

So youre not getting possibly the main thing you were in it for. She was a stage 5 clinger and now she no longer gives you sex?

Stockholm my brother.

HighAfBullfrog · 2019-10-05T08:06:00+00:00

She found better dick. Sorry for you.

You're welcome here, of course.

Agile_Autist · 2019-10-05T07:51:48+00:00

This day and age, everyone has their phone on them and checks it regularly. Hate to break it to you, but it sounds like she’s straight up ignoring you, bro.. Don’t fall for her stupid excuses as to why she couldn’t text back.

I hope you’re able to get out of that mess before it spirals out of control because that is the only direction it’s going from what I just read..

Krazyrobus · 2019-10-05T08:03:59+00:00

You are approaching it wrong, it's not why we think you need mgtow, it is why YOU think you need mgtow.

WaywardStag · 2019-10-05T08:19:21+00:00

I'm not miserable in my relationship, but I'm not exactly happy either.

You're not miserable, yet. You have all the beginnings of a miserable relationship in the future though. You think she's going to somehow gain enough common decency and respect to reply to your messages in future? You think she's going to want sex again out of nowhere? You don't think she's going to push these boundaries further and further as you let her get away with it?

On paper, it looks like she's either cheating on you or looking to monkey-branch to a new guy, or both.

It takes a long time to rebuild self-worth if you see all the signs but let yourself get fucked over anyway. MGTOW is about men doing what's right for themselves, you do what's right for you - but be smart about it.

Edit: By the way dude, no one is ignoring your replies - we can't see them. I can only see them when I visit your profile directly. This subreddit seems to filter out replies from new accounts until a mod approves them.

iseehot · 2019-10-05T12:18:58+00:00

You know you should leave, you just don't know how.

Don't discuss this with her, don't change anything.* DO NOT HAVE SEX WITH HER.
Start putting money aside and looking for a new place.
When the lease comes up, move when she is at work. Ghost. Make sure the lease is paid up to the end.

*Unless you want her to seek revenge on you for waking up.

You are in a good situation since she is not financially dependent on you. Unless the law is different where you are, your walking away has no legal consequences.

user_miki · 2019-10-05T08:39:17+00:00

goes out with her "work buddies" every payday.

And you are still with her?Are you allowed to go out with female friends every payday or a relax day?

If she denies sex she gets it from somewhere else.

altburger69 · 2019-10-05T13:29:58+00:00

Next time you kiss her, come back here and let us know what sperm tastes like... I'm told its salty.

You can improve the taste if you can get her donor to eat pineapple before he shoots his yogurt down her throat is also a thing I think.

[deleted] · 2019-10-05T10:41:52+00:00

This is not really a MGTOW thing, if:

you're not having sex
you don't feel right in the relationship anymore
you're not just "feeling" it

The relationship is now past due, time to separate amicably before things degenerate.

rodolfo77777 · 2019-10-05T19:07:55+00:00

you want us to tell you what you already know

tw-1234a · 2019-10-06T21:48:44+00:00

NAWALT list. See if you can see your reason:

She's Christian

She's young

She's old

She's conservative

She's reasonable

She's a mother

She's a single mother

She's a virgin

She's my only girlfriend

She's heavy

She's ugly

She's caring

Anyone else?

Noodlezmacintosh · 2019-10-05T07:54:54+00:00

Should I say anything to her when she finally gets home?

InsideSmoke · 2019-10-05T08:13:14+00:00

Are you thinking what I'm thinking?

[deleted] · 2019-10-05T09:59:58+00:00

You need to break up with her when she gets home. The disrespect is real.

ExistentDavid1138 · 2019-10-05T10:00:51+00:00

Dump her no sex means no rewards she doesn't deserve you.

Ody_ssey · 2019-10-05T10:02:20+00:00

The reason she swipes your chat notifications away is that she doesn't want to let you know what she's doing and your follow up messages will disturb her more. But do you see women without phone for more than 10minutes. Phone is a portal to receive validation and attention specially when they have "fun" outside.

She does chat with her other friends from swipe notifications so that you can't see her online. Don't become a provider and marriage material for her.

BlackPillPusher · 2019-10-05T10:04:39+00:00

She's cheating on you, obviously, and has been for a while, haven't found someone as stable as you yet but that's in the works and the moment she will you'll be promptly dumped.

lonewolfsigmamgtow · 2019-10-05T10:23:04+00:00

Well she is finding another one for monkey branching & unless and until she finds one, she is not gonna leave ya (the branch she is holding). ALPHA FUCKS BETA BUCKS

Read this thank me later https://psmag.com/.amp/environment/17-to-1-reproductive-success

[deleted] · 2019-10-05T11:00:35+00:00

See for yourself - https://www.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/dcc55y/get_ready_for_the_truth_boys_chads_at_work_anyone/

kes_unum · 2019-10-05T15:05:14+00:00

Literally reading this I thought i wrote it drunk at some point lol. Listen to these people. The outside world portrays mgtow as women haters but the info in this groups is like "honey dripping from my lips" (dps). The best thing i can tell you is to detach yourself and make ypurself a priority more. Take away your time and if she still wanta you she will run back (but here is where you have to decide if you'll take her back or not). I mean you can re build the attraction (ive done it before) but in all honesty the best advice is what everyone in here has already told you. I went against mgtow ideas (it was before i knew of them) and re attracted my ex 3 years ago. I managed with red pill and mgtow info to re build the attraction but on the same token i know she can ruin it all in one night. So i am enjoying the ride. NEVER MARRY THO.

bitlingr · 2019-10-05T16:18:16+00:00

Im in a similar situation. Except she demands sex from me. I am just focused on other stuff that betters my life. Mostly I want to get in shape.

walkersm · 2019-10-05T16:25:58+00:00

Are you guys entangled financially? Like a lease or rent a place together?

Fact of the matter is you are an expired BF You failed to commit to marriage after 1 year so she had to start looking for the next one. Now, she won't get rid of you even though your are expired until she has the next one lined up and set up. We men like to think women are all into love and feelings and that guides their actions but in this regard they are very pragmatic.

Think of the expression:

"A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush"

She is not going to give up one protector till the next one signs on for the job, otherwise she would be without a protector. That is the female cave woman mind at work. It's cold blooded as fuck but I respect the practicality of it as a man.

yardbird98 · 2019-10-05T17:23:11+00:00

She knows that the wall is coming and doesn’t want to miss out on the cock carousel experience.

BadassGT-CS · 2019-10-05T18:44:38+00:00

Christ, wake up Brother!!!!! If you are dumb enough to fuck her again, make sure you wear a condom.

BlasphemousMGTOW · 2019-10-05T19:05:05+00:00

She is fucking someone else

Not once i have been wrong

antifeminist3 · 2019-10-05T20:37:01+00:00

Sounds like she is having sex, but not with you. If she claims she lost her virginity to you, there is no way to guarantee this is true.

LOIKDU · 2019-10-05T21:48:38+00:00

Dude she's cheating on you

max-million · 2019-10-06T00:17:45+00:00

Sometimes the obvious solution is the right one. I was an almost 6 years relationship very similar to your own (this was before I went my own way) she left want to not leave me, but see where things went with "CHAD" (lol, what a cuck I was) haven't talked to her since.

If the relationship is already on the downward spiral, better to quit it with your dignity still intact.

HotAndColdSlaw · 2019-10-06T01:05:39+00:00

4 years and virginity is a lot. You have to be careful here.

In the spirit of MTGOW, I would say that you have to focus on yourself. Are you getting what you want out of the relationship? Are you putting yourself into the relationship?

In other words, you need to focus on yourself and your relationship with the girl, in order to go your own way, whatever that may be.

NoCharism · 2019-10-06T14:41:59+00:00

theres probably a chad at the place she works at, or the boss shows interest in her

PrinceRaj53 · 2019-10-05T09:12:49+00:00

I think a big LOL is the best answer to your question.

FightClubHamster69 · 2019-10-05T12:30:47+00:00

She’s banging other guys just doesn’t have the heart to tell cuz she feels bad about doing It. Just a guess

Title	Need advice.
Author	Noodlezmacintosh
Upvotes	26
Comments	69
Date	October 5, 2019 7:46 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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