Maybe I should say semi-successful or at least a “man getting his shit together”.

The only reason I say this is because the MGTOW community has given me the logic and wisdom to see when someone sees me as opportunity.

I am 46, an electrical engineer making about 103k a year with bonus on top of salary. Not a huge amount of money but it’s decent and I have a lot of growth potential.

I own a condo even though it’s not huge and one bedroom I have about $20k in equity in it

I have a 401k plan and even though it’s not huge I have about $135,000 in it

My personal debts are going to be cleared out in two years on a debt consolidation plan. This does not include mortgage student loan or car payment just my lines of credit and store cards and things. Most of it was to pay for new appliances furniture and renovating my place because it needed it.

Anyhow she is 35, doesn’t drive, lives with her mom, has no education beyond high school, doesn’t have a real career, and doesn’t really have it together. Plus she refuses to cook.

And on top of this thinks that “she doesn’t want to rush into having sex....” which means basically just kissing and holding holding hands over at Al’s Diner on Happy Days.

She even sent me a photo of a ring “in case we get married in a couple years”...

Five years ago I would have put her on a pedestal in hopes of at least getting sex... not anymore.

I’m catching up for lost time and rebuilding myself and my life. I am not going to fuck it all up for a woman who may not even like sex.