Why is it that my girlfriend tells me she used to be a whore?

Or: "She flirts with other men in front of me!"

The ones that frequent askTRP are bound to see these questions repeated a million times, and we often fail to answer.

It is a consequence of solipsism, or if you forgive me lending the technical term a broader conception, it is projection.

True empathy, which is the capacity of fully abstracting yourself from your principles and structure, placing yourself at another person's spot and think from there, is rare, hardly existent.

And your girlfriend doesn't have it towards you. She has sympathy at best, which is the capacity to answer "If I was in his shoes I would...". Personally I believe empathy doesn't, it's just intelligence and capacity of abstraction.

Your girlfriend is mostly oblivious to whatever traits make her attractive for you, but she is aware of what makes a man attractive for her. Most of us here is game aware and knows what role pre selection plays, so, this is it. She is showing to you that she is desired and has the approval of others, she is pre selected.

She is gaming you with the game that is tested and proven on herself. And her panties get wet when she receives attention from a man that ignores all the other women on his feet to be with her.

Now, this might come for you in three flavors.
If the woman is naive, inexperienced, and wasn't gamed a lot, she might be oblivious to it, at first. She might learn how to do it, and she might not, but bear in mind this is natural for her, and it doesn't doesn't take a lot to learn something natural. No one has to tell you to shit crouched if there's no toilet.
If she's not that naive, she already knows and she will use it to try and raise her value for you. She dread games you.
Now, if she's intelligent, she might also notice that she doesn't like feminine men. One of the first things she'll notice is how much she is attracted to a solid man who can offer her support and leadership and how much it turns her off when a man puts her in this role. In this case there is a chance that she won't game you the way you're supposed to game other women, but don't rejoice, she is past this stage. She games you better and more effectively.

AWALT gentleman. If you want to escape it, you can start trying some cock.

Now, unfortunately, dreading you will work for her, but for a slightly different reason.

When you play with pre selection, she places more value on you, she sees you carry the approval of her peers. She feels she is the chosen one, the elected one, she projects her hypergamy and hence she feels reassured that she is BETTER than the others. Provided that you don't screw comfort tests.

On the other hand, when she does it to you, she will undermine your confidence, she will make you feel like you're the idiot that payed with commitment what others bought with dick, you'll be on scarcity, you'll feel that happens because your dick isn't worth a lot, and if you go too deep on this you'll probably want a woman that fucks your dick and not your promises of love.