I'm currently in a fuck-buddy relationship with a highly rational woman. She's a career woman, very independent, makes her own money, doesn't want a relationship nor does she have the time for them. By all accounts, she has a very red pill view on relationships. She prefers casual hook ups until she finds the right "prospect" (her words) to eventually settle down with. This is all well and good, and we have fun, but I don't know...Something is deeply off-putting about her and women like this

I always feel like it's a trap and they're going to switch it up on me at any moment...

Or maybe I just prefer highly emotional & chaotic women. Who knows.