Today was my day.

kciskbycalabrese · 2019-08-24T05:25:25+00:00

Nice. Time to put that bitch on the back burner, and go your own way.

Your co-worker will likely fuck her, then throw her to the side and now she has no one to run to. Don’t fall for her tricks when she tries to beg for your consolation this time.

Best of luck OP

limpanlimp · 2019-08-24T05:30:06+00:00

That hoe will want you when you ignore her, don’t let her in. She’s not worth it.

Krazyrobus · 2019-08-24T06:20:22+00:00

Never ever be an emotional tampon for a woman you wanna fuck. End that friendship,improve yourself and never repeat this mistake.

Chakra_Devourer · 2019-08-24T06:21:59+00:00

lol...you're just an emotional tampon to her.

Make sure you burn this into your memory. Never forget this!

wathon2 · 2019-08-24T07:41:41+00:00

DO NOT be friend with women.

Women have boyfriend(s) and girlfriends. If you are not fucking her, you are her girl friends.

It's projection that many men fell victim too. Men want a kind caring woman, so they think women also want a kind caring men. Wrong!! Women are NOT men, they don't think like men, they don't love like men (if they are even capable of love at all). This is Redpill 101, STOP projecting your morals, kindness, and compassion onto women.

GoingCamaro · 2019-08-24T06:57:42+00:00

You're at a critical point where you run the risk of a relapse. She may try to drag you back down. Don't. In fact, you need to ghost her now.

You are the prize. Live your life and be happy.

HotAndColdSlaw · 2019-08-24T08:27:07+00:00

She was just using you as an emotional dumping ground.

You are lucky you found out about her fucking this other guy, because it makes her nature very clear.

AWALT, and GYOW!

[deleted] · 2019-08-24T08:31:38+00:00

Been there brother. Trust no cunt.

Batman_MGTOW · 2019-08-24T07:03:55+00:00

Women don't love men, they love what men can do for them, such is the nature of love for an object. https://youtu.be/riDVgIG_LNQ

FSA-Got-Aleppo · 2019-08-24T06:37:10+00:00

You were used as an emotional tampon. Don't.

shatterthecrystal63 · 2019-08-24T07:46:04+00:00

Good, let him fuck her. His dumbass will get sperm jacked.

Best case scenario, she gets laid with him, he pops smoke with no forwarding address. Perfect time to use my favorite line from the Watchmen.

When she asks to talk about it, simply look down and whisper "No". Maybe even smile too, if you want.

cjwisoxlwcisjwnsix · 2019-08-24T10:06:11+00:00

Welcome to mgtow. I really don't mean to be rude...

Assume she came to you right now crying and said how much she loves you and wants to be with you etc. What do you do?

If you decide to have relations with her then this may be the wrong sub.

Either way welcome, I clearly am just assuming shit based on how I percieved your post. I apologize if I'm completely off base.

dine_o_mite · 2019-08-24T07:14:25+00:00

I have a very, very similar story. you learned from it, learned how to spot these emotional leaches, learned to ignore them. don't forget that pain, because if you forget what you learned you'll be reminded in the same way again. now go pick them weights up and get to it. rock on my man. 🤘

anonym1230 · 2019-08-24T09:55:40+00:00

good grief

you need the **** beaten out of you to help prevent relapse.

all the simptoms of cuck disease

raptur_jesus · 2019-08-24T10:06:36+00:00

Dont let her come crawling back

And dont think "itll be different with me and her" cuz it wont be.

Origami84 · 2019-08-24T05:27:41+00:00

Just make sure you won't forget it all again the second your disappointment starts to fade away. PErsonally i am not even against dating around, but that should only be part of your life., not something that swallow every other interests you had.

[deleted] · 2019-08-24T07:09:08+00:00

The scales have fallen from your eyes.

AncientMGTOWWISDOM · 2019-08-24T07:38:50+00:00

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MrHupfDohle · 2019-08-24T11:31:50+00:00

Finally. Care for yourself. As soon as your coworker is done with her, she will try to get your attention again. You are her fanboy after all. Do not fall for that shit. Ignore her. At some point she will bait you with more than just friendship. Fuck her with a condom(!!!) and leave her behind in the dust afterwards. This way you had your fun with her, but you are not in danger. Do not stick to her cause she will ruin your life!

67chevysunburn · 2019-08-24T07:59:04+00:00

Today is the first day of the rest of your life brother. It's like paying off your mortgage, now you've freed up a huge portion of your life to pursue art, adventure and sport without ticks like her weighing you down.

You'll be able to spot these blood parasites from a mile off and recognise the symptoms before they can infect you. Well done.

Grant1412 · 2019-08-24T08:16:44+00:00

Damn, all the incomming comments are full of wisdom.

It's so great to see.

Edit: not sarcasm, just to clarify.

PhoenixRising-MGTOW · 2019-08-24T12:06:09+00:00

Glad you’re back on track! Remember that both your validation and worth as a man comes from within, and has nothing to do with anyone else’s opinion of you- especially a woman.

Let her go. She sounds like a real hypergamous modern woman, always looking for the bigger, better deal. She will soon leave the guy she is with now for a man who is the bigger better deal than him. The cycle will continue until she hits about 35 years old then, after taking loads of bad boy dick she will do what her mother and feminism taught her. Find a nice beta male with resources to trick into a fraudulent marriage where she has planned the divorce rape before the wedding ceremony. She will pop out 2 or 3 kids and after about 10 years of marriage will complete her plan. She will divorce you, sue for child support and lifetime alimony. The family court which is biased against men will take your home and your kids and you likely never see them again. Then you will be labeled a deadbeat dad and will be throw in jail and lose your drivers license if you can’t make a child support payment (no matter what the reason). After a few years of this torture you will age greatly and be more likely to develop chronic disease due to stress. Many men simply cant handle this and end up committing suicide.

I feel your pain brother but you dodged a HUGE bullet with this girl.

PhantasyBoy · 2019-08-24T13:16:30+00:00

Don’t let her back. She’ll be in touch, just make sure you’re ‘busy’

BertTheWelder · 2019-08-24T16:01:20+00:00

Happiness comes from within. You can’t let anyone else determine whether you can be happy or not.

Play that bass, lift those weights, and get your license in a hurry! You get to be you again now.

user_miki · 2019-08-24T08:06:37+00:00

she played you and keep you as backup just in case.There is name for that, beta orbiter or simp.

Dinomiteblast · 2019-08-24T08:07:36+00:00

OP are you me? I had a similar experience almost the same word for word. Only i never stopped what i liked to do.

Did the same, ghosted her one day and now she makes things super awkward at work acting like she doesnt know how to be around me while i just completely ignore every try she does to rekindle the friendship.

I like it, felt like a burden fall from my shoulders. Now i get to see her miserable when her new bf treats her like shit or when work isnt getting done without feeling pressured into helping.

You will find you will get angry at her for beeing like this. But most of them are like this. AWALT.

Grant1412 · 2019-08-24T08:10:37+00:00

The things you were doing made you useful to her. Those same things completely disqualified you as a potentual lover.

But now you know, you were just wasting your time anyway.

Also, if you had won, the 100% truth is that your prize would have been a lie.

For woman, it's about cost vs benefit. It's never about love. You do not want to qualify for that.

Zetaghostmale · 2019-08-24T08:15:09+00:00

As I have commented previously, the friendzone was the first stone on my way to being MGTOW.

Fortunately as I delved into our beloved philosophy, I found better motives.

Take advantage and start down the rabbit hole. It is a fascinating journey. The best thing that can happen to you is that you end up respecting yourself at once.

You are welcome.

dirtydog113 · 2019-08-24T12:17:42+00:00

Welcome to the first day of the rest of your life...

commmander_fox · 2019-08-24T12:37:40+00:00

When she comes to you and starts leeching off you for emotional stuff, read her texts, but never reply, she'll have a mental breakdown over it due to anxiety

eduardkoopman · 2019-08-24T12:57:16+00:00

Great.
Imo. Don't go the "friendship" route, or the orbiter route, or being backup plan number 8, with women. It's 99% of the time, humiliating oneself, lowering your own sense of self-esteem, putting your own developments and other opportunities on hold.
And even the cases that the man did end up with the women, he always was/is the lesser one in the relationship. Often meaning he was kinda her slave.

guilhermefdias · 2019-08-24T14:48:25+00:00

Red flag are red flags.

We can see it from fay away, but most men are blind by the female reomance.

MichaelSkarn_FBI · 2019-08-24T15:40:01+00:00

It’s hard to see the red flags when you’re close to the pedestal.

Today is your day. So is every day from now on.

Ignore her. She’s going to realize she’s losing an orbiter and might try to bait you back in, “you’re just like all the other guys,” which will instinctively make you want to prove yourself. Don’t take the bait. She made her choice.

She’ll make some “lucky” guy miserable someday. Don’t let it be you.

countinginsolitude · 2019-08-24T16:21:06+00:00

Glad you've realized what a waste of time she was. Now GYOW and don't look back.

attilathehunzo · 2019-08-24T19:09:15+00:00

You’re not entitled to fuck someone just because you’ve been a friend to someone. Focus on yourself. Check your entitlement.

strainer123 · 2019-08-24T19:19:48+00:00

You put yourself in the friendzone, remember that, everytime you accept being just their friend instead of walking out you put yourself in the friendzone not her.

Introthink · 2019-08-24T12:07:50+00:00

Good day to be a MGTOW!

privatiieer · 2019-08-24T13:04:11+00:00

this girl i was talking to liked me a lot but bc im joining the army and going to b leaving she would ghost me for a week then hmu and her reason was she didnt wanna get too attached. after the third or fourth time i told her that im not just here for her when shes bored and im done with her bullshit games. she wasnt even throwing it back im glad im done with her

ThePhantom42069 · 2019-08-24T13:54:24+00:00

Pls update on what happens with her

RevolutionaryPea7 · 2019-08-24T15:41:44+00:00

We've all been there. I have this dark period in my life in which I didn't really do anything except chase pussy. I had this one ex I wasted far too much time on, and then tried to fill the void with other women. When I look back so many of the things I enjoy, the things that make me me, were just forgotten. My skills were no longer being practised. When I snapped out of it I realised how much more fulfilling life can be when you live it for yourself instead of for women.

Helikzhan · 2019-08-24T16:54:45+00:00

You were an orbiter. It seems you've realized it now. Look back on this time as much as needed to prevent it from happening again.

Gloval1 · 2019-08-24T22:46:12+00:00

Being friends with women leads nowhere. I have my whole high school era as proof of that. And in the 16 years since that part of my life ended things have only gotten sooooo much worse.

[deleted] · 2019-08-24T13:51:10+00:00

I would if you weren't my best friend

This BS has never made sense to me. She should be dating you BECAUSE you have become her best friend. Fuck women and their illogical behavior. Ghost her.

goingmyownway_ghost · 2019-08-24T16:36:57+00:00

she viewed you as her gay best friend never orbit around or be friends with a slut ur trying too fuck ...simply move on if she rejects

Yozma058 · 2019-08-24T19:35:40+00:00

Better know this now than 20 yrs later. Remember, AWALT.

strainer123 · 2019-08-24T19:18:15+00:00

Serves you right for being a blue-pilled simp that tries to friendship his way into some pussy, women despise touchy-feely guys and will fuck the guy that ignores them hours after meeting them, you should know that since you're on this subreddit.

Title	Today was my day.
Author	Gottahaveyourpops
Upvotes	365
Comments	77
Date	August 24, 2019 5:10 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/cupbcr/today_was_my_day/
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