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Attraction is 95% how you look. Only other 5% is your personality, game, money, status, fame and everything else.

What do i mean by that?

When a woman looks at you and ask herself "would i like his dick inside me?" the biggest factor by far is going to be how you look.

How is that possible?

Think about when you see a woman. All you need is 1 second and you know if you would fuck her or not. In that one second you can also rate 1-10 how bad do you want to fuck her. Did you think about her personality, job, past, friends circle,...? No you didn't. You just took a quick look and your monkey brain decided the rest. Women work the same way. Their monkey brain also needs 1 second to estimate your looks and decide if she wants you to fuck her brains out or not.

Why am i telling you this?

TheRedPill is full o great self-improvement advice. If you read a lot of material and apply it in your life you can improve it in many different ways.

However, when it comes to attracting women, i feel like many of you still believe that's something that you need to learn. You may think that only if you knew the right things to say you could get the girl that you like. Or that if you mastered game you could get any girl you wish.

Sure that is small factor, but its not what you should aim for because it is time consuming and yielding little results. What is a difference between average looking guy and average looking guy with game when approaching a girl? Its the same difference that you feel when you speak with 6/10 girl and you find out that she is down to earth, funny, interesting and cool girl to hang with or just a boring 6/10 that has nothing to offer. You may even decide to fuck a girl that you usually wouldn't just because you like spending time with her.

Same thing happens when you are "gaming" women. There is nothing more happening than her looking at the same you and this time thinking "He seems pretty cool, i guess we could meet up."

If you think game works that well tell me who would you rather be. Guy with:

3/10 looks and 9/10 game or 9/10 looks and 3/10 game.

Easy choice, right?

If you want more success with woman you must improve your appearance. Reading 300 pages book from PUA isn't going to help you much.

Who am i to tell you this?

I've been reading TRP for a couple of years and i have found a lot of good advice here. It helped me become a man i wanted to be. Last 1.5 years i have been trained hard at the gym and it is amazing how much has woman's attitude changed towards me. I used to have average body, but i have put on some muscle mass and it made such a difference that i can't believe it. I just spent the day reflecting on how i lived the last 6 months and my life changed so much it inspired me to write this post and share my experience with you. I haven't changed much as a person in that time, so this success must be because of how i look.

So what changed? Everywhere i go girls always look and smile at me. They find excuses to talk to me. They approach me randomly in the middle of day. They always playfully touch my muscles even if i barely know them. They let me fuck them first time we meet. I was once told "lets go fuck at my place" by a girl after we talked for 5 minutes. Those things didn't happen in the past when i was skinny and tried to be "alpha" and game girls. Don't take this as a bragging because i'm not even that good-looking. I have 8/10 face and 7,5/10 body. I'm just saying what helped me and what i suggest you to try.

Proof

What can you do about it?

First thing you should do is clean your face, get rid of any acne, get a great haircut and shave/grow your beard (whichever look better).

Second thing is start lifting. Train like a crazy motherfucker and eat like a crazy motherfucker. Educate yourself on the topic of bodybuilding. Keep repeating until you look in the mirror and see good physique.

And final third – fashion. You don't have to think much about it. When you put your clothes on just look in the mirror and answer honestly: Does this look good?

I just hope that i influence at least a couple of you to start taking steps in the right way, instead of losing your mind in all TRP theory available. Start lifting as soon as possible. For your own health, strength, confidence and success with women.

If you have any questions feel free to ask me.