One of the most common things that guys who learn about game do is tell themselves, “I’ll start doing game, as soon as…”
You know, I’ll start doing game as soon as I’m in shape, I’ll start doing game as soon as I get my career handled. I’ll start doing game as soon as I’ve watched enough videos about how to do game.
This type of thinking is dangerous, start taking action today. If you haven’t gone out to meet women recently, go right now. Just go outside, go to a mall, your college campus, or even a busy street and just put yourself out there.
Don’t wait, you’ll never be “ready”- you’re never going to feel “ready”, your emotions are going to keep telling you to wait until tomorrow, and if you listen to your emotions, you’ll never get the results you want.
I’m not saying you shouldn’t get in better shape, I’m not saying you shouldn’t get your career handled, but telling yourself that you can’t start doing game until you’ve got some other area of your life mastered is a very limiting way of thinking.
You might tell yourself you don’t have time, you might tell yourself you don’t have good enough logistics because you still live with your parents, you might tell yourself a million different excuses, but no matter how real your excuses feel, don’t trust them.
That first step is hard to take, the idea of approaching strangers can be stressful, and you know what, truthfully, you probably won’t get any results at first, it’ll be messy, it’ll be awkward, but you have to have the belief that you can make this happen.
The first step is not tomorrow, it’s not a week from now, it’s now. You might think, ‘I’ll wait for the weekend when the clubs are busy,” “I’ll wait till I can find a friend to go with,” you know what? Fuck that. Fuck that thinking, the more you put your success in the hands of external factors, the less power you give yourself to control your own future.
Go out now, take that first step, it might not go well. It might be awkward. So what? If you let your feelings control you, you’re never going to get anywhere. Its up to you, are you going to be the guy who is in a perpetual state of waiting for the stars to align?
Or are you going to make things happen, now?
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