I was just driving and thinking of this and had to pull over to write it. I'm a 39f and I have not hit the wall. I actually think I'm more beautiful than ever, I have more experience with make up, have money for the good stuff and look good.

But what I really have is a great career, a healthy 401k, a great outlook on life, bullshit radar, and low tolerance of shitty behavior in my life. My friendships are strong and I have a lifetime of amazing memories and experiences. And generally speaking, I have life experience.

Men say women hit the wall at 30. Why? Because it's easier to manipulate a woman in her 20s. She may not have a lot of life experiences nor sexual experiences.

He can take advantage of her more easily. She doesn't have a strong BS radar yet and friendships tend to come and go a bit more because of schooling, moving, and marriages so that support isn't always there.

A man will try to control a woman through her lack of finances. You're starting off in your career so money can be a bit tight and not enough time for good growth potential in your investments.

So they say Woman hit the wall at 30, however what it really is, is that we've become stronger and smarter and won't tolerate their crap and we sill look beautiful whereas they don't.... And they hate us for all this. They've lost their control and they can't stand it. They've lost their looks. That's what they really mean when they say a woman has hit her wall.