Here are the demographics of your life:

1 - The women who absolutely adore you.

2 - The women who kind of like you/the women who use you.

3 - The women who don't know or care that you exist.

The problem with BP thinking is the persistent notion that Group 2 can be converted to Group 1. Or they just settle for Group 3 becoming Group 2 and take pitiful consolation in the fact that "at least someone knows I exist." But this is the most toxic and life-wasting: "If I keep at this girl, I can make someone who's just ok with me into someone who totally wants me."

It's bad personal economics.

It takes less time and less effort to widen the search, to find your scattered adoring fans, than it does to pluck someone from the indifferent masses and try to convert them to your cause.

Why?

Attraction is instant.

Imagine you spend the next year approaching 5 women a day. That's well over 1,500 women per year. Most of them won't care who you are. Many of them will be just ok with you/want to use you. And the golden few will want you instantly and be absolutely elated to have you for whatever length of time you stay interesting or interested.

So really, when I say everyone else can go to hell, you'd better listen.

Everyone else can absolutely go to hell. Because if you think about it logically, the women who actively don't know who you are/don't care, won't waste your time. It's that middle demographic, the ones who kind of like you and just want to use you, that will eat all the time and energy and focus you could be sharing with the women who actually want to fuck your brains out from the moment you meet.

When it comes to someone you want to fuck - never waste time. Because it's so utterly goddamn tempting to waste time pursuing sex it is imperative that you practice discipline in that area. Some men will chase ass for 20 years before even getting an inkling of what it's all about, before realizing how much time they wasted (if they ever realize it).

They might turn 80 years old before finally realizing, "Oh the women who really liked me, they all liked me from the moment we first met." Good job, Sherlock. Now your dick doesn't work and you have a foot in the grave.

Don't be like that. If she likes you, she's going to show it. She's going to engage in repartee, be open to your innuendo, touch you, and just generally have fun in your presence. Your interaction won't be work at all.

This is also why I moved on from PUA literature really quickly. It focuses on "getting" women into your life rather than "allowing" them in. Big difference.

Lesson: Once you've upped your SMV through lifting, better clothes, maybe more money and interesting activities, tune your radar to the women who are obviously interested and forget all the rest. Saves a shitload of frustration.