And this is why I stopped online dating altogether. I'm average looking at best, look young for my age, and have been told I'm "not ugly". Yet when I get a match it's like pulling teeth to get a girl to say anything beyond a simple one or two words. So unless you're in the top 20% of guys then don't bother.
Completely believe you. I have to message back with complete red pill/PUA nonsense to even remotely get their attention. I have to neg and neg and neg, and it's mentally exhausting to keep having to play those stupid games. I asked myself if it's even worth bothering, and after spending a few years on MGTOW forums now I'm convinced it's not.
Also, not complaining, and not mad at all; just realize that I'm better off allocating my limited time on earth to more productive endeavors.
his intelligence doesn't really matter. "Chad" is a good-looking (even hot) male who has "natural game" and gets the average girl rather easily. I know a few guys like that myself, they're still are bluepilled to the core (e.g. wanting "the one" for settling down and starting a family with later in life).
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Maybe I'm just naive but I can't believe how many of them were responding to him given that so many of his messages were cringeworthy/red flagish.
I wish I had seen this years ago as I wouldn't have wasted almost a year using online dating.
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And this is why I stopped online dating altogether. I'm average looking at best, look young for my age, and have been told I'm "not ugly". Yet when I get a match it's like pulling teeth to get a girl to say anything beyond a simple one or two words. So unless you're in the top 20% of guys then don't bother.
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Completely believe you. I have to message back with complete red pill/PUA nonsense to even remotely get their attention. I have to neg and neg and neg, and it's mentally exhausting to keep having to play those stupid games. I asked myself if it's even worth bothering, and after spending a few years on MGTOW forums now I'm convinced it's not.
Also, not complaining, and not mad at all; just realize that I'm better off allocating my limited time on earth to more productive endeavors.
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Do these girl realize in the chat that they are being played??!!! How can they not?!!!
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He's actually the archetype of the non-RP aware alpha male.
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his intelligence doesn't really matter. "Chad" is a good-looking (even hot) male who has "natural game" and gets the average girl rather easily. I know a few guys like that myself, they're still are bluepilled to the core (e.g. wanting "the one" for settling down and starting a family with later in life).
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Yea you do not understand women.
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