What are some examples of shit tests girls will throw at you right after you got their number?

J-Shykes · 2020-05-27T01:35:03+00:00

Don't put up with flaky behavior. Know your worth and know when to fold. It took me a long time to learn that lesson.

hiddenpersona · 2020-05-27T00:14:25+00:00

Don’t play the text game. Be bold and invite her out to things. If she says busy or maybe, don’t reply and move on. She will come back eventually. Maybe a month later when she is drunk and horny. If not, delete her number and move on.

DifficultContext · 2020-05-27T00:37:36+00:00

Deciding on an actual date and then changing it at the last minute.

Texting with you for a couple days and then throwing a LJBF.

Finally bringing up the fact she has a kid(s).

Just a few off the top of my head.

MrAnderzon · 2020-05-27T02:09:32+00:00

Keeping texting to logistics only. I can’t recommend this guide enough.

http://authorcloud.co/MrVs-Guide-To-Texting-Girls-dq16ldatn

GrooveDive · 2020-05-27T01:41:18+00:00

When I was introduced to the pill shit tests and frame were two concepts that I did not understand at all without experiencing it myself. People have given some good advice, but don't put too much thought into it. If you have the right mindset, passing shit tests should come naturally with experience.

HumptyDumptyFellHard · 2020-05-27T00:44:45+00:00

Don’t text her right after. Wait a couple hours, maybe a half day. Tell her who you are and then try to set something up. Don’t seem to over excited either. Text only for logistics.

nothestrawberrypatch · 2020-05-27T01:28:19+00:00

Leaving you on read. Just ignore her.

mambomango · 2020-05-27T00:20:11+00:00

small talk —> ask her plans for weekend —> set something up with one text where you list the time, day, and location. Logistics only bro, but you gotta do 2-3 texts of small talk first with tinder girls

waterbottle012222 · 2020-05-27T01:40:22+00:00

I see a lot of guys just saying wait to text her and ask her out... instead of actually saying shit tests that might happen like your question asks for.

Going to continue to be off-topic with them though lmao, don’t do that. Try to get her on the phone or on FaceTime, talk to her a little bit. Don’t do that texting bullshit. You wanna stand out from the rest. And as you can see in these replies... there’s a lot of “rest” to stand out from lol.

Her not being willing to do either is a sign that she’s just looking for validation and attention and not actually interested in meeting irl.

A shit test that might come up from this is her not giving you attention while talking, texting other men and shit like that. Disrespecting and not valuing you and your time.

Also talking to her otp and FaceTiming her, if it goes well, will actually raise her interest more and increase your chances of meeting irl.

Forgottenshadowed · 2020-05-27T01:35:02+00:00

They'll keep you in texting first, come up with excuses to not wanna talk on the phone. It's frustrating.

coldestmichigan · 2020-05-27T11:56:52+00:00

Trust no bitch, take no shit. Walk away if that shit not working out.

mrrooftops · 2020-05-27T12:53:34+00:00

"Who are you?"

krusecontrol91 · 2020-05-27T01:51:23+00:00

I don’t care about looks or money, I want to get to know you.

Ha

I_LOVE_CHIPS · 2020-05-27T05:19:41+00:00

Whenever I get a number off bumble or tinder I wait few hours, sometimes a day then text "guess who"

jackandjill22 · 2020-05-27T05:06:54+00:00

Good question.

when_its_too_late · 2020-05-27T15:43:07+00:00

First off...A number of tinder...Really man? Thats such an easy way out.

Ask this questions when you talk to someone face to face and get their number.

nastyhumans · 2020-05-27T11:17:13+00:00

Try getting to know her! Be straightforward, and ask dealbreaker questions "do you want kids?" "Do you just want to hook up or do you want a relationship?" Etc

Title	What are some examples of shit tests girls will throw at you right after you got their number?
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Date	May 26, 2020 11:01 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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