Update to the update I guess, he texted me saying “I don’t know if I should trust you anymore” for context, I did not do anything against him and he doesn’t know English so it’s not Reddit.

I didn’t even open the text on WhatsApp to see where he was going and he goes “while you’re sleeping (it’s midnight here) I’m thinking about whether to end it or not... sleep soundly, and if you want me answer me and if you don’t bye”

This whole time he thinks I’m asleep. Wtf. How is it normal to ask someone who’s asleep to answer? Does he think I’m psychic??

Strangely I feel like a weight has been lifted off my chest and I’m not sad. I’m actually kind of annoyed that he’s still acting like I’m the only one who’s in the wrong.

Welp, it wasn’t an argument so I hope it’s not to awkward at school...

Original post. So.

I haven’t broken up with him yet but I’m pissed, he might do it this time bc I don’t even fucking know what the hell is going on.

He comes at me saying he doesn’t like it when a male friend of mine comes close to me(not the first time we’ve spoken about this)

The fact is, contact happens for literally 10 seconds. He’s angry because I let my male friend hug me and slap my thigh playfully.

It’s not like his hand lingers there, he does it to every female friend he has too.

He’s once again saying, you’re either with me or with them, tell them to stop. When the action doesn’t bother me at all

He says that he gets mad when he sees others touching me and that I can’t let them.

The fact is, I just responded with ok to everything and I think he got the drift that I wasn’t gonna go along with his shit, so he changed topic

Like he went from being angry to saying “so how was your day?” in a matter of 5 seconds.

Then he said “do you wanna have a call?” And now I’m in a call with him.

I’m still confusion

I know I’m leaving him but his birthday’s in a month and I don’t wanna ruin it somehow.

Update: now he’s saying he doesn’t get why I don’t wanna have sex and that if I make him wait too long, he’s gonna cheat. Great.

I’m trying to explain to him that sometimes things are like this and he can’t do anything about it except be patient, he doesn’t get it.