I’m about to confess a repugnant sin: I used to kinda look down on women like you (well, us). I saw confidence, mental strength, self-reliance and having a spine as unfeminine (and thus unattractive) features. I seriously thought that no man worth anything could truly love a woman like that. Even more embarrassing, I believed that every valuable man secretly wanted the meek wallflower and that she (and only she) would be able to change him had he fuckboy ways. (barf)

It took a little bit too long for it to click for me why girls like me tended to be used, abused and treated like shit while my fireball, self-reliant, assertive peers were always treated like queens. It seemed so jarring that women who put their men above themselves were played like total fools while “selfish” women were given the world.

A truly valuable man wants a woman who knows she’s valuable. One who could kick his ass to the curb and be just fine. Think about the special “unicorn” girl the manosphere and incels dream of: a girl willing to erase her standards and put a dude above herself despite not receiving a thing from him. This alone should tell you the type of men (low value) who are turned off by women like us.