Anyone constantly rolling their eyes at how hard men supposedly have it when it comes to dating?

virginiadancer · 2020-05-08T03:34:59+00:00

Oh its definitely hard for them. Imagine spending decades of your life lacking even the most basic skills (cooking, cleaning, respect for others, working out, learning) only to find that none of the women want you because we've all leveled up. Its a very uneven playing field as the ladies that spent their lives leveling up become completely unobtainable.

Even average Pickmes won't touch alot of average men- there's too much of a gap in educational and career achievements. Men are falling behind while we are raising our standards. This gap becomes painfully obvious over 30.

I'm glad other women are leveling up and raising their standards. Its about damned time!

Rdrses · 2020-05-08T03:00:40+00:00

I feel like that's an extremist simplification but yes I agree with the sentiment. "You have it easy bc everyone wants to fuck you" The thing they dont UNDERSTAND, is we have standards and the clown horde is irrelevant and gets violent when theyre told no. Its not a privilege. Males have no standards but are so low value they have a hard time getting one vapid ass low value woman , which they wipl then complain about never considering they hsve nothing to offer either

honeybeeroll · 2020-05-08T05:54:02+00:00

Bruuuuuh don't even get me started haha, reddit truly contains the absolute dregs of men and all you gotta do to confirm that is look at the dating sub, as just one example. You can FEEL the defeatism, entitlement, and overall loser vibe from the guys that post there. Granted some are very young and just confused, but most are the former whose sense of entitlement is so strong they don't see that they just fucking suck and that's why they can't get dates lol

2020-05-08T13:21:10+00:00

Not even reddit, just men in real life I know think dating is so hard because...they have to ask someone and buy dinner! And then think of things to do when it would be so much easier to just skip right to marital bliss of your wife bringing you a beer while you watch tv!

sadlibrarian · 2020-05-08T11:59:20+00:00

It's when they have the most pathetic, basic profile and they moan about not getting any matches. Really shows their lack of self-awareness. The bar is on the floor and they still can't reach it.

circescircus · 2020-05-08T13:34:36+00:00

Dating isn't harder for them, existence and being human is hard for them. They often confuse the two.

Women are much better at existing and being human, being a person, because we are socialized to be empathetic, responsible, hardworking, resilient and flexible. We are growing and evolving, and outperforming men in basically every area of life. This is happening starting at a young age, girls start outperforming boys young. Currently, women outnumber men in the workforce, on top of doing the vast majority of childcare/elder care, household work, cooking, etc. More women are seeing men as optional. And despite women being socialized to believe that men will give their life meaning and save them, more women are seeing men as a burden, a risk and a liability.

Men are falling behind big time, starting from boyhood. It's a big social problem and it is something that needs to be addressed by government, media, parents, schools.

Tons of men are lazy, dirty, entitled, lack empathy, have nothing to offer anyone. They watch extreme porn from a young age, can't differentiate between social media and real life, actually believe the male fantasies they see in TV/movies. So many men are directionless, have no ambition, no desire to learn/grow (not intellectually, emotionally, spiritually), they are selfish, entitled, greedy, hypocritical. They are also boring, have no interests, passions, dreams or even hobbies. On top of this, they don't take care of their hygiene, bodies, minds, skin, teeth or health. They struggle with being a human, and they try to take it out on women.

If men want to blame anyone for their sad pathetic lives, they should blame their parents. Maybe if their parents did a better job at raising them to be kind and responsible, their lives wouldn't be so shitty now. Very few men are raised properly.

BabyGothQ · 2020-05-08T16:57:35+00:00

Men only think they have it hard because if they were women, they’d get to ‘have sex anytime they want’ and ‘use their bodies as a means to get ahead in life’.

Meanwhile, women are getting shamed, devalued, raped, molested, catcalled, beaten up, made fun of, murdered, etc. for doing these exact things, or even not doing them!

Just admit, men, that you are disgusting, porn-sick, hypocritical, jealous, sociopathic creatures.

ErikaNaumann · 2020-05-08T13:36:12+00:00

We have it easier if we just want to fuck dudes. Any woman can go out and find a guy to hook up with. But that's not what most women want. We want quality relationships, and that is extremely hard to find.

They on the other hand just want to wet their tiny dicks. So cry me a river, you STD carriers.

seraphinelysion · 2020-05-08T19:49:23+00:00

I think it's hard for both genders, but only because we have different value systems and different metrics in which to measure the level of difficulty. If men value sex above all else, and they are only running up against women who are looking for more, then yes, it makes it harder for them to obtain what they want so it is "hard" for them in dating (in their minds). Meanwhile, women value love, intimacy, emotional connection, commitment, and are generally seeking a LTR/marriage, and there are very, very few men out there who want the same thing while also exhibiting HV traits to meet our standards, so this is why it is "hard" for women in dating. The value systems are completely off. When men complain about dating, they are not complaining about the same thing women are. This is why you get those men who say women have it "easy" in dating because they have so much men/sex to choose from, not realizing that that is not our value system in dating.

cherry-sweet · 2020-05-08T23:46:22+00:00

When men say women have it easy dating what they really mean is we have an easy time getting laid bc men will fuck literally anything and anyone...as if getting laid is even an achievement considering the fact that we 1. Aren’t likely to orgasm 2. Risk stds/pregnancy 3. Risk our lives/safety/wellbeing. What a privilege, huh

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thatone4567 · 2020-05-08T21:23:43+00:00

I've never encountered one single marriageable male in my entire life

I find this statement hard to believe. Where do you live that things are that bad? Have you been to college?

Title	Anyone constantly rolling their eyes at how hard men supposedly have it when it comes to dating?
Author	batschka-
Upvotes	207
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Date	May 8, 2020 12:54 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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