If he pays you a compliment with any reference to porn. AT ALL.

Illustrious_Drive · 2020-04-18T23:30:38+00:00

My boyfriend once while we were hanging in out in bed being cute one afternoon, said that he liked the way I was laying because of the “thigh gap”.

Turns out he had upvoted a porn photo of a girl from a “thigh gap” reddit account earlier that day. Behind my back.

So yeah, porn compliments big red flag.

marsupialface · 2020-04-19T00:37:02+00:00

Yep! I got the delightful “your boobs are the best I’ve ever seen. Well, apart from the ones in porn.”

Gee thanks bud

UpbeatIncubator · 2020-04-19T00:15:46+00:00

The amount of times I’ve been told I have ‘dick sucking/blowjob lips’. Yes, even at 15. Yes, still now that I’m almost 20. Absolutely horrid, imagine telling a child that.

rubymood · 2020-04-18T23:52:18+00:00

i once had a guy tell me that i looked like a hotter version of this pornstar named jada fire.

did i mention it was my junior prom? i laughed it off, but on the inside i was mortified.

kikivegan · 2020-04-19T00:53:13+00:00

Red flags all daaaaaaaaay. I've gotten "you could make money being a camgirl. Guys would pay to see you naked" and various other pornsick compliments. They def don't make you feel good. At all.

UpbeatIncubator · 2020-04-19T00:12:41+00:00

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boiledgatorade_ · 2020-04-19T01:07:13+00:00

Yep. The first older guy I was with (23/43 - yes it took me 7 years to learn my lesson 🙄) told me I’d look exactly like a porn star, If I got my “tits done”... totally ruined my self esteem at the time

Fitncurly · 2020-04-19T03:44:46+00:00

I was told in my early 20’s by several men that I looked like a famous porn star at the time, and it was meant as a “compliment”. Although I didn’t take it as such, I wasn’t offended either. It didn’t disgust me then because I didn’t truly understand (naive), but now it’s so gross looking back. Why do they think they don’t look like slimeballs with that? Why do they think we wanna know we look like their favorite dehumanized spank-fodder?

Kekekeke7777 · 2020-04-19T04:07:14+00:00

Not me, but my long term ex, who wanted to marry me (I said I was too young), and I built a life with, told me a woman he slept with one time before we met, had sex “like a porn star.”

And it was ok to still lust after her, like her pics on social media, call her “sweetheart” when he talked to her, be absolutely giddy when he was about to see her, and tell me she was the hottest woman he’d ever seen (let alone been with) because she “was like a celebrity, so it’s ok!”

brainsandb00bs · 2020-04-19T14:58:52+00:00

Men think every skinny middle eastern woman with big boobs and glasses looks like Mia Khalifa

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Title	If he pays you a compliment with any reference to porn. AT ALL.
Author	UpbeatIncubator
Upvotes	127
Comments	24
Date	April 18, 2020 11:27 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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