Lol. Stolen from Tinder's subreddit. Some of ya'll make me proud

Ms_Tilly · 2019-12-12T15:46:58+00:00

I saw one on Hinge where a girl straight up told him she didn't want to "grab beer" and that she expected dinner and effort. I was like GO SIS and figured she must be FDS. Of course all the commenters told him that he dodged a bullet. They really don't help each other. They reinforce extreme low effort and then wonder why they never match and conversations never go anywhere. I swear men nowadays expect the women to do literally ALL the work. They don't even want help. They want all the benefits without any effort.

jalapenopancakes · 2019-12-12T15:36:53+00:00

One of the sexiest things my husband ever did while we were dating was ask me if I was free on a certain date or time, and then say “okay, great, I’m picking you up at x time and I’m treating you to something special.”

I would think about that date ALL WEEK. Sometimes it was drinks, tapas, and a show, sometimes it was a sushi place I mentioned offhand, sometimes it was a sporting event. One time it was an entire weekend trip!

He still does this too. I absolutely love it 😍

FlamingFeminist · 2019-12-12T15:17:15+00:00

Answer that question and the next one would be, "So where do you want to go?" You may as well take yourself on a date at this point😂

Steer the conversation to dinner with him planning it, or leave him on read.

plembb · 2019-12-12T17:20:00+00:00

Am I the only one who doesn’t like dinner dates as first dates from OLD? 50% of the time I don’t want to spend more than 30 minutes with the dude. Drinks or coffee provides an easy out.

If it’s not OLD, then yes, dinner first dates are expected.

Title	Lol. Stolen from Tinder's subreddit. Some of ya'll make me proud
Author	_HEDONISM_BOT
Upvotes	53
Comments	18
Date	December 12, 2019 1:58 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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