Well, I'm back on the dating game and reactivated my bumble, and guess what?

Every guy wants an openminded woman (at least according to their profile). Sounds great right? The times are a changing and people are more "woke" than over. Being openminded is great! Love everyone, no matter their gender, age, religion, sexual oirentation, etc. What could be wrong with that?

No, it is not great. This is their way to turn around the great qualities of being openminded for their own pitfalls. It's not him , it's you not being "openminded"

  1. "Openminded" woman won't question or confront his actions when them seem wrong/unethical/not genuine
  2. "Openminded" woman are open to be cheated on. HIM: Babe I wanna see another girl YOU: But we said our relationship would be monogamous HIM: Why aren't you openminded about this? YOU: Because I communicated my boundaries and am sticking with it.
  3. "Openminded" woman will accept the excuses for his behavior
  4. "Openminded" woman are okay with being told what to do and that they should "go with the flow"
  5. "Openminded" woman will not challenge his ego

Just say no.

How has a man told you to be more "openminded"?