Discussion: what on earth is the purpose of going to parties and nightclubs?

Batman_MGTOW · 2020-06-19T18:23:42+00:00

Nightclubs sell overpriced drinks to simps who have basically zero chances to succeed with women. Guys who pickup in night clubs are usually high status because they have a lot of money and they are friends with the club owner. As for parties, they can be fun but only if they are with friends, and since I never had real friends, I never really go to parties anymore.

CertainCrow1 · 2020-06-19T17:51:26+00:00

Meh never cared for them either. Even when I was at tech school I'd prefer to just drink with my roommates or maybe have over a couple others. Some people feel energized being around lots of other people, I feel it drains me. Introverts/extrovert stuff

_sadboyloko · 2020-06-19T18:37:14+00:00

Parties, where the whole time I'm thinking about being back in my house.

I'll pass.

soundmixer14 · 2020-06-19T18:47:01+00:00

Worked at a nightclub for 7 years. Multiple bars with attractive bartenders, and live bands and DJs playing music non-stop. The people who came in were from all sorts of backgrounds and looking for different experiences but in general the nightclub was a place to temporarily forget your troubles, have fun, get drunk/do drugs, enjoy some loud music/dancing and pursue sexual opportunities. Additionally, I observed that patrons who reserved a VIP booth or private table seemed to relish in a fantasy that they were somehow larger than life (more attractive, famous, rich, etc.) than others around them, which gave them a temporary escape from mundane life. Ultimately an illusion but for some it was worth the money spent I guess.

Heykan · 2020-06-19T18:08:55+00:00

Filling the void with nonsense and loud sounds is the easiest, and least effective, way to feel fulfilled in life (temporarily only). Most people I know who adhere to that lifestyle are trying to find companionship, a sense of being important, a stress relief and a way to boost their egos. Others, though very few, could use parties and nightclubs to sharpen their social skills for a good cause (though most just want to get their dick wet - not even talking about women because they don't need any skills to get some action).

I've never seen a good reason to hang out with people that don't care about me, or dance and drink around just to feel "cool" and "important". I don't like drinking to excess, I don't like loud music, I don't like dancing nor do I like humoring retards or woo narcissistic people.

I have to ask - is it a bad thing that you "grew up far from normal"? It doesn't make sense to worry about being far from normal when you scroll and post on MGTOW, THE subreddit who says "fuck normality".

Luciano700 · 2020-06-19T18:29:11+00:00

More hedonistic garbage meant to make you feel like you are living something useful when you're not.

Sir_manalot · 2020-06-19T18:33:08+00:00

It is just a status fight, the winners drown in hedonism.

Think a peacocking mating dance.

Why_should_I_mayne · 2020-06-19T20:04:09+00:00

Never understood what the point is of going into a dark crowded noisy room full of people with IQ's barely higher than your average dog shaking their bodies for no reason other than what looks like demon possession and chugging endless booze (may I mention how unsanitary many of these morons are and are so up close to your personal space) to throw up all around you and act like maniacs. It's looks more like some asylum, in my opinion.

Morb357 · 2020-06-19T21:47:12+00:00

I dislike crowds and people in general.

TigPlaze · 2020-06-19T19:36:41+00:00

The only purpose would be to have some fun. If it's not fun for you, it's not worth it. I personally like clubs that have comedians or a musical performer. If they don't have something fun worth seeing, if it's just drinking and being idiots, it doesn't appeal to me.

GoodMan_Gone · 2020-06-19T18:18:21+00:00

I'm as abnormal as you are, OP. I never liked those places too. Even in my BP years.

ProcedurallyCreated · 2020-06-19T18:33:00+00:00

Mostly attention and validation for women, tho they also look for orbiters and sex from chads. Men look for sex.

Dunkman83 · 2020-06-20T00:50:54+00:00

I don't think we are alone in thinking nightclubs are a waste of time.

I have seen many nightclubs in my area start up then shut down.

Nightclubs are a shit business to get into.

Your start up costs are huge. Fitting out the club, Buying inventory as well as having to hire well known artists to play there. This doesn't come cheap. Also your customer base is fickle and will abandon your nightclub as soon as something better comes along.

Banks won't loan you money for the club. You get complaints from neighbors about the noise and i can guarantee the cops will come into the club with sniffer dogs at some point.

In summary. If someone comes up to with with a great business opportunity about starting a nightclub. Tell them to piss off.

Ody_ssey · 2020-06-19T18:39:25+00:00

Superficial fun and attention.

CeleritySteam · 2020-06-19T21:02:26+00:00

Remember most NPCs are so bluepilled and oversocialized that solitary confinement is considered a punishment.

As in the alternative is you keep the company of rapists and murderers in prison and you're still terrified of being alone.

So is it really any surprise that anything that lets them seek external attention and validation while overpaying so they can get drunk and act like a fool for some overpriced pussy is popular among non humans?

crityouallday · 2020-06-19T21:15:40+00:00

Prob the worst place to have to pick a girlfriend but the best place to get a STI and spend tons of money. $9 water bottle Fuck That.

unbasedbasedkid · 2020-06-19T21:44:21+00:00

Guys go to get laid or get with girls, anyone who says otherwise is lying. Girls say they. Go there just to have fun but really they go there for validation from thirsty betas they love rejecting and maybe getting fucked by the occasional Chad. Listening to shit music loud as fuck drunk in a dark room to the early hours of the morning is not fun.

Fun for me is watching a movie, eating good food, watching a football game, sparring my buddies or going somewhere in nature (a hill, a lake etc.).

Of course I recognise everyone has a different category of fun things but ask yourself this, if girls really did just want to go out to have fun by themselves without the validation, wouldn't they have women only nightclubs, just like the women only gyms for the jabba the hut fat sluts.

Sadly, same goes for the betas, they think getting ready, going out and getting drunk so they can get with some fatty might be fun, and sure it is fun to shoot the shit with your buddies and get pissed sometimes. But then again you'd just do that at a bar.

It's all just social bullshit, and I don't play those games anymore.

2020-06-19T20:10:50+00:00

The first thing you have to do is realize that everyone feels the same way at points in life and that’s what brings them out. The general purpose of alcohol is to overcome this feeling for many. Stop singling your self out. You’re not alone pal. You’re not special to anyone but yourself and that’s ok. When we die the world just goes on.

That sounds depressing but it is quite the opposite once you acknowledge it as true. It is really liberating. Do you pal. Stop giving a fuck about anyone but you unless giving a fuck is what drives you. If that’s the case then keep your guard up.

Children give many people meaning but that comes at a high risk now. Do you. Set goals.

Cfaraway · 2020-06-19T21:25:32+00:00

I think the reason you don't like parties and nightclubs is, as you said, you grew up!

AndyTravelGuy314 · 2020-06-20T02:10:31+00:00

My observation:

Most men are deprived of recognition in life. I don't mean celebrity status or CEO importance. I simply mean to be treated as an equal, to be noticed and heard. So clubbing and partying in a way is an attempt to get the recognition that we never receive in the normal world.

EatPussynarian · 2020-06-19T22:01:43+00:00

I used to go in my youth, because I really like dancing. I miss it tbh, just nit sure where a middle aged guy can have some fun without being judged. Oh, and music used to be way, waaayyy better!!!

The_SHUN · 2020-06-20T01:13:30+00:00

I am 21 and I never been to a nightclub before, it feels like a gathering spot for degenerates, I usually meet with my friends in pubs/restaurants

Ocjab · 2020-06-19T18:34:43+00:00

I can't deny it, i like dancing. It's expensive as fuck though :/ so i rarely do it.

redshieldheroz · 2020-06-19T23:00:39+00:00

Its for dopamine hit. People are social creatures. When one hit alcohol, smoke, drugs and sex. Its all going to the plethora of whats "so good" and whats in trendy.

Cristoff13 · 2020-06-20T00:45:27+00:00

Parties are one thing and have all sorts of purposes. But nightclubs? The main reason for those is for guys to pick up girls. Or think they have a chance at it. But lets face it, If you're average, or even a bit above average, you don't have a chance. That's probably the main reason why nightclubs tend towards having very young guys. Older guys soon realize they don't have a chance and give up.

h0pl1ta · 2020-06-20T01:25:48+00:00

I tried parties and things like that to approach girls, but I am ugly like (2~3)/ 10. Never kissed one in parties or got a number. Bruh.

One time in my short life I was depressed for never getting any kind of girl, I tried this and made this worse.

But I love to stay at home making scultures or playing games/RPG.

I am also 26 and already dated and learned that dating is kind like prostitution.

Iperovic · 2020-06-20T02:37:37+00:00

I'm a frequent club attender, I'd say every weekend at least once for the past few years...

I exclusively go with an all-male crowd and the rule is always no girls allowed at our table (I ain't paying for some bitches drinks)...if someone wants to chat with a girl he has to leave and go to her, no invitations to our launge and other crap like that

Typically, drunk girls will hoard around your table because they're used to guys noticing them and inviting them over, if they see you won't budge they may ask if they can sit down at your table and then slowly their friends creep over...except in my case I always ask security to remove them if they won't leave (usually gets me an "asshole" or similar comment on their way back to irrelevancy)

The only places I go to are ones where I personally know the owner and/or important staff, that way I know I won't get treated like a customer and get good deals (discounts, on the house drinks, better tables, etc.)

My typical evening consists of hanging out and drinking with the boys and networking (meeting new people)

Networking is my #1 priority as having lots of connections gives you tons of benefits in life + if you connect with half-drunk people at a party and everyone is having fun, you will be remembered positively and people are much bigger "yes-sayers" when they're drunk

The idea that you never know who you will meet is what draws me in every time, if your job is in any way connected with working with people, and you want to get your face out there, the club is the place to be.

Dunkman83 · 2020-06-20T05:43:02+00:00

99% of the time, i had more fun getting ready for the club, than i did at the actual club..

When i was young it was fun, it was just a party

In your mid 20s smv hits HARD and girls rejecting guys becomes a sport. So it just turns into you paying 60-70 bucks to stand around and lip synch the current hits.

My one regret was ever minute i spent in a club... i wish i could get that time and money back.

I5zq3iuyfI · 2020-06-20T06:37:00+00:00

You're not alone OP. I dislike big social gatherings in general. I like however having lunch with males only, or playing soccer with males only.

MethaCat · 2020-06-20T07:39:46+00:00

In my simp youth, I definitely did it because I though I would met a girl, as time went by, I got tired of many things: the terrible music, the fights, the bouncers, the high prices of drinks, etc.

I ended up going exclusively to rave parties after that, as that's the kind of music I like to dance. So I just went, scored some drugs and danced until I couldn't do it anymore.

Safe_Dentist · 2020-06-19T19:45:35+00:00

People want attention. Realistically, what you could see/hear/experience during party is inferior compared to good show or even movie, but subcosciously attention works like dope. Also, it is still a way to get laid, horrible one though.

DoDo_01 · 2020-06-19T23:09:34+00:00

Sex and drugs

Matt_The_Impaler_ · 2020-06-19T23:19:40+00:00

I like to go so I can chill and enjoy the music after a long week. I don’t care if I’m the only person in the club. As long as there is a DJ and bartender I’m good.

Toasty_Nuggetz · 2020-06-20T01:17:35+00:00

For women: to be showered in free drinks and attention, and occasionally bang a random Chad

For men: to try to get laid

kayfab · 2020-06-20T01:36:51+00:00

I am not gonna bash this time of my life because i went out a lot being younger, and i had lots of women too.

But your soul purpose honest should be to have fun.... i never went out with the intention of getting women if it happen it happen and sometimes it did not but we always had fun.

Talos402000 · 2020-06-20T03:25:24+00:00

To enjoy socializing with others is the short answer. I think the question you really want to ask is why YOU don't enjoy it when everybody seems to.

Alexius_von_Meinong · 2020-06-20T04:17:00+00:00

I have always felt the same as you have described. Now I am an old man and my views have not changed on this.

Cade_Connelly_13 · 2020-06-20T05:10:41+00:00

They make good cover for buying drugs, making contact with shady people, getting overpriced beverages, and getting chicks drunk enough that they drop their 666 standards.

So basically...nothing that any man here should be doing.

CHENGhis-khan · 2020-06-20T06:01:30+00:00

Normies temporarily herding to status signal in order to facilitate copulation. Parties are mating rituals.

Okayokayokay9999 · 2020-06-20T11:42:55+00:00

I've never been interested in them either tbh, but each to their own. As you say, to me it just seems like fake people having fake fun (because they are 'supposed' to be having fun).

Wakka_Grand_Wizard · 2020-06-20T13:54:06+00:00

I stopped going to parties, because I stopped taking drugs and get drunk. Besides it is about fooling around, dancing, listening to music, styling up, bragging and maybe chasing women.

It can be a nice social experience, but I prefer doing sports, hiking, playing pinball etc.(ofc no women want to join me doing this).

sapereAudeAndStuff · 2020-06-20T00:45:15+00:00

They're the extrovert equivalent of reading a book. Also a common way to chase tail.

MGTOWlF7xEtsJyj · 2020-06-20T01:48:05+00:00

I've never been to a nightclub and I've only been to one non birthday party.

Don't see the appeal.

Title	Discussion: what on earth is the purpose of going to parties and nightclubs?
Author	Wakka_Grand_Wizard
Upvotes	131
Comments	68
Date	June 19, 2020 5:44 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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