Context:
I'm working at a company with a great bussiness running and I really like it there. I'm in my mid 20s and I just started this carrer in which I know I want to be an expert in the next 10 years. I lift and groom, I have game and know how to powerplay thanks to TRP. I also have plates and don't ever plan to settle.
Story:
The company held a Christmas party and I saw it as a great opportunity to get to know better the people I'm working it and to show my social skills. It went great since I have a natural talent for that sort of things. I got to know a lot of people from the office including some of the girls which I would bang if not for us being collegues. I was also chatting with the boss and we had great dynamics in the conversiation, due to her shit-testing me and me brushing all the tests like the shit-tests they are. Those things are fun when you get a hold of them. One of the hotties got a bit drunk and started flirting with me a bit, punching my biceps and showing genuine infatuation which my boss saw and I caught her looking at the hottie with a look of slight despise, I don't know how else to describe it. This was the moment I understood something was wrong. We chatted for the rest of the evening and I was returning home in the same taxi as my boss. She paid for it and we chatted for the trip about husbands, kids and settling down. She has kids and a husband and dropped a bomb on me about cheating not hurting anyone if nobody found out. I told her I plate girls.
The next week she started writing me messages on work and we chatted. It was fun and I didn't want to tell her to fuck off since she is my boss. Then she got my number from a coworker and started messaging me with DMs. I tried to cut her off and I pissed her off a bit. She asked me if she was mobbing me and ofcourse I said no because I don't want to lose my fucking job. But we cut contact with relatively shaky terms and a deal to have a drink one day after work. That day is tommorow and I don't know what to do. She also requested to move the location further away from our workplace.
Request:
Dear experienced RP'ers, please give me guidance in this shaky time. She is a powerplayer and she hasn't shown her cards but the whole thing doesn't feel right. She still has the card of plausible deniability in her hands so I can't actually accuse her of anything and I think she is smart enough not to show that card.
How should I act? Should I say something?
Thanks in advance and thank you all for helping me come all this way up to even have such a problem!
EDIT: I wasn't explicit enough about me not wanting to fuck her, I don't find her attractive. I'm trying to find a way to make her a friend.
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