Is talking about sex in the early parts of a relationship even normal? Its 2020 so I’m really just not sure. We are in a committed relationship according to him.

I’ll give a bit of a backstory. Met a guy at college. Im 20F and he’s 19M. I’ll admit that I’m not very physically attracted to him, so there’s that but I think it could grow if he wasn’t such a pervert. He’s morbidly obese but has a cute enough face so I decided to give him a chance. We have been on/off for about 3 months now in communication and we talk a lot but now that things are starting to get more serious between us, he talks about sex a lot.

It kind of repulses me. We’ve not even been on a second date and he’s asking if I masturbate, do I swallow, telling me when he’s horny, etc. and I feel a little disrespected by this. I don’t know if it’s because I’m not super physically attracted to him or if it’s because it’s just rude. I’m also pretty annoyed that he’s made it clear that when we go on our date we’re going to make out and the thought of doing that with him makes me sick. I would have liked if we just planned for a date and the physical stuff wasn’t brought up.

I’m weird maybe, once a guy starts to ask sexual questions and talk about sex with me and find out about personal sexual things I get turned off. I think it’s because of the audacity. Idk though.