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Men: You Need To Get In Touch With Your Emotions and Express Them!!

Sid_Insidious

January 4, 2021

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Title	Men: You Need To Get In Touch With Your Emotions and Express Them!!
Author	Sid_Insidious
Upvotes	36
Comments	101
Date	January 4, 2021 4:30 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/PurplePillDebate
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/kq17ry/men_you_need_to_get_in_touch_with_your_emotions/
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It’s literally not that way in 100% of all relationships. Unlike what a lot of the misogynists on this thread believe, there are, in fact, many women out there who don’t fit this mold. These women will not leave you when you open up to them emotionally; and more than likely they will try their best to provide emotional and other types of support, because they love you. That’s what real love is. All of the people who tell you women act one specific way are 1) illogical because there’s no way for them to know all of the billions of women out there and what they think, and 2) talking about the comparatively few women that they have interacted with. Women who most likely are not very emotionally mature if they are willing to date men who view the world so narrowly, unable to see nuance or diversity of thought/experience.

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That women can be more emotional man or express them more freely without negative consequences compared to guys, that's a fact I won't deny.

You forgot expressing (genuine) lust, appreciation, affection and desire (also while flirting and gaming). Still, most of these "female-approved" emotions will be a turn-off if you express them in an unhealthy way.

It's all about balance: if you do express them in an unhealthy way, even positive emotions can be very unattractive not to mention if you're a whiny bitch or go in a victim puke when going out with your friends; they will state to "Man the fuck up, deal with it or get over it".

What's also "suicide" and why woman will weaponize your expressed emotions is if you express vulnerability and you state actions (read: promises) but you don't follow up on them; those are the ones that will be weaponized and rightly so (responsability is a bitch, don't make empty promises instead STFU)

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What's also "suicide" and why woman will weaponize your expressed emotions is if you express vulnerability and you state actions (read: promises) but you don't follow up on them; those are the ones that will be weaponized and rightly so (responsability is a bitch, don't make empty promises

You warp the situation away from the one presented. At no point did I say I made promises I didn't keep.

Notice how in PPD, anytime men present any issue, it's immediately manipulated. It's like women come pre-programmed to do this.

instead STFU)

It is something men learn the hard way. STFU is the only 'female approved' coping tactic as far as they are concerned. She can be vulnerable, scared, anxious, depressed, jealous, angry... all within the same 5 minutes at times. But not for men, they aren't allowed those emotions.

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One thing I’ll never understand is how people actually thought that commercial was some good progressive thing. For one most men don’t do what was shown in the commercial, so ending it off with “men we can do better” is ascribing all the bad shit onto the male viewer. Then when people got pissed at it all the woke twitter feminists were like “Um if you’re offended by this then you’re part of the problem.” Like that’s somehow a real argument.

The female equivalent to this would be like fucking Cosmo or something dropping a commercial showing various women gossiping and conspiring against guys who cheated on them and falsely accusing them of sexual assault. Then ending the commercial like “Women we can do better. Don’t let the women who lie about assault ruin the #MeToo movement.” I fucking guarantee all hell would’ve broken loose.

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