I want to be the best wife I can be.

LawyerInTheMaking · 2017-10-08T06:02:27+00:00

Sounds like you’re doing what you should be doing. What I would add though is this. Know when it’s time to be in mommy mode and when it’s time to be sexy wife/vixen. Having a child is a new set of responsibilities and takes priority, but so is relationship with your husband.

loneliness-inc · 2017-10-08T14:06:34+00:00

The icing on the cake is that extra little bit of oomph.

Sensuality

Take the time to drive him crazy several times a day. Here are a few examples.

wake him up with a BJ.
grab and stroke his junk randomly while gazing into his eyes with desire.
extend the frequency and duration of kisses into 30-90 second make out sessions.
greet him with such a make out session when he comes home from work.
have sex more frequently. Be open to his advances. Never turn him down unless you're really sick.

Space

Make sure to give him space. Don't hang out in his home office or wherever he goes to have space within the house. If he doesn't have such a space, create one for him. Offer to bring him a coffee or tea etc and then let him be.

Arguments and issues

bring him your problem, not your solution.
never ever criticize him.
don't nag.
get to the point quickly, just say what's bothering you. Don't beat around the bush.
don't carry on. Say your piece, listen to his response and end it there. No drawn out arguments.
no hysteria and drama. Tell him what's wrong with minimal emotion. The more worked up you are, the more manipulated he'll feel and the less he'll want to help in the long run.
if it's not very important, it's not worth an argument. Just solve it yourself. Only make a fuss when absolutely necessary.

Insecurity

Keep on top of your body and fitness etc but don't obsess about it. Be confident and sexy for him, keep your doubts for your female friends.

Home making

Keep a clean and tidy home. Cook homemade meals for him and the kids. Eat as a family as often as possible. Pack lunches for him when he goes to work.

Much success.

fetchyminx · 2017-10-08T09:24:43+00:00

I don't know why I'm crying in the club right now

pussyaficianado · 2017-10-08T11:04:11+00:00

Wake him up with blowjobs. Schedule sex more often than 2x a week, even if you have to start setting an alarm 30 minutes earlier every morning. Other than that it sounds like you have it pretty well down: you seem to respect and admire him, sounds like you keep his stomach full, but maybe just a little more time spent keeping his balls empty sounds like all you need.

Whisper · 2017-10-09T02:56:18+00:00

Women want to be treated well enough by someone awesome.

Men want to be treated awesome by someone good enough.

Plan accordingly.

videlachkadua · 2017-10-08T11:36:28+00:00

You are pretty much a role model to me. Able to do all that stuff. You seem so happy. Which is wonderful. Keep doing what you're doing just like what the other comments said. Keep appreciating him. You're improvement is wonderful. I wish you luck. I'm sorry I didn't come up with any advice but I will say this have you read any books about RPW? You're definitely bringing something to the table. Plus do you plan dates? My so and I are having our 3 year anniversary so what do you do when you show him your love language. I'm proud of you.

scarletoarah · 2017-10-08T15:17:40+00:00

Be there are his support system, but be your sexy self. When you have it together (which you do) and enjoy keeping it together too, it'll show - up it with some extra sexy and boooom. Be proud of him, and have him be proud of you :)

pinkdrawings · 2017-10-14T03:53:21+00:00

A lot of issues seem to surround peoples relationships getting boring. So keep it interesting!

CiDirkona · 2017-10-08T06:36:36+00:00

Guy here. Sounds like you're paying attention and doing the right things. Icing on the cake would be initiation. Twice a week is great, but you initiating on occasion is exactly what a guy wants.

honeyfern · 2017-10-09T12:11:30+00:00

Make sure you're reminding him how proud you are of him, don't over do it, but I like to give the odd firm reassurance that "I am so proud of the man that you are. It's incredibly attractive to see you succeeding so much and I'm so happy to be with you every step of the way. You're the most amazing man." Also encourage his career. Supporting my boyfriends work ethic has been a huge motivator for him and it's a real turn on to see him doing so well too. Since you say he's climbing the ladder, on the nights he comes home with better news about his job, celebrate he small victories.

AstuteBlackMan · 2017-10-08T09:54:14+00:00

Initiate sex more often. Wear sexy lingerie to spice it up as well.

Other than that you should be on the right track.

LateralThinker13 · 2017-10-09T21:21:12+00:00

You have money. If there are things you can throw money at - things that anybody can do - to buy yourself more time so that you can do the things that only you can do, then do it.

Example: Get a maid. If you have a maid doing 1-2 hours of house management/babysitting per day, that's 1-2 hours per day you can use to improve your body/weight/tone.

Title	I want to be the best wife I can be.
Author	peppermint_queen
Upvotes	35
Comments	25
Date	October 8, 2017 4:16 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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