The art of making men jealous

Banincoming · 2018-02-18T03:14:51+00:00

I had a girlfriend who liked to be chased, and sometimes would try to make me jealous. In my life, I back away from things that give me negative emotions like anger, pointless stress, and jealousy. Every time she succeeded in making me jealous, I cared about her a little less and backed away a little more.

[deleted] · 2018-02-17T23:47:17+00:00

It’s great for letting an alpha know you’d make a great fuck buddy and keep you as a plate with nothing more, and it also works really well for making a low quality beta obsesses over you until he’s your resident stalker.

TheSelfGoverned · 2018-02-18T03:53:37+00:00

A great way to get a man to resent you and tell you to fuck off.

loneliness-inc · 2018-02-18T16:17:27+00:00

Generally speaking - men absolutely hate drama. We despise it to our core.

Sure, the chase can be fun, we can get caught up in the drama of a pretty girl, but that's unlikely to be good in the long run.

WhatIsThisAccountFor · 2018-02-18T18:33:29+00:00

The art of making a man jealous is nothing more than showing a capacity for infidelity. The only thing jealous emotions inspire are rage and distrust.

Making a man jealous is a great way to get him to either cheat on you, or start looking for someone new.

Minhoquento · 2018-02-18T05:08:17+00:00

Dread doesn't work on men.

Whisper · 2018-02-17T23:24:13+00:00

What are your thoughts on making men jealous in this way when it's obvious they're smitten with you?

It's a good tactic for getting rid of a man you're not into.

RubyWooToo · 2018-02-19T08:02:28+00:00

I would never want to make a man I really cared about and who I know was really into me feel anxious and unsafe in the relationship.

The only men who this type of tactic would work on are guys who like the chase more than the actual relationship (and who will dump you once the conquest is complete) or guys who are desperate.

[deleted] · 2018-02-18T03:46:57+00:00

I respect your thoughts on this and can see why people would think this by the trailer.

The story is that Areanne lives with her father. She’s grown attached to mr. Flannigan who is a wealthy alpha male. The problem is he’s a self-admitted long time playboy and his female conquests are infamous throughout the news papers. He even tells Areanne that he doesn’t do “love” and it’s best to just sleep around.

Areanne doesn’t want him to know she’s grown attached to him so she uses it as a defence mechanism so he doesn’t know she is falling in love with him.

Close to the end of the movie he makes her angry because he arranges a hookup with polish twins in Paris for the night. Areanne records herself telling him about her 19 (pretend) lovers.

She only does it to cover up her innocence and to protect him from her true feelings. Then she sees how it affects Flannigan, eventually he becomes jealous. But without that pang of jealousy I’m not sure he would realize he loves her too.

In the end she comes clean, with help from her father and the two of them finally admit their love for one another.

I’m sorry it’s not so cut and dry or that she’s, how have I heard it put ... riding the cock-carousel. She’s simply inexperienced with love and men.

andheaven · 2018-03-19T00:58:12+00:00

Why would you want to taunt someone you could potentially care about? I hate the stress of a jealous man in my life. You can entice a new person in your life in a much healthier way where no ones feelings are hurt or emotions manipulated negatively

NewMindRedPill · 2018-02-19T21:06:40+00:00

So first off I want to say I'm a huge Audrey Hepburn fan. This movie is not Audrey though its a character she is playing (who is not a good role model because she act over the top). She does play it so well because she was very good with men in real life.

There is an art to making a man jealous The way its done in the movie is the overt sexual way that will result in a short romance or fwb.

There is a much more subtle way it can be done. Its so incredibly subtle that the woman is completely innocent in the process and promotes positive feelings in the man rather than purely negative. It should still be only something occasionally used (but it does help in LTR imo) and he should be confident in your loyality regardless otherwise it will cause drama.

It is really powerful once you know how to do it but it is really hard. Its the difference between mentioning the amount of men you've spent time with/made love with vs. Inferring the amount of men who chase you. While also promoting the idea that you weren't interested. thats just one example.

Ex. #1 Tinder came up in conversation with me, my bf, and his friend. We all had tried it and I mentioned that Tinder was too exhausting. I felt like it was like work with all the messages I was getting so I shut it off quickly.

Ex #2 I let him know he was the first guy I've been on a third date with for a while. "I've been on a lot of first and second dates to see what was out there but I haven't found a guy with a kind enough heart and soul so I didn't agree to more dates. I had just been looking really with no plans to have a boyfriend until after college." I essentually let him know I'm pretty selective and the fact that I was considering him made him very happy and he always keeps his game up. I also let him know I thought he was special right away. I also let him know at some point that two other guys had asked me out that same week as him but I decided to say yes to just him Everything I said was true and it let him know I really liked him over other options. I didn't have free time for a while because he made it so we were meeting 2-3 times a week lol. One of my friends suggested he wanted to make sure I didnt have time to date another guy. Lol

Ex#3 This was actually prompted by my mom. I told her he hadn't bought me flowers yet and we had been dating two months. In our culture I would get flowers the day after the first date and several after that. My mom is used to flowers every week. She bought me flowers and made me set them on the table so to put the idea in his head to give me flowers or wonder who gave me flowers. (I've seen friends buy themselves flowers and post about them on instagram with the same intention). Funny part is he came that day with flowers! I quickly put my moms flowers in my roommates room. Lol

Ex 4 Sometimes when we're in a new group with people who don't know we're dating (not into pda in groups) I'll move away from him to chat with others. I dress up (in a classy and attractive way) so usually a guy will come up and try to chat/flirt with me. If he just chatting I will be friendly but if he is flirting overtly I will try to move away. My bf can see all of this so he knows men go after me and that I am loyal so I try to move away. Sometimes he's had to intervene when a guy was trying too hard and I was uncomfortable. I've seen a lot of girls who start dressing down when they get a boyfriend. My goal is always to be the most attractive and classy girl in the group. So both men pay attention and my bf can see their interest as well as my disinterest in other men. I am smiling and friendly with everyone but I focus on talking to only girls so that promotes the feeling that I am loyal.

obviously don't seek attention from men or try to flirt with other men. That will only promote negative feelings or fwb feelings. Everything in life should be done in moderation. Even water can kill if you drink too much.

Alongside a healthy dash of jealousy you should pour a liter of trust and loyalty. My (gay) guy friend mentioned when he first met my bf how lucky my bf is because guys are always chasing me (hint of jealousy) and then I pointed out that I had never gone out with them and this was the first time I had a bf in years. My friend realized this and exclaimed, "you're right you never bring a guy! Your bf is the first!" (Liter of trust/loyality). My bf was smiling a lot after this conversation. This wasn't planned but its a good example.

Some Reading material: anything on Audrey Hepburn. She was very good at this. I'd also recommend the Art of Seduction - however Im not recommending using these tactics but being knowledgable about them is good.

Title	The art of making men jealous
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Date	February 17, 2018 8:21 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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