Is having a LTR really worth it?

Relaxredditrockstar · 2021-01-05T02:19:22+00:00

From personal experience... no

ImogeneArdon · 2021-01-05T02:09:10+00:00

Peple will tell you "she's not yours it's just your turn" but you're right, unless your a psychopth how can you have an LTR with 0 emotional investment and not caring if the girl you're in an LTR with died tomorrow?

I'm not sure if it's worth it.. a women can leave you and have 100s of options better than you in the palm of her hand.

I think it's worth it and only worth it if you're with a good women, yes hypergammy is still in their nature but the more green flags the less likely they will be so fast to bounce/cheat etc

salinorum · 2021-01-05T04:01:11+00:00

I think so for the experience. But modern women aren’t worth the lifetime commitment of marriage. So you just gotta enter the deal knowing that it will end at some point. And when it does end, be ready to move on to the next girl. If you don’t think you can handle the pain at the end, then it’s not worth it. From my experience though, so long as you keep improving, you can keep upgrading girls / getting better pussy. Each girl I get is better than the last because I’ve improved, am more RP, and am wiser.

Mindfulness1337z · 2021-01-05T02:15:40+00:00

I enjoy LTRs, but they can be difficult.. I just ended a 4 year LTR a few weeks ago on a bad note. I don't regret the years at all, we had fun. The sex was amazing. It wasn't perfect by any means, clearly. But some people prefer LTRs and that's okay. They have benefits/drawbacks. LTRs are easier if your SMV is high,too.

Artistic_Guest4386 · 2021-01-05T04:10:28+00:00

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eatdiz135 · 2021-01-05T13:53:35+00:00

If she actually adds value and enriches your life, then yes. Finding this sort of girl? Good luck.

Gtrplyr3838 · 2021-01-05T03:24:59+00:00

No. You get her best in the beginning, then it fades. You can care, but don’t go overboard. That’s what gets guys in trouble.

All women face the wall.....once they’re into their 30s, their best years are behind them. Hundreds of thirsty dudes may want them in their late teens and 20s, but that fades away. No matter how hot they are now, they will go downhill faster than a man who takes care of himself.

MarryUglyGirls · 2021-01-05T07:53:03+00:00

For me personally yes and for many people aswell, the world keeps spinning and women get fucked by their partners and you are wondering and strategizing what to do. What do you loose when a ltr comes to an end ? Only because your feelings get hurt ?

The world isnt black or white, there are no tricks to win life. Blue pill or red pill does it really matter ? Just do you and use the knowledge you gathered and you will see where you get and what you get.

trpppp123 · 2021-01-05T14:15:35+00:00

Is riding a motorcycle worth it? Is driving a car worth it? Is going outside worth it? There are risks to everything in life. Decide if it's worth it for you.

Generally speaking though, I don't think most guys should even consider LTRs until they're older and have been spinning plates for a while.

MrNeurotypical · 2021-01-05T16:28:01+00:00

Honestly, I would never consider an LTR other than marriage. I would never consider marriage with any woman who isn't proper. They're whores or housewives. I mean you can say dating and serial monogamy all day but they're whores anyway. Jumping from cock to cock. Switching every day or every 4 years, doesn't matter. I'm not judging anybody here. I'm a whore too. I fuck whores. Whores are great. They just make lousy wives.

Kidterrific · 2021-01-05T03:48:10+00:00

Life is a gamble, roll that dice.

lifeintraining · 2021-01-05T18:58:41+00:00

I’d rather punch myself in the balls at 4am every morning for the rest of my life than be in another LTR.

RStonePT · 2021-01-05T19:11:30+00:00

If you have to ask the answer is no.

throwRA3141565 · 2021-01-05T11:53:12+00:00

it's not

Title	Is having a LTR really worth it?
Author	TheDarkIsMyLight
Upvotes	3
Comments	23
Date	January 5, 2021 1:58 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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