I was reading in another RP ladies sub about her man not wanting marriage due to govt. influence, and basically all the chooks croacked "red flag". Got me thinking the way things are for us men in Westernville, is that really giving off a red flag for us? being committed without being committed? Here in Australia we have defacto laws that make you a couple if you have lived together for 6months, and prenups mean basically nothing (afaik a court can just make a prenup not valid, so almost pointless to have one).

Someone mentioned to me get spiritually married but not legally married (i actually do not know exactly how this pans out in God's eyes).

What do you men think, is this giving off a red flag?