We all know that abusers act like good people part of the time. They shower you with love and affection so when they hit you/call you names, you don't leave.

It's the same shit with LVM who aren't abusive.

Most of us will never date a man that's 100% shitty all the time, especially if you lurk here.

What FDS members will put up with is a man who is LV 10% of the time and HV 90% of the time. Don't forget that. FDS is about being ruthless. As soon as a man shows a shitty behavior - cut him off.

LVM will buy you flowers, pay for your meals, cook you dinner, buy you presents, baby you when you're on your period, check in with you emotionally, do you favors. There's so so many HV traits that horrible guys do.

Don't kid yourself that if he shows mostly HV traits that he's a HVM. You need to always be vetting. People mess up, everyone does, but it's how they act when they fuck up that's important. If your HVM has tons of traits of a good man but consistently dismisses your feelings, or blows up during arguments, he's not HV.

The most dangerous LVM is one who masquerades as HV. Don't forget it and don't get so attached, sink all your eggs in that basket, that you can't break up with him. Always be vetting and be ruthless.

Edit : lmao some scrote tried to correct my spelling of behavior and tell me I’ve never had a long term relationship. Even in English speaking countries there are variations in spelling and grammar. Why do men feel it’s appropriate to “correct” cultures they’re not a part of?