So after being single since January and no interest in dating, I downloaded Tinder. After matching with a handful of men I thought may reach my standards, I was only able to carry on an intelligent, funny, non-sexual conversation with one.

The next day, I don't hear anything. So what did I do? I caved. I sent a message that I could spin off the previous days' conversation. He responded, we chatted a bit, I felt good. He suggested calling me the next day, so I said sure.

So, yesterday arrives, no word. I work two jobs and have been working non-stop the last four days. I text him at NINE PM (basically an entire 24-hour period for him to initiate contact) and guess what - nothing. I sheepishly asked him how his day went, much to my chagrin, no response again.

I kept telling myself to UNMATCH when I woke up - and you know what? I did. As much as I felt like I should wait a little while longer, what was the point? The FDS mantra I say over and over in my head (say it out loud with me now):

IF HE WANTED TO, HE WOULD