OkCupid single mother wants you to wine and dine her and bear with her while she figures out if chivalry is dead

JerryNewton7 · 2021-07-24T13:18:11+00:00

"I don't take compliments well"

I guess it's not a good idea to find out how she takes criticism.

Too many red flags in that profile.

gentle_lemon · 2021-07-24T13:13:28+00:00

I'll just put it out there to save her some time: chivalry IS dead; feminism killed it.

This one is a modern basket case, from her phone addiction to her low self esteem. Typical vapid, hive-minded moron.

And watching Disney, anime and reading are neither "nerdy" nor personality traits.

Chiliresident · 2021-07-24T13:33:09+00:00

I smell a very large woman here: “bisexual” “love takeaway” “mental” - wining and dining could cost you a net weekly paycheck. She looks to be cuck hunting.

slipkid223 · 2021-07-24T15:32:45+00:00

I have 3 kids, can't talk on the phone, won't give you my number anyway and a laundry list of mental issues but I am still looking for a free meal.

our_purring_majesty · 2021-07-24T13:58:58+00:00

I always find it quite comical then somebody (usually XX person) pretending that their most basic npc preferences somehow make them special in this particular case “luk at mi I am such a nerd I like rid buks”

InevitableOwl1 · 2021-07-24T17:17:34+00:00

I wonder if she expects chivalry from the women she is apparently also attracted to?

I tend to not believe most of the women who claim they are bi or pansexual. I am prepared to bet the majority of them (probably at least 80%) have only ever dated men. And I would say almost 100% of those claiming to be pansexual have never dated a trans or "gender fluid" person

It is an attempt to seem more interesting that falls flat

Literally why put it on a dating profile unless your offer is "I have a hot female friend who would be down for joining us for some fun from time to time". But that is never the case

me_at_myhouse · 2021-07-24T15:32:13+00:00

She's a bi-sexual with 3 kids who 'come first'. You will also be competing with not only every man, but also every women who crosses her path.

Gents, the chivalry line starts over there!

meerita · 2021-07-24T20:11:43+00:00

These bitches when they say chivalry what they mean is woman worshiping basically. They want to be worshipped. Disgusting.

Joaquino7997 · 2021-07-24T13:42:50+00:00

This woman has more hangups than clothes in a closet and more problems than a math book. Is it any wonder why NONE of her baby daddies stuck around, much less committed to this mess??!!

40moreyears · 2021-07-24T20:46:18+00:00

Why the fuck are these women looking for a relationship with someone but their lives are a dumpster fire? Why not work on themselves first, and come to the dating site as an actual desirable person? This is just going to amount to her getting pumped and dumped as that’s the only thing she sounds to be worthy of.

Jake-Orion · 2021-07-24T15:12:54+00:00

How the hell did she have 3 kids with that personality wreck?

Me thinks this is one of those "feel sorry for me" profiles. A way to play the sympathy card to get attention. That or she became so damaged from the previous relationship which she doesn't need a man; she needs therapy.

RealMcGonzo · 2021-07-24T22:57:24+00:00

So this massive red flag is easy to miss amongst the forest of them:

I'd much rather sit in with a fat takeaway and a few glasses of wine.

Yikes. She's an obese alcoholic. When she croaks, you'll be responsible for her rugrats.

MRMRising · 2021-07-24T17:43:25+00:00

Chivalry is dead and women killed it.

dinghusHD · 2021-07-24T23:19:36+00:00

Does she mean "bear" with her?

Going "bare" with her is why she has 3 kids...

Overkillengine · 2021-07-25T03:36:18+00:00

Whenever a woman complains about a lack of chivalry, that's your sign to exit, as she expects you to bow, scrape, and pander to her unconditionally.

polishknightusa · 2021-07-25T13:46:18+00:00

An insight hit me last night: When a woman says "my children come first" or "they are my world" then...

Why are they still acting like spoiled teenagers themselves?

I'm older generation than here and my parent's generation, the Korean war era, had a share of war widows (a good friend had one) and she was a saint: She worked a full time job as a nurse, came home and did her parenting duties, AND kept an immaculate home AND most importantly, she found very LITTLE time for her own distractions because she didn't NEED or WANT them. She had moved on from being taken care of to taking care of others.

She quickly found a new stepfather for her son that she remained married to for life.

Truth be told, this above woman's children are NOT "her world." She's still the center of it and she's exploiting the kids as fashion accessories.

I'd believe it if I read in the profile that she loved cleaning the house and cooking for her kids so they'd have a nice home, preparing fun and educational activities for them that a man could share in on, that she disciplines her children to be polite and respectful to those around her, and works hard to set an example for them. THAT is making the kids HER WORLD.

Being all of that by oneself is a MASSIVE personal challenge hence why most women in the old days were smart enough to keep the father around only if he was such a liability that he was a threat to the well being of the kids and in that case, she wouldn't have shacked up with him to begin with.

Marko_From_Tropoja_ · 2021-07-25T02:39:36+00:00

Yes! I have finally found her!

rb5775 · 2021-07-25T09:00:19+00:00

Has an "irrational fear" of speaking on the phone and still lists phone as a must have. Internet Pacifier is what she means I guess. Makes me dizzy just reading that mess.

-NotaBene · 2021-07-26T06:06:35+00:00

I don't get people who call themselves "well-read" and then make elementary school grammatical mistakes.

I was a nerd growing up. I read a ton because I had no friends. When you read a lot, you pick up vocabulary and grammar. It becomes instinctual. This girl is not well-read at all. Most likely she made it through a Harry Potter book once and figured she could virtue signal her reading ability.

EastEndMontrealer1 · 2021-07-25T00:44:07+00:00

It used to amaze me that supposedly rational women can actually think they can act like they do, possibly even giving birth to a kid along the way, and still demand chivalry from men who can give that treatment to any other woman. Now, after a year of being on this subreddit, it doesn't surprise me at all

Dumloko · 2021-07-25T02:17:40+00:00

Lazy socially inept trainwreck wants you to take her to a fancy restaurant while every comment she makes reeks of sarcasm.

Also OP, nice title choice.

freedomisatreasure · 2021-07-25T06:21:23+00:00

Her ramblings find me: DISINTERESTED !!

2021-07-25T13:58:41+00:00

Besides all the other obvious red flags...on a dating app where people go to meet other people, but doesn't want to exchange social media info, phone numbers or even talk on the phone.

I_abhor_redditors · 2021-07-25T22:59:29+00:00

Bisexual, anime fan, 3 kids.

I've met only one very attractive female (to my tastes in high school lol) who watched anime probably more than me. I declared my feelings for her. She rejected me and instead went with my "best friend" (black, tall, large hair, wannabe rapper, you can't make this up) who I honestly told him to go fuck himself because that was absolutely not cool at all because he knew I liked her. I was ended up rejected from my group of friends because they sided with him and that year of high school I was alone the rest of the year.

Next year was way better, and the final year of high school was better still. In that laat year. I've heard that my asshole "friend" knocked her up. When I received the news I honestly couldn't have felt better. Some of my old friends from that group even told me I was right that he was the asshole and not me.

I've never heard from her or him again. And frankly I don't want to know. All I know is that bitch who had good grades and wanted to study psychology (lol) got knocked out by chad and ruined her life and that massive asshole probably got his life ruined too.

That moment was the foundation for me joining the red pill and this sub. It didn't matter how much I wanted her, how much I talked to her, how much I wanted to treat her well. How much I whiteknighted her, How much we had in common. She went with someone who she knew was not going to be good for her and she did anyway. And chad wannabe who only was with us because he wanted to feel superior by using weebs and nerds for homework and grades betrayed me.

Honestly? I haven't thought about that bitch and that asshole in all this time until I saw this post. It did leave some trauma for me, 3 people declared feelings for me next year and the only thing I could do was stay silent and reject. Not anymore. This reminded me as to why I'm here. So thank you.

Also If you are in a group of friends and the "leader" is a complete egotistical moron who uses you and your other friends. Go out. He will betray you someday. In the 3 years of High School I've met replicas of him 3 times. Always the same.

Title	OkCupid single mother wants you to wine and dine her and bear with her while she figures out if chivalry is dead
Author	ringseller
Upvotes	124
Comments	49
Date	July 24, 2021 1:04 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
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