Does any of you have no friends around? How do you deal with it?

EviessVeralan · 2021-07-20T15:40:19+00:00

I was able to meet some nice people through a church youth group.

123443217 · 2021-07-20T18:29:03+00:00

I’ve none around me(25F) too. I started therapy to learn to be okay without friends and to love my own company. My friendships in past were filled with girls back stabbing me and to me, if it happens often, I might have a pattern I should look into. Such as, why do I accept women who don’t have similar values as me when it comes to friendship. I really wouldn’t chase women around anymore to be my friend just because I’m lonely, I rather step into therapy to bond with myself more as if I’m the only best friend I need at this moment. I learned if they don’t see value in me to be my friend or they talk behind me or betray me, it’s their loss.

TheBunk_TB · 2021-07-20T15:03:35+00:00

Many women get involved with meetup groups, hobbies, school co ops, church stuff, etc

Magicallypeanut · 2021-07-20T15:45:33+00:00

Check your local library or consider volunteering somewhere. Do activities you like and you might find like minded people there. I like to knit and my library has a local knitters group that meets weekly. I enjoy board games so I found a local board game shop to play.

Small-Button-2308 · 2021-07-20T18:24:10+00:00

Maybe look to trying out new hobbies? I take classes for things I'm interested in like calligraphy so it's another opportunity to meet others

Tanman55555 · 2021-07-20T16:20:51+00:00

Kinda corny comment but you have friends here lol aight ima head out

But start study groups for your courses Ive made some friends that way coincidently

Milacel · 2021-07-20T23:48:26+00:00

I just approach anyone that looks interesting to me. Most people are more happy to chat than you think.

lemongrooved · 2021-07-21T03:13:56+00:00

I’m really struggling with this! I’m so lucky I’m engaged but have barely any women to put in my wedding, its lonely out here

auth1248 · 2021-07-20T20:19:36+00:00

Combining COVID, my awkwardness/quietness, deep trust issues, and staying off campus while in university, yes I have no friends around except my boyfriend and two friends I meet a few times a year. :/

QueenOfCorvids · 2021-07-21T00:01:30+00:00

I had very few friends coming out of my abusive marriage. Mostly work friends. With covid and quitting my job due to medical reasons, I have 0 friends.

It's hard. I feel like I've lost my ability to make friends and don't even know where to start.

I'm sorry I don't have any advice, but I wish you luck :)

cbunni666 · 2021-07-21T01:32:03+00:00

I am more or less friendless. My friends and I communicate over the net because we live far apart. That's military life for you. After a while they feel "fake". Like they aren't real. I keep in contact but I just end up feeling disconnected. To take my mind out of that direction I would take up some hobbies, mostly crafting. I would recommend joining a club/group that allows physical contact within covid guidelines. You don't have to make friends right away but at least you are engaged with people that share the same interests as you. I am introverted as well have social anxiety so doing this is hard for me. Good luck.

LateralThinker13 · 2021-07-21T04:45:44+00:00

Get a hobby. Try new things. There are plenty of sane folks out there if you look for them.

XenaBoudica · 2021-07-21T08:24:06+00:00

I haven't had any friends in over 15 years. Who needs 'em!

Hopeful_Pay_6685 · 2021-07-21T13:08:05+00:00

Went on a month-long (currently on it now) French exchange program in Quebec, I live in Ontario. And, even though it's a short-period of time, I felt pretty confident and I always tried my best to dress well. I'm also not afraid talking to people like I used to. Sometimes, it's small things like that, that can change your life. It was also the first time living on my own away from home but it wasn't hard because I'm used to cleaning and cooking at home.

During Covid, when I didn't really have much friends, I would make friends online which helped a bit. Otherwise, I'd talk to my brother and parents alot. I do really want to attend a Church and make friends there because same values and I'm not constantly debating people on issues.

IceBurgSlim1748 · 2021-07-23T03:41:05+00:00

Hey! I lost my friends in college and just so you know it’s more common than you think. I lost mine due to me needing my personal space and them being to emotional to deal. So they did tht typical female mob mentality and made up lies and now they are coming back asking for forgiveness. Just know you’re not alone and you’re better off without them.

Sea_Bookkeeper_1533 · 2021-07-24T06:58:07+00:00

Yup, none here either and I'm 30 this year. Long working hours & shyness don't help with making friends.

If anyone is in Europe, particularly around the Mediterranean side of it, feel free to msg me :) :)

condemnthetradfem · 2021-07-22T01:20:47+00:00

Church. ❤️

username_lmao1 · 2021-08-24T08:19:06+00:00

I have no friends either (15F), and I worked on fixing my relationship with my family, which has been going very well so far. I have also worked on myself and am currently working on reconnecting with my heritage (Russian) and becoming more feminine. I also had a jealous best friend who loved humiliating me in front of others and shoving me aside whenever given the chance, so I can sympathize with you on that one.

I hope you find true friends very soon!

jessitabonita · 2021-07-21T08:00:49+00:00

😔 Thank you for posting this, because I’m 28 living alone in Seattle and was politically and then officially full-on red-pilled within the last 2 years.

Lost all my friends I made in college, since they’re pretty much blue-pilled far lefties. The ones who didn’t block me on social media just don’t offer to hangout like we used to. 🙁

I take full ownership of my lack of tact when I first was red-pilled though, since I realize I was the same contentious woman but with the conservative talking points rather than the mainstream feminist talking points (like Candace Owens who I now can’t stand to listen to, especially that she still hasn’t taken her husband’s surname... 🧐)

It’s become depressing to the point that I’m lonely, yet want to be alone in order not to hurt anyone ever again with my beliefs, and feel so disconnected and unloved.

I feel terrible for not even attending church anymore, because the last two I attended were obviously over-feminized.

Now I just work all day to pay off debt and save up to move out of this city. But the loneliness lingers...

Good on you for learning such an impressive skill though! I’d love to turn back time to get a degree in something like that to be able to work from home rather than having to go somewhere surrounded by blue-pilled beta males and post-wall feminists.

jessitabonita · 2021-07-21T08:05:14+00:00