Just your turn

IdrinkandIknowXL · 2021-06-16T23:03:27+00:00

I guess there are a lot of Betas.

FigurineLambda · 2021-06-17T01:19:25+00:00

I have been the « backup man » when I was still bluepilled. Don’t be this man, there is nothing worse than being on a waiting list like a good simp.

Replicant3982 · 2021-06-16T23:43:51+00:00

Males have limited options, females have many options. Both genders act accordingly.

For me problem was that I wasn't aware how many options women have. Now I know. I know what to expect. And I won't be hurt again. Thanks to this community.

thenameless685 · 2021-06-17T00:59:19+00:00

Considering she cheated on me with an "old friend " from my previous job i concur.

[deleted] · 2021-06-17T18:02:28+00:00

it's simple: If she ain't a virgin, is always surrounded by dudes, and doesn't listen to you, then she ain't marriage material

Saplingo · 2021-06-17T00:14:31+00:00

This is sad af

evergreencanoe · 2021-06-17T05:37:41+00:00

My sister in a nutshell!

AnonymousGhou · 2021-06-17T06:29:42+00:00

If your girl has a backup man then you're not valuable enough. It's real simple, make money, lift weights and fuck bitches.

My girl knows if she tries anything funny there's 100 girls who will immediately replace her and is 100% her loss.

Khatam_kardunga1 · 2021-06-17T06:18:02+00:00

It's just a scam

shadowschild · 2021-06-17T09:57:38+00:00

Nothing new really, just wait for the laws to eventually change. For example if the government issued a card where child support payments went to instead of directly into the ex wifes bank account.. and that card can only be used at approved stores you would quickly see a change in behavior. We all know they abuse that shit.

Cant be used on airlines, travel operators, any alchohol, cigarettes, nail salons, mechanical expenses or car purchases, new appliances, renovations,plumbers you get the idea. Its either directly for the kid or you assume the expense out of pocket.

At best it can use it for food, childrens clothes and medical expenses, schooling & public transport. The father would be able to monitor the expenses and flag any suspicious misuse to the court which she would have to justify. All of this easily done with stiff penalties for abuse. That would be fair & transparent in my oppinion.

Next the concept of no fault divorce should be re-evaluated to ensure it leaves assets to those that owned it before the marriage started & punish no shows in court for both sexes. My brother got dragged through that shit and faught tooth and nail for access to his child. If he missed even one court apearrance he would be found guilty, but she could miss a handful without issue. It costs money & time to go to court....

If a psychologist found one parent was constantly playing victim and trying to use reputational damage to get a child to favor one parent over the other, that could be punished. No more playing the victim card.

Next access to children should be 50/50 by default with the child unable to make a decision on which parent they prefer until the age of 18. Vacations and holidays are determined by the court automatically with no favoring of one parent for any reason.

Finally, possibly the most important of all, the marriage terms should clearly indicate what the penalty is for filling for divorce. As in unless you can prove abuse it would be akin to quitting your job, you are not awarded a salary if you quit or get fired.

Just these simple steps will make it much less likely that your marriage will end in divorce and monkey branching would reduce significantly. as the benefits no longer outway the risks. Sadly I doubt we will see these changes in our lifetime

We spent the last 50 years writing laws that favor one sex over the other. Probably take another 50 years to update them for fairness, or simply eliminate the gender differences in the eys of the court. Justice is supposed to be blind afterall.

Bron_3 · 2021-06-17T11:36:42+00:00

I know what it's like to be "the backup". Feels about as bad as being cheated on, been there too. But being the backup is often left unspoken about and it hurts. You aren't what they want or what they're looking for, you're just "good enough", the backup plan in case things go south. I'm not part of this subreddit or community or movement or whatever this is supposed to be, but this definitely hits home. If she treats you as disposable, by having a backup or by using you as a backup, she isn't worth it

Theextremecheapskate · 2021-06-17T06:53:48+00:00

My women will not have a backup man cause divorced women are seen in a bad ligth in the arab world and i will not allow her to have a smart phone or get out without me her brother her father or our son who hit puberty

NarutoBoy87 · 2021-06-17T07:26:47+00:00

When the partner knows of the backup man, why is he still dating her? Both simps.... Worst part is backup man is friends with the partner? What is that?

StarbirdBothan · 2021-06-17T07:35:44+00:00

Really interesting stats and I think it is applicable to western society for sure. I couldn’t say about the rest of the world. I’ve been both. Both really suck for different reasons. Neither were worth it and are important lessons to me now. Stay on the path.

Flexed23 · 2021-06-17T11:20:33+00:00

Come on. These are not correct and Google luck getting any woman to be HONEST! They lie to everyone…that’s what makes them women.
Do trans woman lie? Or only biological? This would make a great study. No joking or offense to Trans people. I have tons of family and friends part of community and I brought this up to my cousin/BF who is gay and he thinks it woujd be a good study.

rishajd81 · 2021-06-17T16:16:58+00:00

A female friend used to use my name to make her BF jealous and do things for her. She always flirted with me and I thought it might just be fun and games, but then I found out that she used my name to get around stuff and that for somehow supposed to be something. I wasn't even vaguely interested in her at all. Now I don't even respond to her texts. Thank God for the dude they broke up (as far as she has told, don't really care)

EMSuser11 · 2021-06-17T12:37:46+00:00

I wonder if my case is rare? I got a beta female thst I imprinted who had low self-esteem but now is better because of me. You think she'll turn like they all do?

pissed_off_elbonian · 2021-06-17T13:10:20+00:00

I… just can’t even wrap my mind against this level of duplicity…

aelar992 · 2021-06-17T14:40:54+00:00

Litteraly my ex with her "he is only a friend"

americanpower01 · 2021-06-17T14:42:57+00:00

This is why you should never get too attached to a wahman

noob_coder_2002 · 2021-06-17T09:41:49+00:00

What a bunch of cucks

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TheGodOFnoOne · 2021-06-17T17:04:52+00:00

Gold diggers

Roland_from_gilihad · 2021-06-21T08:26:04+00:00

Wow what a Great source

Public_Potential_531 · 2021-07-13T20:00:43+00:00

From my perspective, being the Other dude wasn't that bad of a deal as long as he was doing all the bitch-work & paying, and I was doing most of the playing. It worked fine for me because I only wanted one thing from that girl, and it was not to own her or have her drama around in my life all the time.When my buddy wanted a shot I told him go for it! So when he wanted to simp out and she made them "Exclusive" it was no business to me. I go my own way,,

See, simps, betas, women, and guys like us, we each have a part to play in the bigger picture.

As dude mentioned above, remember the frog-scorpion fable:

"It's in Our Nature"

ItsKaptainKilljoy · 2021-06-17T18:47:46+00:00

What is with dudes seducing their friends' partners? "hoes before bros" seems to be SOP, apparently.

MOLONGU · 2021-06-17T19:02:23+00:00

Definitely been there sux

monkeestatuE · 2021-06-17T19:06:55+00:00

Stats of betas.

TigPlaze · 2021-06-17T19:36:06+00:00

This was one of the shocking things to me. I had no idea that women kept backing boyfriends waiting in the wings in case their current relationship failed. Some of them keep more than one. That's stringing men along. It's also cheating on their current partner. I find the practice totally disgusting.

Impossible-asset · 2021-06-17T10:27:15+00:00

Post removed, rule 3. No cartoons, memes or anime. If you have the sources for those stats, feel free to post them.

Edit: source was included in the image. While it is an infographic, it is sourced and it is not a meme. Post approved.

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Bleizy · 2021-06-17T11:00:19+00:00

For people who are supposed to be going their own way, you sure as hell focus a lot on women

ThisisitRoyal · 2021-06-17T07:09:55+00:00

Most women do have a backup plan, there needs to be more trust.

Title	Just your turn
Author	Johan_24
Upvotes	64
Comments	130
Date	June 16, 2021 10:37 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW2
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