How do you remove the need for human touch?

frenchlouve · 2021-02-24T18:37:03+00:00

I remove my desire for skin to skin contact by reminding myself she probably just came from having some strange guy rubbing himself all over her. Women are so promiscuous these days it's actually likely.

So let disgust kill your desire.

Also, some dudes pay for that cuddling thing.

classicliberal1 · 2021-02-24T18:10:56+00:00

massage parlors

Agile_Cricket_2813 · 2021-02-24T19:50:00+00:00

I hug my grandma. Done.

SamaelET · 2021-02-24T20:59:39+00:00

Time. It is like an old habit. It will die quickly enough.

Solo_and_Simple · 2021-02-24T19:48:56+00:00

Get a dog. I don't mean that flippantly. I mean it seriously. The desire for touch does not need to be met by a human. It can be met by animals. As long as you are getting/exchanging warm, affectionate touch, it doesn't matter whether it's a human or an animal.

p.s. Oh, sorry, I responded before I noticed this part of your post:

I don't have any pets. I don't really want any. I tried ant keeping but I got bored. I grew up with pets and they just seem like a responsibility that I don't want to have in my life.

Might want to reconsider, if you're planning on monk mode. Ants aren't a good trial run. Ants don't have the emotional/attachment system that mammals do, so there isn't the emotional connection. Plus, they aren't very good at cuddling. Dogs have the emotional attachment system (so do many other types of pets), so they provide that companionship and emotional connection, touch, and many other benefits.

Up to you, of course. But if you forgo animals, I think your only options for touch are paying a hooker or going to a professional massage therapist regularly.

TigPlaze · 2021-02-24T19:34:35+00:00

There's such a thing as a professional cuddlist, but I would wait till the pandemic is over.

Ed_Bronson · 2021-02-24T21:01:22+00:00

Pets want to be petted. You are not a pet. Sleep with a teddy bear

TRPonlySubsBanTRPppl · 2021-02-24T18:26:10+00:00

Stop caring whether you go unstable.

casra888 · 2021-02-24T22:08:29+00:00

A lot of these "women", why on earth would I want to touch them??? Obese? I don't want to touch you. Feminist? I don't want to touch you. Mentally ill? I don't want to touch you. Screwed up your life? I don't want to touch you. Looking for money? I don't want to touch you. Looking for victimhood credits? I don't want to touch you.

I don't go looking for food in toxic waste sites. Why would I want to touch these "modern women"?

BubblyBath7 · 2021-02-25T05:07:12+00:00

Become more interested in yourself than other people, obsess over self-mastery and find a place of contentment.

Say you deserve more and that other people are limiting you. Energy leeches.

AndyCalling · 2021-02-26T01:34:33+00:00

Family, including two little nephews, and friends. Inviting someone into your bed is not a requirement for a great relationship with a broad range of people. Of course, you will have to wait for the current apocalypse to blow over first. No-one ever said that the apocalypse would be easy. At least with this apocalypse there's actually less zombies out in the streets than usual.

Now, you don't have to go monk. It is your choice and you shouldn't let anyone's actions towards you to push you into it if it doesn't suit you. You can have relationships that work without moving in with each other and getting married. However, you must ALWAYS use a condom. Firstly for your health which is important whether you're straight or gay etc., and secondly because you'd be best advised to avoid unwanted pregnancy.

Keep relationships light, you don't need to go any further than you are comfortable with. It's your body, and your life. There's plenty of physical contact you can have in your life without the need for marriage, cohabitation, or even sex. If you feel like you are being pushed in a direction that makes you uncomfortable, you can say no. It's not wrong or bad, and any worthwhile relationship will benefit.

avtarius · 2021-02-25T09:33:47+00:00

need ? I never had it. Nothing to remove.

I was redpilled since 9 and saw how much unnecessary shit exists.

Not saying to ignore it all though, as these are tools which can be used to get what you need from people.

Tyler_2000 · 2021-02-25T20:04:35+00:00

I'm 25 and I pay for sex with hot chicks. You're going to pay a minimum of $200 for the hour but most of the time I get as long as I like if I ask and I'll just tip good.

I think since going to therapy I've realized that I do want women in my life but the way I keep myself sane in relationships is to forgo emotional attachment of any kind. Treat them how you treat yourself but as soon as she no longer adds any benefit or value to your life you get rid of her. You either adapt to current market and "cultural norms" or suffer. It's a good thing you're going MGTOW though you'll do good I've been single since I was 21.

TheTrueTylerDurden · 2021-02-26T02:57:06+00:00

Mix Marshall Arts - Gym + Massage Gun

LilDebbo · 2021-02-25T17:23:15+00:00

Hang out with your bros. Your family, something like that. MGTOW isnt about ditching society its about ditching women and the one way relationships rhey put us into.

19780521reddit · 2021-02-25T16:09:21+00:00

you don’t, lol

Skun-Back · 2021-02-26T12:55:00+00:00

Take up drag racing, build a dragster. Your dragster will always be there waiting for you to give it something or fix something, sort of like a woman, always needing something from you. If you want it to win races you have to work on it every minute of your spare time. That's 6 nights a week sometimes over night to have it ready for Sunday. But when it beats the girl driving the other dragster in the final round it's better than an orgasm.

Terminarch · 2021-02-25T14:55:56+00:00

Why do you think people grab their own wrists (and other body parts) when uncomfortable? Sometimes it's a protective stance, but it also simulates a comforting touch from another person.

I know it sounds dumb but think about this. The power-pose-increases-confidence thing is proven. Sometimes we just need to talk to our minds through our bodies. Give yourself a damned hug. Yes it's not the same and you know that, it's the physical act speaking to your mind that YOU care and that that should be enough.

Fit_Range4001 · 2021-02-25T14:40:37+00:00

you cant fight nature. You will need human touch. Nature, to be controled, must be obeyed

BarracudaOpen2001 · 2021-02-25T05:35:57+00:00

I’m confused. I thought MGTOW was primarily to stay out of cohabitation and marriage. Is it also against physical touch, be it platonic or sexual, with women we don’t live with or marry??

patoka13 · 2021-02-25T09:28:09+00:00

excessive masturbation. but really, humans arent lone wolves, there's a reason why people like human touch. i wouldnt recommend actively going against that, just like i wouldnt recommend fasting which is essentially starvation.

starving yourself from your most basic needs is never gonna end up well. if you want to lock yourself in a room for a while until the worst is over concerning your breakup, i would highly recommend you to read ayn rand's atlas shrugged and the fountainhead.

Different_Fortune697 · 2021-02-24T20:35:41+00:00

Dude there is no medical need for human touch... do you think our ancestors who had to fight and hunt cared for that... fuck no dude... If you need that touch just get an escort or visit a masseuse. She will take care of that itch my friend

jabbercockey · 2021-02-25T03:18:07+00:00

A lot depends on your age, experience and your self-validation. Is the physical contact itself or just the idea that woman wants to touch you?
Realize that just because a need is there it doesn't have to be met.
Alcoholics will probably always want another drink. It's overcoming your baser desires and weaknesses that free you to live to your fullness.

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Substantial-Dealer76 · 2021-02-25T05:35:31+00:00

One day at a time

BlackmesaTBX · 2021-02-25T06:00:59+00:00

I’d offer an alternative. You don’t need to cut out physical shit or even love to go your own way. You can have it “all”. It just requires some rewiring of old expectations and some willful practice. Sorry dudes, getting thanked to hold doors and pedestalizing western women as virtuous is long gone.

What you’re practicing is equanimity, outcome independence, bemused detachment, abundance, presence in the now. Monk mode isn’t necessarily about living a monastic life with no ass, affection, or even universal “love”. It’s about being at peace with your nature so that you can be at peace with others too. You enjoy the moments you get because nothing is permanent.

These days, I have a rotation and each one has a “place” in my calendar and my mind. I enjoy them all in their own ways and we’re compatible. I’m discreet and don’t talk about my shit, but I’m not a lier, cheater or player. I don’t spend any more than a day at a time with each and may go several weeks without seeing a few of them. I also leave a great deal of time for myself, work, side hustles, hobbies, buddies, etc. so my time’s scarce. I lost one around covid who thought she could change me. Nope, you’re outta the game baby.

When I hang out with any one of them, I’m there and present because I practice it. No promises of the future, hints of monogamy, devotion, “forever love”.

And they’re cool with it until they’re not. When someone leaves, I’m appreciative of the vibe we had, but I move on. And it’s none of my business what they do outside of our interaction, because it’s none of theirs what I’m up to.

For all the dudes that ruminate about their chick just getting piped before they slide over to your house - a.) so what? Aren’t you better than other guys? If not, get there and women won’t have time/desire to fuck around because they be busy biting their lip thinking about you and how you make them tingle and b.) many women have periods, bloating, PMS, bad hair days, fat days, bisexual feeling days, general sad days, light a candle and read 5 books days, headache days, binge watch tv days, hangover days, etc. Assuming YOU are the Chad/Tyrone, they might be out with Skip, but out of 30 days in a month, they probably have 3-7 days where they’re even available to get fucked. Some more, some less. And chances are if you’re doing it right, they’re waiting for their day with you. Just gotta lay off the pron, it’s not usually a veritable 24/7 cum fest all over one of your girls.

Just brush your teeth and be on time for our date. The ownership model is dead, fellas. But that doesn’t mean you can’t have a lot of fun and even fulfilling casual relationships with women.

deephurting66 · 2021-02-25T06:46:21+00:00

I am just a misanthrope that cant stand human touch, learn misanthropy and all your problems will be solved!

vetiarvind · 2021-03-02T16:47:43+00:00

I live in Bangkok. I can get it whenever I want. I don't need it or use those though.
I run marathons in the mid-day, lift and workout almost everyday, work on my business a lot, socialize with friends now and then, sometimes random people just buy me drinks and I chill with them. I pet random dogs and cats on occasion. It's all I "need", never understood this need for touch, some of my friends talk about this need too.

In some ways I find myself dissociating with my physical body. A friend tried pinching me hard near the side and it's supposed to be sensitive, but I barely felt anything.

kakramer1211 · 2021-02-25T04:34:24+00:00

This might be why God gave you a brother, sister or a grandma or other relatives. A hug and convo can go a long way. Don't be afraid to heap love on others especially those who love you too. Family is still a favorable thing for most of us. If you family is not, then make friends with someone. Remember treat others the way you would want to be treated.

Brandwein · 2021-02-25T01:12:29+00:00

Dunno, i don't have it. I dislike hugs and don't desire physical companionship. 2 good faps a day keep every other thought at bay.

Title	How do you remove the need for human touch?
Author	Ok_Jello8339
Upvotes	9
Comments	51
Date	February 24, 2021 6:04 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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