I miss my vacation plans

fmanly · 2019-06-19T18:56:59+00:00

Honestly, I struggle a bit with vacations. Doing them alone feels like doing the same stuff I'd probably do at home, but without the convenience.

I don't mind getting out of the house, but usually after half a day I've had enough.

I've been doing a lot of staycation type things as a result. I get tons of time to use at work and so I just do little day trips or whatever. I already work from home so it isn't like I need vacation time to get stuff done.

Shnook82 · 2019-06-20T08:53:31+00:00

Not really. Every now and again have a few pangs about finding a good woman to live with etc but generally come to my senses a few minutes later. Even if such a creature existed, I'm far too comfortable on my own now to "share" a life with anyone.

Thought about going on a short cruise by yourself? You'll soon find out whether doing a longer cruise alone is going to be enjoyable or not.

throwaway64688 · 2019-06-21T05:12:43+00:00

Do whatever brings you joy and has a positive impact on both an internal and external level. Simple as that.

KernelMayhem · 2019-06-20T14:30:59+00:00

My BP dreams were to have a wife by 25 and two kids by 30. I am 30 now and don't have neither one. On the plus side, i have a shit load of money in the bank/investments, a 15yr mortgage and planning on retiring early. I've enjoyed some of the craziest road trips & adventures (drove a indy car, bull riding etc..) not the typical adventures you see on TV.

GermanScrewdriver · 2019-06-20T02:34:50+00:00

Lean back and think what these plans really mean to you. What aspect did you want to experience? What things did you want to do, to try? Consider, what is at the core of what you dreamed of.

It could be "I love the ocean and want to travel" or "I want an all-inclusive experience". Or whatever, only you know.

Then do that.

Digitaldreamer7 · 2019-06-21T17:05:29+00:00

Write down all the things you'd want to do on board that ship... Then, with your big brain, not your little one, realize just how many of them a female would actually want to do.

Look at the basic cost of that trip. Now again, with the big brain, add 20% to that for frivolous things.

Now do the same with friends but, split the cost by how many friends you'd take and also base the people you choose on the shared interests that would give you the companionship you desire when doing the things you want to do, as well as factor in all the true alone time you'd possibly want.

I'd bet you'd see a big difference.

mosquitosSucks · 2019-06-19T19:05:27+00:00

Do the same vacation with your friends instead of a wife. Of with a club, like going to ride to sapin with your bike together with a group.

30203forever · 2019-06-19T19:07:19+00:00

I don't buy the idea of "vacation" at all. That's why I'm usually adding my vacation days to the weekends to make them longer and spread them around the year. That's unless I really need to go somewhere. P.S. Crossing the Atlantic on board of the Queen Mary 2 with some broad would not be acceptable to me at all. The mindfuckery alone would be enough enough to can the whole idea.

GlobalAsshat · 2019-06-19T19:29:00+00:00

Honestly I'm red pilling myself and working on self mastery. I haven't sworn off females entirely. I just dont have those blue pill unrealistic expectations of women as innocent princesses anymore and dont really chase them.

Frelsi_8899 · 2019-06-19T19:45:49+00:00

Find a friend with benefits for the trip. You might end up paying for most of the trip, but you'll have company and sex on tap to boot.

BilboBagginhole · 2019-06-19T19:46:45+00:00

I get bored just sitting around the beach or pool, which is what my ex always wanted to do on "vacations". My travel revolves around my physical activities like doing a trail marathon some place cool, snowboarding a new mountain or backpacking/camping.

So no, don't miss my blue-pill vacations at all.

othergabe · 2019-06-19T19:50:08+00:00

Cruises and hotel vacations seem like a thing for the ladies anyway. They can have them, I'm truly happier in the mountains or desert than anywhere civilized.

801735 · 2019-06-19T20:23:41+00:00

Nope. My life is great. Here and now. As if there is anything else.

treble-n-bass · 2019-06-19T20:32:59+00:00

Hell no, I don't miss it. Why? Because I have been on vacations with several women, and they were always such a train wreck. We ended up doing a bunch of stupid shit, and spending a bunch of money on bullshit. Fuck that shit. Traveling alone is the best. Or, with a best bro. Alone is best tho.

GlobalAsshat · 2019-06-19T21:09:16+00:00

Don't go on the trip yet. Keep red pilling and improving yourself. Who knows, you might meet someone worthy. I'm not sure your age or your goals and accomplishments so far or your personality, how funny and dominant you are, but all these factor in. Save your money and invest it for now. Most importantly ditch any blue pill fantasies and crushes you get on women and if you're going to associate with women, get to know each one individually.

notjaysmith · 2019-06-19T21:12:33+00:00

Actually, my plan was to marry. That was my biggest dream. Now that, that issue is solved by mgtow, I am open for anything, except gay sex

Impossible-asset · 2019-06-19T21:56:15+00:00

Plan the trip. Look at the costs of it all for TWO people. For passage, meals, activities along the way.

Then take that number, divide it in half, and see if it's still worth it.

For me, that's killed any blue pill plans that I ever have had because I prefer to save the money, drop it into my stocks, and get monthly interest on it.

Roastie_haiku_bot · 2019-06-19T22:33:23+00:00

If it flies, floats, or fucks...rent, don't buy.

mechgaige · 2019-06-19T23:36:14+00:00

Personally, I think many MGTOW guys haven't firmly grasped what it means. It means living life your way. Not what anyone else around you wants. I've travelled to 115 countries, and not to bang pussy. But to do something meaningful for me and possibly to those around me. This idea that you are going to Thailand(pick a country) and bang a different pussy every night isn't MGTOW. It's a PUA. MGTOW is deeper than that and it is a lifelong commitment to yourself.

Elvisonvelvet11 · 2019-06-19T23:37:11+00:00

Holy shit! Sounds like a great vacation to go with a close friend! Think of the trim you guys could nail on a voyage like that!

laptopdragon · 2019-06-20T00:22:55+00:00

get a waifu already.

or just go, b/c (imo) travelling is soooooooo much better solo anyways.
even with good friends, there's always a million times where you'd rather do x and they'd rather do y, and when they get to choose and it totally sucks, it sucks 10x fold b/c you knew it was going to suck just hearing about it.

anyways, what else can I say, build a robotic dog that can swim and take that?

Title	I miss my vacation plans
Author	TigPlaze
Upvotes	33
Comments	62
Date	June 19, 2019 6:46 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW2
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